Xu Qingshan saw his mother's intention and waved his hands in a naive manner, "Mom, I just got married and it's the hottest time of the year. I don't plan to have children in the next few years. Besides, I want to try my hand at business. I'm young, so I should go out more.

Are the ones I have with my brothers not enough for you to take care of? Wait until you have more money, then consider taking them.

Otherwise, we will be so poor, relying on you and dad for support, how can we live? We can’t let our wife and children starve.”

Xu's mother was a little unaccustomed to his sensible behavior and laughed at him: "Oh, you can speak human language now. You know how hard your father and I work, but your mind is full of other things. You didn't even mention working a few more work points."

Xu Qingshan spread his hands and said, "Mom, health is the capital of revolution. We can't work day and night. As long as we have enough food and clothes and don't starve to death, that's good enough.

If you want to work, there's always work to do. This is a new society, and it's different from the past. There aren't as many opportunities in the fields as in the city."

Father Xu was an honest countryman. He smoked a Daqianmen cigarette and said with a smile, "Then go ahead and do it. You are much more promising than your father and I. Your mother and I will take care of this little piece of land. You can just go ahead and do it without worry.

If you really can't make it in the city, then come back. Our family won't starve anyway. As for children, it doesn't matter whether you want them or not. We have many grandchildren, so we don't lack people to carry on the family line.

If you want to have a child, then have one. If you don’t want to have one, forget it. We’re urging you to get married, not to have children.”

The child has grown up and has his own ideas. No matter how many times you urge him, he will still be impatient. He will have endless quarrels with you, but he is too lazy to be bothered.

If he doesn't give birth, there will be no one to break the pot for him in the future, and that's his business.

How many children has he had? Is he still worried that he won’t be able to explain to his ancestors after he passes away?

Xu Qingshan and Lu Sidi are both still children. If they have a child, they will leave the baby to them.

Forget it, let's just take it easy for two years, until they are older and can take on the responsibilities of the family.

If you really have a child, you should help as much as you can. They are your own children, so you should treat them equally.

What do you have that gives this and not that, feels fearless when being favored, and has no thoughts in mind when being neglected?

Wouldn't the drawbacks of providing for the elderly in the future emerge? People would fight to the death over who contributed more and who contributed less.

Brotherhood is very weak. He has seen so many cases of it in the village.

Try to be nice to all your sons, because when he and his wife are unable to move in the future, they will have to rely on them. This is what is called raising sons to provide for your old age.

Xu Qingshan shook his head and said firmly: "I won't have a baby for now. Who would I be anxious about if someone urged me to do so?"

This was what he and his deceased brother Lu had agreed on. They would not have children in the next few years. They would build up their family business first so that their children would have a better starting point in the future.

Your family is extremely poor, and if you raise a child in even greater poverty, wouldn't you feel inferior if the child is far behind others?

Lu Sidi was very clear-headed and she didn't want her child to suffer.

Xu's mother glared at him and said, "Even food can't stop your mouth. Who cares whether you give birth or not? Your father and I don't care about that. I've thought about it.

Let's go to the city together. You can help me. It's not convenient for me to go alone. It's just right that you are tall and strong, so you can give me courage.

Isn’t that what you do when you raise a son, sister? "

Miao Xiuying agreed: "Let him go with you, it's a good opportunity to learn. Once he has experience, you can buy a small shop. With your skills, you can make a lot of money.

Don't stay at home. If you have enough money and want to find someone to take care of your child, you should take the first step and broaden your horizons. Don't think that this is a risky move.

The big cities are booming, and you too should seize this golden period to make money."

Xu's mother was so eager to make a move that the eldest daughter-in-law said tactfully, "Mom, you go to the city first. The second son's family and I will take care of the house. We will make sure that you can take care of the house and the outside world. If you want to leave, we will come to help you. We can also bring the child to the city and let them go to school in the city."

Now that I have made money, I don’t have to worry about the few dollars of tuition and book fees. I can definitely afford it.

Be bold and direct, rent a house in the county town and live comfortably with your family.

She was still hesitant before, but after listening to what they said, even she felt a little excited.

They do what others don't. The villagers can say whatever they want. As long as they can make money, they will do anything.

Xu's father also supported it, "We still have some money at home, let's use it first. If we work together, what can't be done?"

When Xu's mother heard this, she felt more confident. She said cheerfully, "Then I'll pack up and go into the city. I'll do it right away without hesitation."

Xu Qingshan waved his hand and said, "Work hard, only then can you support your family. The subsidy my wife gives me is not enough for me.

I need to earn more so I don’t have to worry about buying a dress and worrying about everything. It makes me feel like a failure as a man.”

Xu's mother liked to see him so motivated, "Okay, let's work together and build a career that will impress your father, so that he won't always think that I can only stay around the kitchen stove.

I have many strengths. If he hadn't been so honest, how could a good girl like me have been his?"

Father Xu was afraid that she would go on to talk about herself at length again, so he raised his hand and told her to eat quickly.

Xu Qingshan picked up some food for Lu Sidi and said gently, "Eat more, you are too thin."

Lu Sidi smiled shyly, and gave her all the meat and fish distributed by the family, including his own share.

She never listens to what men say, but only looks at what they do. Some men are just talk and no action, so it's useless to find them.

Find a man who is consistent in his words and actions and who cares for you from the bottom of his heart. He will only love you if he cares about you.

It's not a big deal, and you still expect him to pay anything for you? Just die soon.

It’s no secret that everyone in the Lu family is very talented in love, and regardless of gender, they are all very clear about their own strengths.

From Lu Li to Lu Sidi, they are all successful cases. The only one who is not married is Lu Miaoyan.

Fortunately, she is still young, so there is no need to rush. I can pick a better one for her in the future. With so many relatives around, why should I be afraid that she will marry an ugly one?

If you really don't obey and go to live a hard life with a man, no one will bother to persuade you, let alone stop you, respecting the fate of others.

After the meal, the house was bustling with activity and laughter never stopped.

Brother Lu hadn't been this happy for a long time. He had a couple of drinks and felt dizzy.

Song Jingtian had a blank expression on her face. Lu Li, unable to handle the alcohol, acted like a spoiled child in front of her.

Jiang Yan couldn't bear it any longer. These two people, professional dog abusers, right? It made her miss her man a little.

Oh, it’s better to have a husband. He feeds them a lot of dog food and shows off his love without any guilt at all.

That would be awesome, okay?