What to do? Qin An Ning had no good idea for the time being.

Just like Meng Yu said, her father had developed a personality over decades, and it would be extremely difficult to change him. Her mother was also weak-willed and couldn't stand up for herself.

"If you want to resolve this situation in your family, someone must step forward to take over the management and have the final say in the family.

This person must have the ability to suppress your father and the means to compete with your grandparents.

Use your brain to find solutions, don't use brute force.

If necessary, they will resort to some tactics, such as getting hold of someone they care about or using leverage that forces them to compromise.”

These are easy to say, but not easy to do.

Although this era is a bit distorted and fathers are neither fathers nor sons often happen, filial piety is still very important in ordinary families.

The parents are still alive, but they let a child take charge of the household and ask him to fight against the injustice of his grandparents.

Given the character of Meng Yu's grandparents, they will definitely make these things known to everyone and use public opinion to achieve their goals. One can imagine the pressure this person has to bear.

After listening to Qin An Ning's words, Meng Yu had already figured it out. This family must change.

Otherwise, their family will spend their whole lives doing hard labor for their grandparents and uncles and will always be exploited.

After she got married, she was far away from home and no one could take care of her. But she still had parents and younger brothers and sisters at home, and she wanted to free them from this oppressive life.

Fortunately, my second brother was able to stand up for himself. He had always hated what his grandparents did and had had several conflicts with them.

It's just that I was too young and didn't think it through. I only knew how to make direct accusations, but I was scolded by my grandparents for being unfilial and ended up at a disadvantage.

After returning home today, she will have a good talk with her second brother. He is the eldest son in the family and his sister-in-law are still young, so he must shoulder this responsibility.

"Ningning, thank you. After talking to you, I know what to do."

A faint smile appeared on Meng Yu's face, and he seemed to feel a lot more relaxed.

"There's no need to be so polite. After you join the army, you can write to me if you encounter anything you can't figure out.

Even if I can't help you, I can still be your tree hole."

Meng Yu chuckled, "Don't worry, you'll be able to run without me. I have something I want to trouble you with right now."

Qin An Ning straightened his expression and asked, "What's the matter?"

"I always remember what you told me not to give up learning. After the training on medicinal herb cultivation and reading the information you provided, I became very interested in Chinese medicine.

Pei Qian said that the job placement issue for military wives was not being resolved quickly, and many of them were still unemployed.

I just arrived there and there won't be a job for me for a while, so I want to take this time to learn about Chinese medicine.

Could you recommend some books that are suitable for my current stage of study? I would like to buy a few to take home and read."

Qin Anning leaned back in his chair and said nonchalantly, "Oh, I thought it was something else.

No need to buy, I have them here, I'll find some books for you to take back later."

Meng Yu quickly waved her hand and refused, "No, no, I can't take your book. You still need it. I can go out and buy it myself."

Her face flushed as she hurried to explain, "You're saying it as if I'm asking you for a book, but that's not what I meant."

Qin An Ning couldn't help laughing at her anxious look, "Alright, alright, I don't know you, you definitely didn't mean that, I want to give it to you.

To put it bluntly, do you think that at my current level, I still need to read books at the level you are reading?

Those books are of no use to me, so I'd rather give them to you to study hard.

If you really feel bad about it, then wait until you've read it thoroughly and don't need it anymore, then mail it back to me and I'll consider it a loan."

This time Meng Yu did not refuse and agreed readily.

"Okay, I'll definitely take good care of those books. I'll mail them back to you when I'm done reading them."

Qin An Ning saw that the time was almost up, so she pulled Meng Yu to the kitchen and said to her without any hesitation, "Come on, let's go cook. You come and help."

Qin An Ning's behavior of not being polite to her made Meng Yu feel relaxed and happy, and she followed him happily.

Qin An Ning smiled knowingly when she saw a piece of meat and a fish that Lu Cheng had secretly put in the kitchen at some point.

"Ningning, let me kill the fish first." Lu Cheng saw Qin An Ning enter the kitchen and hurriedly followed.

Lu Cheng usually cooks fish at home. Qin Anning hates tasks like scaling and removing fish intestines.

"No need. Meng Yu and I are busy. Go chat with Pei Qian."

It was nothing for her and Meng Yu to be so familiar with each other, but Pei Qian was not familiar with them yet, so it would be bad to ignore the guests.

Dinner consisted of four dishes and a soup, not a particularly high standard, but it contained fish and meat, and the hospitality was not impolite.

Lu Cheng's social skills are really amazing. In just an hour or two, he and Pei Qian became visibly closer.

During the meal, Pei Qian was no longer so reserved and would even initiate conversation.

The meal was easy and enjoyable.

After dinner, Meng Yu and Pei Qian were about to leave, and Qin An Ning didn't want to keep them any longer.

"Wait a moment, I'll go get the wedding gift for you." Qin An Ning said and went upstairs.

At this time, wedding gifts are usually thermoses, enamel basins, etc., and some people will also give the Little Red Book.

When she got married, Meng Yu and Wu Yanli gave her towels, blankets and sheets, which were very valuable gifts.

So when she knew Meng Yu was going to get married after November 11, she had already prepared a gift, which was a red coat.

Red clothes are hard to buy nowadays, and she bought this one when she was in Hai City.

Qin An Ning wrapped another red envelope of ten yuan and put it in her pocket. She was afraid that if she gave too much, Meng Yu would feel burdened.

After giving her the gift and a few books he had found for Meng Yu, the two said goodbye.

Qin An Ning said he wanted to drive the two of them there, but Meng Yu refused to agree and had no choice but to send them to the bus stop.

There are not as many people on the bus at this time as during rush hour, but it is still quite crowded.

Through the car window, Qin An Ning saw the tall Pei Qian standing behind Meng Yu, preventing others from squeezing Meng Yu. His arm holding the handrail of the hanging ring seemed to be protecting Meng Yu in his arms.

Meng Yu must be happy to find a husband who cares for her so attentively!

"Wife, let's go for a walk."

The place where they live is very close to Houhai, just a few minutes' walk away.

There was nothing to do anyway, and he couldn't stay at home all the time. The temperature was quite comfortable now, so Qin An Ning nodded in agreement.

On the way, she told Lu Cheng about Qin Ruyue's situation, "What do you think, should we send her back to the Northwest or let her stay and fight with the Huang family?"

Lu Cheng said without thinking, "It's up to you. Do whatever you want to vent your anger."