Chapter 454 Extra 012: No one will keep pushing you forward

Yinhua listened to what Old Lady Ye said, stunned, with mixed feelings.

Ye Huaner looked at Yinhua:

"Yinhua, when you told us that you didn't want to go to the Shen family, you probably wanted us to persuade you, right? But you wanted to stay and you had to ask us to persuade you. Isn't that a bit too cunning?"

Yinhua was shocked: "Cousin...how can you say that about me, cunning?"

Ye Huaner raised her hand: "Don't rush to refute. Let me ask you, did you want us to persuade you at that time? In fact, you didn't want to quit, right?"

Yinhua clenched her hands tightly and hesitated for a long time before she mustered up the courage to say what had been suppressed in her heart for many years:

"I want to go to class... but I don't have the face to go. But... I can't let it go... I don't have the face to do it, but I want someone to help me... wuwu..."

As she spoke, she burst into tears.

Ye Huaner said formally: "If you want help from others, you have to stand up and ask for it first. Instead of waiting for others to push it to you."

"It's like asking someone to lend you money. You have to ask first! You can't just stand there looking pitiful and saying nothing, looking like you're aggrieved. Are you hoping that others will take the initiative to lend you money when they see that you're aggrieved? Isn't that a kind of cunning?"

Yinhua was stunned, tears dropping down her face. Indeed, she had the desire to be persuaded by others back then... This was also a kind of cunning!

Ye Huaner continued, "You are too embarrassed to make demands first, and you want us to persuade you again and again? We stopped persuading you, and you are sad and disappointed. Of course, I believe you don't blame us. But aren't you being too cunning?"

This little thought is harmless, but it makes people uncomfortable.

Pulling her and pushing her again and again, who can bear it?

Moreover, if you persuade him too much, the other party might become even more hypocritical psychologically and may not stay.

Ye Huaner continued, "Although you quit, we didn't persuade you. But before that, didn't my mother always support you? She never gave up on you because you were weak?"

"But then that happened! It was your brother and mother who plotted against my sister!"

"At this juncture, you are too embarrassed to continue attending classes but you don't want to leave. If you had come here honestly and said sorry to my mother and sister, you would have been different from them. How could my mother have misunderstood you? Even if you didn't say anything and continued to attend classes, my mother wouldn't have been angry with you."

"But you clearly want to stay, but you don't take the initiative to ask for it, and you want us to persuade you and comfort you..."

Ye Huaner shook her head.

"My sister is also very valuable! She is the apple of our eye! She is the victim! Do you still want us to take care of your emotions at this juncture?"

"Just because you are weak and helpless! You are pitiful and you are implicated! We have to chase you, persuade you, pull you, and feed everything into your mouth? Is my sister worthless, or are we all cheap people?"

This was one of the reasons why they were so cold when Yinhua said she didn't want to go to the Shen family.

Hearing these words, Yinhua was stunned on the spot.

Yes, she felt too embarrassed to quit at first. She didn't want to leave, but she couldn't open her mouth. She even hoped that others could persuade her.

How could I forget that at that time, cousin Jin had just been plotted against and hurt by her mother and brother.

Just give up if you want to, and give up openly.

But I was unwilling to give up, and I was twisted, hoping that my aunt and cousin would persuade me, comfort me, and take care of my emotions...

Why didn’t she think about the fact that her aunt and cousin were hurt more seriously than her! They also have emotions, so who should take care of them?

They were hurt by her biological mother and brother, and they were obviously the ones who suffered the most...

It's like being stabbed a little bit and then being upset and wanting someone who has been stabbed several times and is seriously injured to treat your wound.

Isn't that very cunning?

The opposite of Tiangang!

It turns out that I am the most hateful one.

The hateful thing is that even though she clearly wants something, she never takes the initiative to fight for it. Instead, she acts like a pitiful weakling and waits for others to pull or push her.

The hateful thing is that she only cares about her own feelings. When she is wronged, others should comfort her and take care of her.

What’s even more hateful is that even though I have given up, I am still unwilling to do so! I couldn't accept this result and kept complaining to myself every day.

As she watched Jinhua become more and more confident and successful, and her career progressed higher and higher, she felt bitter and uncomfortable...

Even Xiaoyan, who arrived late, went up.

She felt humbled that she was not of the same kind as them, yet she was unwilling to associate with ordinary girls in the village.

But aren’t these all things I gave up on myself?

Now that I think about it...my temper is exactly the same as my mother's!

My mother used to be very cowardly and weak, and she always kept everything to herself.

I have always been tolerant, helpless, and always wanted others to feed me, but I couldn't accept the consequences of giving in, and I was unwilling to give in...

Everything just keeps piling up!

Then slowly, gradually...the things that had been suppressed for so long burst out and turned into the ugly appearance it is now.

It turns out that my current self is the Wei Si Ya of the past!

If I continue like this, I will become Wei Si Ya now!

Ye Huan'er sighed and looked at her: "Go get what you want. No one will push you all the time. Yinhua, I've said everything I need to say. I can only help you up to this point."

Old Lady Ye also looked at Yinhua: "In this situation, you should think carefully about how to proceed in the future."

"Grandma knows you are confused right now, but I still need to say what I need to say. Kang Kang's situation...either you stay home and find a husband, or I'll find a good family for you to marry into. You are not young anymore, it's time to consider it."

Yinhua's mind was already in a mess, and now after hearing these words, she became even more confused.

She only felt layer after layer of huge nets covering her, leaving her with no way to escape or hide.

But you are right, it is time to consider it!

I don't want to face it, but I still have to face it.

What is bound to happen will eventually happen.

Life doesn't give anyone time to prepare.

Yinhua choked up and nodded: "I understand."

"Okay, you go back first."

Yinhua wiped her tears and turned away.

When he walked out of the hall, he was startled to see Jinhua standing there.

She was wearing an orange brocade dress, a golden hairpin on her head, had a fair face and outstanding charm, and was already a real lady.

There is no longer any sign of them sleeping together since childhood.

Looking at her, Yinhua felt empty inside, all kinds of emotions surged up, and finally all turned into a forced smile: "Sister."

Jinhua pursed her lips. She wanted to say something, but she couldn't utter a word.

Finally, I could only nod and say, "Yinhua, just say whatever is on your mind."

"good."