Miao Xiuying glanced at Miao Lei, a young man of about eighteen or nineteen years old, at the age of being young, handsome and attractive.

I was busy studying before, but now that I’ve been admitted to university, it’s time to think about my major life events.

"Do you have anyone you like? The aunts are all here. Tell us and we'll give you some advice. Don't marry someone who's out of place or we'll just pretend you're not a relative. You know, the aunts hate trouble the most."

Her own daughter-in-law was carefully selected and was impeccable in all aspects.

If Miao Lei doesn't have eyes and finds someone who can make trouble, then she'd better not go out anymore. She doesn't want anyone to take advantage of Jiang Yan.

They are all here for Jiang Yan. There is no need for Miao Xiuying to be petty. Now that they are married, they must take care of their own family.

A harmonious family is the root of everything. If you make your family a mess for an outsider, wouldn't that be stupid? Get away from her.

Third Aunt Miao Xiuhua smiled and said, "The matchmaker in our village said that he has too high standards and will not discuss marriage with him in the future. It seems that Big Brother has offended someone. Xiaolei, what do you think?"

Almost all the people of the same age as Miao Lei are married. In their brigade, Miao Lei is considered an older unmarried young man.

Those women also said that he had become stupid because of studying so much that he didn’t even know how to get married and have children.

According to Miao Xiuhua, it would be foolish to get married after graduating from college and having a stable job.

Find someone from a working-class family. The two of you will have equal financial resources, so it will be easier for you to raise the child in the future.

Now that he is married and has a family to support, as a man, he should not care about the life and death of his wife at home! What kind of person would he be?

Fourth aunt Miao Xiuli rubbed her hands, exhaled a few breaths of hot air, and slowly said: "Don't make fun of him, don't you see that Xiaolei's face is almost bent to the ground, you can find someone after graduation, there is no rush now, you are still a child.

Don't listen to those people's nonsense. Getting married is not like buying cabbage. You can't return it after you choose it. But you are looking for someone to live with, so you definitely have to be selective.

What comes to your door can't be good, it's all the same as the "seeking a brother and hoping for a brother to come", you can buy it with money, and you have to give money to your mother's family."

As a married woman, Miao Xiuli has taken good care of the family over the years, and no one dares to say a word against her.

It’s not that you can’t support your parents’ home, but there has to be a limit. Once you’re married, you have to think about your own family.

If you always think about your brothers and sisters from your mother's side, how can you live with a man? It will be a sin to have a baby in the future.

Only those old feudal people in the village think that life will be the same no matter who you live with. When you are with the person you love, life will be warm.

If you find someone who is not good enough and give birth to an ugly baby, you will have no hope in your life.

I have to say that the Miao sisters all have some ideas.

Miao Xiuying said seriously: "You have to choose. Whatever others say is true. Our Miao family is poor, but we can't just settle for it. If it really doesn't work, your aunt will find you a female soldier in the army.

Look at your brother, he lives such a lively life, and his wife is a well-deserved female soldier queen, so she always feels safe when she goes out."

Miao Lei is not bad looking, but his bone structure is not as good as Lu Li's. He said embarrassedly: "Brother Li is good looking and can please girls. I am not as good at talking as him, so girls don't like me.

But I will listen to my aunt and study hard, and I will talk about it later. If my aunt finds someone suitable, please introduce them to me!"

Miao Xiuying's current network of contacts is almost all in the family compound. She is so close to those aunts that she is almost wearing the same underwear as them. They can talk about anything, and she is the head of the intelligence team.

There was nothing she didn't know. She knew all the unmarried boys and girls in every family, and she was good at talking.

If the country allows it, she can start a blind date website to introduce potential partners to those who are well-off but unattached, introverted, shy and cannot speak well.

She can get a commission from it and have no worries about food and clothing.

I have to say that Miao Xiuying's ideas are still very advanced.

She waved her hand and said straightforwardly, "Wait until your aunt comes back and I'll see if there's anything suitable for you. But you have to be mentally prepared.

People in the army, both men and women, are very busy. If you want to watch a movie or have a meal with me, you have to make an appointment in advance. If you have time, learn from Xiao Li. It will be enough for you. "

Miao Lei nodded obediently. He always followed his family's arrangements. It wasn't that he was a mama's boy or something. His family was doing it for his own good and would not harm him.

If what he said was really wrong, he would point it out.

Miao Xiuhua was a little distressed, so Miao Xiuying asked her, "It's a great day, why are you worried?"

Miao Xiuhua cracked melon seeds and counted them with her: "How can I not worry? My youngest daughter is like she is obsessed with something. She found a boyfriend in the city. The boy's parents are both working in a textile factory, and the boy is a clerk in a department store.

The man's brother worked in a mine. He died in a mine collapse two years ago, leaving behind his sister-in-law and a pair of children. His younger sister took over his brother's job, so the whole family now has income.

Why did she find a man from the city when we live in a mountainous area? The conditions are not suitable! I am also afraid that the man will not like me, and when I marry him, I will give him a hard time.

There are many people in the city who look down on others. This girl didn't listen to advice and just kept saying how good the man was to her. Didn't my mother treat her well? I was so angry that my chest hurt.

To be honest, his father and I are not feudal and old-fashioned people. If we were to arrange a marriage for her, we would just want to find her someone who is stable and can provide a stable life for her.

Living in the city is good, who doesn't want to live in the city and eat commercial grain? But marriage is very particular about the matching of social status. It is not just about you and the man, but about two families.

We are inferior to her, and you are still trying to get ahead of her. She will think that you can't get married and must marry her son, and she will look down on you even more. We are all experienced people, how can we not understand these twists and turns?"

The person being talked about is Miao Xiuhua’s youngest daughter Wen Panpan, who is seventeen years old and dropped out of school after elementary school.

Her family used their connections to send her to the county town to learn how to make clothes, earning her several yuan a month.

Unexpectedly, she got to know that guy. If I had known this, I would have let her stay at home. It really causes me a lot of worry.

It wasn't that she had a prejudice against the city. She had met the boy's parents twice and always felt that it was weird, but the child liked him, so what could she do? She could only bite the bullet and go ahead.

Both families are discussing the marriage, and engagement is a matter of time.

Miao Xiuying looked at Wen Panpan, who was digging her toes on the ground awkwardly. She had a small face, two ponytails, and was wearing a cotton jacket that was washed so hard that it looked bleached. She looked very uneasy.

She tried to make amends, "Mom, Brother Zhou said that if I marry him, he will keep my salary. We are almost talking about marriage, isn't it too late to say this?

Aunt, the man’s family will be here in a few days, let’s have a meal together and ask you to give me some advice. My mother says I have poor taste.

But Brother Zhou is really nice to me, and he respects women very much.”

As an experienced person, Miao Xiuying understood what these girls were thinking. She did not object, but said happily: "He is really good to you! He is so good to our Panpan, your aunt must take a good look at him.

It's not good. Your aunt is reluctant to let you marry him. Your mother is a hard-mouthed person with a soft heart. She is just afraid that you will follow the old path of others and have a bad life. If you have time, talk to her about it. There is nothing that cannot be talked about. "