Chapter 154 Ask yourself less why and ask others more why

Wen Tang nodded, "I thought so!"

As she spoke, her eyes rolled, "To be honest, I don't think that Manman is a good person."

Su Xiuxiu was amused by her appearance, "To be honest, Manman is the most popular person in our group."

Wen Tang covered his mouth and said, "Then I won't say this again."

Su Xiuxiu was overjoyed. "Don't worry, I won't tell on you."

She scooped a spoonful of ice cream into her mouth, feeling the slight coolness in her mouth, and said, "To be honest, a lot of times, Manman's words and actions make me uncomfortable."

"But I can't say anything because she always says it's for my own good. If I react too much, it will seem like I don't know how to appreciate kindness."

"Just like today, it was just a small matter, and I didn't want to get entangled with you in the hospital, but she ignored me and insisted on seeking justice for me. Even though I didn't need such justice, I couldn't blame her afterwards, otherwise it would be that I didn't know what was good for me.

"Do you know what this is called?" Wen Tang asked while biting the spoon.

"Um?"

"pua!"

"ah?"

"Brainwashing, brainwashing," Wen Tang quickly corrected himself.

But Su Xiuxiu still didn’t quite understand.

"It's using verbal cues to control your thoughts."

"You may just feel uncomfortable at first, but when she keeps saying, 'This is for your own good,' you start to doubt yourself and think you are being ungrateful."

Su Xiuxiu nodded immediately. "Yes, yes. The more she talks, the more I reflect on myself."

Wen Tang winked at her and said, "I'll give you a good idea."

Su Xiuxiu looked like she was listening attentively.

Wen Tang gave a motto for self-reflection, "Examine yourself three times a day, am I too polite, am I giving him face, should I take action?"

"Also," Wen Tang took a sip of coffee and continued, "Ask yourself less about why and ask others more about why."

"Don't be afraid of others talking about you behind your back. If one person says I'm not good, it's that person who is not good. If a group of people say I'm not good, it must be that they discussed it together."

“Also, instead of reflecting on yourself, you should blame others.”

Wen Tang's matter-of-fact words made Su Xiuxiu open her eyes wide.

Wen Tang patted her shoulder across the table and said, "As a person, you should be strict with others and lenient with yourself!"

Su Xiuxiu wanted to say that what you said seemed to be wrong, because the original version was: Be strict with yourself and lenient with others.

But the way she looked at Wen Tang, it was obvious that this was the version in Wen Tang's mind.

Otherwise, I wouldn't be examining myself three times a day, wondering if I was too polite, if I gave him face, or if I should take action.

Wen Tang took his hand back and started eating the cake. "Eat. When I'm full, I'll forgive the whole world."

Su Xiuxiu: “…”

But listening to Wen Tang's words...it really felt good!

"Okay, next time don't reflect on yourself and blame others," she picked up the coffee.

Wen Tang responded with a tacit “Fuck!”

After eating the cake, drinking coffee and enjoying the ice cream, Wen Tang packed another portion before parting with Su Xiuxiu.

Su Xiuxiu returned to the art troupe and she returned to the military family compound.

Carrying the small cake, Wen Tang went back happily.

Thinking that she would come to collect the remaining 1,900 yuan tomorrow, Wen Tang felt that she should pack two more small cakes.

The little cakes are delicious and she loves them.

Strawberry, mango, chocolate, even matcha flavor, she can eat it cleanly.

When Wen Tang was on his bumpy ride back, it was already five o'clock in the afternoon and the sun was setting.

Wen Tang had just washed his hands and face when Gu Yanli came back.

Looking at the small cake on the table and then at Gu Yanli, she realized that it was too late for her to sell the stolen goods.

"husband?"

"You're back?"

Her smile with curved eyebrows and eyes made people feel distracted.

Then she moved to the table in small steps and pointed at the small cake on the table. "Honey, this is the small cake I bought for you. Do you like it?"

Gu Yanli followed her steps to the table. He didn't like sweet things very much.

But from Wen Tang's expression, it can be seen that Wen Tang likes it very much.

So Gu Yanli wanted to tease her, "Did you bring it for me?"

"Yeah!" Wen Tang nodded with a smile on his face.

"My wife is so nice. I'm just hungry."

Wen Tang: Oh, I should have bought two yuan earlier, although I spent a little too much today.

But how can the food that a beautiful girl loves to eat be considered consumption?

Gu Yanli picked up the fork and scooped out a piece.

Wen Tang's eyes followed the cake on the fork.

at last……

The silky and sweet cake spread in his mouth. Wen Tang's eyes lit up and he said vaguely, "Why are you trying to hurt me?"

Gu Yanli: ???

Could it be that he really saw it wrong?

Isn’t this girl so greedy for such a small cake?

And he might have misunderstood the meaning. This cake was actually brought for him to eat?

But Wen Tang quickly said, "It makes me like you so much."

"Woo woo, today I like you more than yesterday."

Gu Yanli: It really scared me.

Although Wen Tang was craving for the cake, he still shared the cake he brought back with Gu Yanli, and they ate it together, one bite at a time.

Even the food that Wen Tang accidentally dropped on him was eaten by Gu Yanli.

After sleeping until eight o'clock, Wen Tang got up in a hurry, washed up, put on his backpack and rushed to catch the bus.

I was able to eat something to fill my stomach only when I got to the city.

After eating, it was already past ten o'clock.

But fortunately, she had an appointment with Feng Jiao quite late yesterday, so she still had plenty of time.

After strolling around and buying some fruits, Wen Tang headed towards the hospital.

I arrived half an hour early and waited at the same place as yesterday.

When Wen Tang was dozing off while waiting, Feng Jiao came with a thermos lunch box in her hand.

There was another person following her today.

This man looked older than Feng Jiao, but judging from their facial features, the age difference between them could not be more than ten years.

The two people's facial features are 60% similar.

Wen Tang guessed that the two must be sisters.

Of course, it is also possible that the other party is Feng Jiao’s aunt or uncle.

Many girls look like their aunts or uncles, and in terms of age, this possibility is also very high.

So Wen Tang decided to keep his mouth shut and not talk nonsense.

When Wen Tang saw Feng Jiao, he quickly stood up.

Seeing Wen Tang, Feng Jiao smiled and said to the person next to her, "Look, that's the girl I told you about, the one who sold me Polygonum multiflorum."

"You know what, she is indeed a pretty girl, and looks very pure," Feng Wei beside her said with a smile.

Then he stretched the handbag in his hand and asked Feng Jiao, "Is it safe to give her all this money later?"

Feng Jiao thought about it and said, "Ask her. If it doesn't work, let the guards send her back."

"Her husband is also in the army."

"Yes, he is under the management of my brother-in-law. I think his surname is Gu, and his name is Yan Li."

Feng Wei was surprised, "What a coincidence."

She looked down at the money in her hand and said, "If you hadn't asked me to bring the money, I would have suspected that she was targeting our family."

Feng Jiao shook her head. "No, she's a very innocent child. When she came into our father's ward yesterday, she was very well behaved. I was in the inner room, and she was sitting in the outer room like a child who had made a mistake. She was timid and didn't look around at all."