While traveling, Meng Zhiyu encountered a system that descended from the heavens. Remembering the laws of transmigration, she decisively refused. Who knew that upon opening her eyes, she had still ...
Song Guangye thought that he was not the kind of person who wanted to find a daughter of a wealthy family and rely on his partner and his in-laws to have enough food and clothing.
His family was poor and he had little money, but he tried his best to be nice to Li Tingman and gave her gifts.
But every time, Li Tingman would give him more and better things. When buying things in the county town, he was used to saving money and bought those low-priced but practical items, but Li Tingman always wanted to spend her own money to buy him good things.
Today she even said that she would pay for building him a single room, which made him completely unable to bear it. He was with Li Tingman not for her money.
Li Tingman's actions always put him under great pressure and made him feel guilty. He was worried that he could not give her a better life, and he was also annoyed that he always seemed to have to rely on her and take advantage of her.
"Sister Zhiyu, Sister Qingqing, please go find her. We both need some quiet time." He also needed to think about it carefully.
Meng Zhiyu saw his struggle but didn't say much. Outsiders can't interfere in matters of the heart. They have to adjust themselves and figure out how to get along with each other.
Finally, the two found Li Tingman by the small river in the village, staring at the river in a daze with her head down.
Meng Zhiyu and Li Qingqing sat aside, neither of them saying a word, just staring blankly with her.
After a while, Li Tingman came back to his senses and asked, "Why are you here?"
"You suddenly threw a package at us, and we chased you into your house, but found no one there, so we went to the front to look for Brother Song, and finally found us here." Meng Zhiyu brushed the hair that was blown off her face by the wind behind her ears.
After she was sure that everyone was fine, she stopped worrying and sat there leisurely, feeling the cool breeze from the river, feeling very comfortable.
The relationship problems between boyfriends and girlfriends still need to be resolved through mutual adjustment between the two. It is useless for others to interfere. It may make things worse or get themselves into trouble.
Seeing that Meng Zhiyu didn't ask anything, Li Qingqing wisely kept her mouth shut. She knew that since her brain wasn't very bright, she should watch what others did. This was the experience she had drawn from her own personal experience.
"You said I just want him to have a better life, what's wrong with that?" After all, they are together and will be a family in the future. What's hers is also his, so why bother about it?
She gave him food because she felt that he was not in good health. She knew very well what his family conditions were like. Was it wrong to want to supplement him with more food while he was still young and growing?
As for the house, it would be more convenient for one person to live in it if three people lived there. After they got married, if I got up at night, even if I moved very lightly, I would wake him up.
What's more, he had told him and her that Jiang Zhiqing had a habit of talking in his sleep, and she did this to help him sleep more peacefully at night.
The more Li Tingman thought about it, the more aggrieved she felt. She couldn't help but feel her eyes turn red. She pulled the grass on the ground with her hands to vent her emotions.
Meng Zhiyu glanced at Qingcao, who had been torn to pieces by five horses, and sighed softly, "Men, whether rich or poor, all have one thing in common: they love to save face."
For example, He Zhida. Others don’t know that she has read books, but she knows that this person is a child from a wealthy family on the surface, but in fact he is similar to Song Guangye, at most his situation is better.
His parents were patriarchal and all the good things in the family were given to him. If his sisters had not been married, it would definitely not have been He Zhida's turn to go to the countryside.
I would rather write letters all day and ask my family for money to buy things to save face than give up that ridiculous "self-esteem".
Another example is modern men who feel unbalanced and always find fault when they see that their wives earn more than themselves.
"Really?" Li Tingman was a little puzzled, "But Guangye doesn't seem like that kind of person."
Wasn't she richer than him in her previous life? Why didn't she have such a problem?
"Then why did Song Zhiqing quarrel with you?" Li Qingqing was very good at finding the core of the problem and asked directly.
Meng Zhiyu and Li Qingqing accompanied Li Tingman by the river to enjoy the breeze and the scenery, while Song Guangye was in a daze and melancholy in the house.
He Zhida has always had a sharp ear. After knowing that Song Guangye and Li Tingman had quarreled, he became active. He dressed himself up, went to the roadside to pick wild flowers, and then waited at the gate of the educated youth's yard, waiting for Li Tingman to come back.
Jiang Zengzhi watched him jumping up and down with cold eyes, and watched him holding a bunch of wild flowers with an expectant look on his face, and ran back to complain to Song Guangye.
"Brother Song, that He Zhida is waiting at the gate with a bunch of wild flowers. He must be waiting for Li Zhiqing."
Seeing that he was unmoved, she urged him again, "Brother Song, stop worrying here. Go prepare a gift and wait for Li Zhiqing at the gate."
Just like his mother said, if two people have a quarrel, no matter who is right or wrong, as long as it does not involve bottom line issues, the man must admit his mistake first, and then analyze the matter gently with his partner after reconciliation.
Jiang Zengzhi looked at Song Guangye who was competing with him, and felt so disappointed. He was about to be stolen away by someone, but he was still so sad and sentimental. Didn't he want a partner anymore?
When Song Guangye heard that He Zhida was waiting outside with gifts, he felt a little nervous, but then he thought that He Zhida seemed to have a wealthy family, and that he and Li Tingman were what the adults called a good match, right?
"Go and play by yourself. I want to be alone." Song Guangye pushed away Jiang Zengzhi's hand and lay motionless on the kang.
Jiang Zengzhi looked at the dejected Song Guangye and became angry. "If you want Jingjing, if you want Jingjing, then think about it. When your partner runs away with someone else, you can go with Jingjing."
He Zhida stood at the door for a long time before blocking Li Tingman, who was coming slowly after getting enough wind.
"Li Zhiqing, I picked these flowers specially. I think they suit you very well. I hope you like them." He Zhida smiled the smile he had practiced countless times in front of the mirror and spoke softly in a low voice.
He was very confident in his smile, and he relied on it every time to conquer one girl after another and make them his admirers.
Unfortunately, Li Tingman was not a young girl, she was an old lady. She coldly pushed away the wild flower that was close to her face and said, "Thank you, but I don't like it."
After saying that, she ignored He Zhida, whose face she hadn't even seen clearly, glanced angrily at the silent door of the house, and walked towards the backyard with hard stomping on the ground.
Seeing that the main person had left, Meng Zhiyu and Li Qingqing hurried back to the backyard. Meng Zhiyu took out the cloth bag on the table and returned it to Li Tingman, "Here, keep it for yourself."
From then on, the cold war between Li Tingman and Song Guangye officially began. Song Guangye no longer went to the backyard to eat, and even if he wanted to eat the two rabbits, Song Guangye would leave after eating.
Li Tingman didn't go to the front to look for him, but Meng Zhiyu and others greeted Song Guangye as usual when they met. They quarreled and it didn't affect the "colleague" relationship between others and Song Guangye.
Time passed day by day, and soon the day of the system truth contest arrived. That morning, Meng Zhiyu got up early, hung a do not disturb sign at the door of the house, locked the door from the inside, and entered the space with excitement.