"It's just that this matter is of great importance, and my husband and I take it very seriously. We wanted to discuss the etiquette with Lord Anmin and his wife as soon as possible, so we took the liberty of coming to their house."

He Chengye and Lu spoke very humbly, and their every move showed respect and courtesy.

Su Shaoyuan and Lu had only seen He Yanxiu before, and thought that he was excellent in everything, whether in appearance, talent, or interpersonal skills. Now that they have met his parents, they immediately understand why He Yanxiu is so outstanding.

This is how his parents taught him, so it is natural for He Yanxiu to do the same.

From this we can see that the He family has a good tradition.

For a woman, getting married is not just about being in love with each other. The most important thing is the family background, family traditions, and the relationships between the husband's family members.

He Chengye and Lu are like this, and Old Madam He loves Su Yujin very much. Her younger brother-in-law He Yanzhou is still young and is said to be smart, lively and sensible...

It can be said that this marriage is a match made in heaven and there is nothing inappropriate about it.

Su Shaoyuan and Lu were delighted, and had a pleasant conversation with He Chengye and Lu about the six rites.

The two families even sat together at noon and had a happy lunch. They chatted until the sun was setting, and then He Chengye and Lu said goodbye.

Su Shaoyuan and Lu went out to see him off.

Before leaving, Mrs. Lu held Mrs. Lu's hand and said with a smile, "We haven't met for a long time. Logically speaking, we should focus on the marriage of Yujin and Yanxiu."

"It's just that my husband and I only come to the capital a limited number of times each year, and time is tight, so I thought of telling Madam He about this matter, and Madam He, please help me keep an eye on it."

"As Madam said, our two families are already relatives and have a very close relationship. Just speak frankly if you have anything to say." Mrs. Lu also said with a smile.

"Mrs. He has seen it, too. I am Yu Jin's aunt, and I have a son and a daughter. My son is a man of great ideas, and he makes his own decisions about everything. He has his own plans for marriage, and I can't say anything to my husband, so I can only let him do what he wants."

Mrs. Lu said, "I also thought that no matter what kind of marriage he finds, I, as the future mother-in-law, will treat the girls of other families well in the future. It's not a big deal."

"It's just that my little daughter has reached the age of marriage, but she has yet to find a suitable marriage. My husband and I are thinking that Shao Yuan will be working in the capital, and Yu Jin will also be in the capital. If Ruoruo can also find a suitable husband in the capital, the three siblings can take care of each other, which is quite good."

"So I just asked Madam to help me keep an eye out and see if there is a suitable family and help me find a suitable one."

Hearing this, Mrs. Lu smiled even more. "I thought Madam wanted me to help with something. It turned out to be this matter. Madam, don't worry. Just leave it to me. If there is a suitable family, I will tell Madam."

Seeing that Mrs. Lu agreed readily, Mrs. Lu thanked her repeatedly, "Thank you very much, Madam He."

"There's no need to be polite when we're a family."

While smiling, Lu quickly went through the names of some people she knew who were of the right age, unmarried, and of decent character.

Su Yunruo is good-looking, cheerful and free-spirited, and has a bit of the demeanor of a general's daughter.

But Su Yunruo is proficient in knitting and needlework, and is also dignified and virtuous like a lady from a noble family. A girl like this will never have trouble finding a husband.

But even if you don't have to worry, you still have to find a suitable one.

Su Yunruo is Su Yujin's cousin, which means she is a relative of the He family. We cannot be careless in any way and must choose her carefully.

But even if she is selected, the other party must be made aware of the existence of Su Yunruo.

After all, according to the situation in this dynasty, most of the time it is men who come to propose marriage...

Lu thought for a while and felt that instead of screening and looking for people, it would be better to take Su Yunruo out to various banquets when they came across them.

Cast your net everywhere and focus on catching fish! Very good!

After Lu had thought about this matter, he began to arrange to invite an official matchmaker.

The matchmaker goes to the woman's home to propose marriage. This is the first step of the six rituals, Nacai.

The gift that is sent to the woman's family on the day of the proposal must also be grand and in accordance with the rules.

In addition to some auspicious items according to customs, Lu planned to add some extra ones to show his importance.

But, what should I add?

Lu searched the warehouse for a long time, but felt that he couldn't pick out any good ones, so he simply opened his own private warehouse and picked one or two from there.

After picking out the things in her private storehouse, Lu still felt that it was not enough. After thinking it over, she went to Madam He's yard in the afternoon of that day.

Madam He had just woken up from her nap. Before she could come to her senses, she yawned and asked, "Why are you here at this time?"

"I was originally preparing for the betrothal ceremony, but seeing that the weather was hot today, I asked someone to cook some rock sugar, mung bean and lily soup, and brought it to my mother to cool her down."

Mrs. Lu smiled very flatteringly, "Also report to mother what your daughter-in-law has prepared in the past two days. This is the gift list. Would mother like to take a look?"

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Mrs. Lu was very prudent in her work, and Mrs. He was originally very relieved, but since this was related to the marriage of He Yanxiu and Su Yujin, Mrs. He still took it and looked at it carefully.

"All good." Madam He nodded slightly, "But why is there so much space at the back?"

"My daughter-in-law wanted to add some more, but she didn't know what to add, so she came to ask mother for advice..."

Hearing what Lu said, Madam He immediately understood the key point and reached out to touch Lu's forehead. "You, why don't you just say it out loud?"

After that, he told the maid beside him to fetch the key to the storeroom and said, "Go pick out the best ones. Remember, pick the best ones!"

Lu has been married to the He family for so many years, and no one has ever asked her for help. But now that her granddaughter-in-law has come to her, she has to act with dignity and do whatever she says.

"Thank you, mother." Mrs. Lu thanked him with a smile, but then added, "I'll pick out the good ones, but you don't have to take the best..."

The best should be saved for later so that you can enjoy it when giving the bride price.

"It's okay." Madam He waved her hand nonchalantly, "Just do as I say. I know what you're thinking about. When the time comes to send the betrothal gifts, I'll go to the Emperor and the Imperial Concubine to ask for some rewards."

Lu: "..."

The old lady is indeed the old lady.

Better than her abacus!

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The gift of marriage was delivered to Su Yujin's home on an auspicious day.

It was just a formality, and the process was pretty easy.

But once the betrothal ceremony was over, the marriage was considered settled, and Su Yujin had to enter the stage of preparing for the wedding.

While waiting to get married, women usually need to do three things.