Zhang Yulan took the time to glance at him, "You said she wants to build the motherland, but you are still trying to help her. Aren't you holding her back? She is from a big city, has education, and will have more opportunities in the future. You are just a country bumpkin.

Your mother treats you like the apple of her eye. Would she let you marry a woman from another place? She wants to find you a local woman who knows her background well. At least she won't be afraid of your wife running away in the future.

There are not many educated youth in our village who returned to the city and abandoned their husbands and children, wives and daughters. I think you just don't learn your lesson.

If your mother really wants to make a filial son out of you, Xia Zhiqing is a good person, but you two are not a good match. I am too lazy to even bring this up. "

Shen Chuanzong, Li Dashan and Yang Gangtie were all raised by her. They were considered half of her family's juniors. If she met good ones, she would definitely pay attention to them.

But he was not sure about the educated youth matter. It would be fine if the two of them were together, but he was afraid that their hearts would not be together and they would separate halfway, and she would not have seen Shen Chuanzong's mother!

Seeing her hesitation, Shen Chuanzong shook her arm and said in a flattering way, "Aunt, I have to rely on you to introduce me to someone I want to marry. The ones my mother has found are all ugly.

That woman's thighs are thicker than my waist. If she sits down, I will die. You can be my matchmaker. You are more reliable than my mother."

From the perspective of the older generation, a daughter-in-law should be thrifty, have a strong waist and legs, and be good at giving birth to sons.

Is it necessary to give birth to a child if there are only pots and pans at home? The same goes for daughters. It's a new era, but you still look at things with old-fashioned eyes.

You also said that if you die, you won't be able to explain to your ancestors. Now that you are dead, what do you need to explain to them?

Lu Xiao looked at Shen Chuanzong and said solemnly, “That educated youth Xia went to the countryside with your sister-in-law. I have a good impression of her, which means she is not a bad person.

If you can marry her, she is educated, hardworking, and down-to-earth. Your family must be very lucky. I'm just afraid that she doesn't like you."

Shen Chuanzong's attention was diverted again. He rubbed his hands and said embarrassedly: "Brother Lu, dear brother, we grew up together. I obeyed you. You already have three children, but my wife is still nowhere to be seen.

My sister-in-law is close to her, so you can ask her to speak for me!"

Woohoo, he also wants to find a cultured person, supporting him won’t be a problem, he can afford it.

His family doesn't favor boys over girls. It's mainly because his mother wants to have both a son and a daughter. Since she has given birth to several daughters, wouldn't it be necessary for her to give birth to a son to take care of her in her old age?

If a woman marries a man who becomes her husband, she will be laughed at in the countryside. It's an old generation's idea and it's hard to change.

But his mother can't make the decision for him, and Shen Chuanzong is a man with his own ideas, not a mama's boy.

Lu Li was peeling roasted peanuts for Song Jingtian. He said speechlessly, "After all this time, you've finally fallen for the educated youth. No wonder you disagree with whatever others say.

This opportunity has to be fought for by yourself. You are still expecting women to take the initiative. As a man, you have to be shameless. As the saying goes, a strong woman is afraid of a clinging man. You have to show your sincerity.

Just talking about your upper and lower lips, what are you thinking about?"

Shen Chuanzong chuckled, "Aren't you afraid of Tang her? I'm also quite embarrassed."

Lu Li's eyes were even more contemptuous. "You don't take the initiative, and you don't tell the matchmaker what you want. Are you waiting for that woman to have a burglary relationship with you? I've never seen a man as wooden as you.

We are men, what are we afraid of? If it doesn't work out, we can just make friends. You are so long-winded and cautious. If I were a woman, I wouldn't care about you either, Dashan, Gangtie, what do you think?"

The two touched their noses and kept silent. They were also single, so how could they have the nerve to say anything about Shen Chuanzong?

Shen Chuanzong at least has a goal. They haven't thought about what kind of person to marry, so they can only follow the arrangements of their family.

Li Dashan scratched his head: "Let's not talk about Shen Chuanzong. If I want to marry an educated youth, my mother can hang herself with a rope."

The reputation of the educated youth in the brigade was not good, and it was a hassle to get around.

As long as you can return to the city, you will be the one left behind. No one will think of taking you back to the city. How can you be so lucky!

Yang Gangtie spread his hands and said, "My mother said that if I dare to have ideas about the educated youth, she will sever the mother-son relationship with me, and neither of us has a say.

If he really wants to, he can ask his sister-in-law to ask for him, so that he can give up and stop worrying about it every day."

Jiang Yan woke up when she heard the noise outside. She yawned and got up to pack up.

She came out and heard what they were saying. She was curious: "Did Shen Chuanzong fall in love with the educated youth?"

She didn't hear what was said before, so she didn't know it was Xia Dongchun. Lu Xiao took over the conversation, "Yes, let's ask your sister-in-law, does that educated youth have any plans to get married?"

Oh no, he fell in love with Xia Dongchun. Jiang Yan sat aside, and Shen Chuanzong poured water for her attentively, smiling so much that his eyes narrowed.

"Sister-in-law, dear sister-in-law, please ask me and let me give up. Otherwise, I will be worried and can't sleep well at night. My parents are old and they are looking forward to me getting married and having children!"

Jiang Yan took a sip, looked at her burning eyes, and blinked: "Since you said so, I'll say it in advance. Marriage is a matter of mutual consent. It won't work without fate.

I can ask you what her plan is. Whether it will succeed or not depends on you. In my opinion, if a man takes the initiative, he can chase any woman.

You are not good at talking, you can't provide emotional value, and your family is poor. Which woman would want to live a poor life with you? You are crazy, you will run away!"

This made everyone else in the room laugh. It makes sense that a woman marries a man to get clothes and food, just to find a man with whom she can live.

If you are not sincere, how can I live? I might as well divorce you. At least if one person is well fed, the whole family will not be hungry.

If I come back home tired after a day of work and see a useless person like you, and make myself angry, then wouldn't my breasts have problems if I were to get angry all the time?

Since they were going to introduce each other, Jiang Yan thought of something and continued, "Don't you mention how many sisters you have? In the future, your wife will have to give birth to a son!"

If that were the case, Jiang Yan would not bother to make this trip at all. It would be a waste. She did not want to push Xia Dongchun into the fire pit. It was not like they had any deep hatred.

Shen Chuanzong quickly expressed his attitude: "Sister-in-law, I have three sisters above me, and I am the youngest. My mother wants to give birth to a son to pass on the incense, but I don't have this plan. Anyway, my children have grown up and have to be sent away, so I don't bother to worry about it.

My mother can't control me. If she really keeps nagging me, I will just separate from my wife and live on my own. As for what others say about filial piety or not, I just ignore it because I don't have such good hearing.

I just want to live my life well. This face is for others to see. Only I know whether I live a good life or not. I can still distinguish between the inside and the outside.

My mother said that I have too many ideas and it gives me a headache. I think if a man is easily influenced, the woman will be in trouble if she marries him. Am I right?"