Miao Xiuying said casually: "Why do you care whether he gets married or not? Anyway, your mission has been completed. If she doesn't want to get married, it's her own decision to her husband.

Things are different now. If you let her marry someone casually and she is unhappy in the future, won't you still be the one worrying about it? It's better to just let her be.

Besides, girls in their twenties are at the age for having fun, so let her have fun for a few more years. It’s not too late to get married at 30, which is the best age for having children.

She is too young now and is still a child. If you let her have a child, you will take care of it for her. She has her own plans and arrangements.

Furthermore, do girls have to get married? If a man cannot support the family, I do not recommend him to get married. That would ruin the woman's life. The same goes for women. If they cannot assume the responsibilities of a wife and mother, they should not enter into marriage. That would harm both themselves and others.

Why do you think the divorce rate is getting higher and higher? It's because there are so many irresponsible couples who abandon their wives and daughters, husbands and children, and those who are abused at home, no matter how pitiful they are, but people still think that being single is a better way to survive.

Don't worry too much, there's nothing to worry about, just eat when you're supposed to, sleep when you're supposed to, people have so many things to deal with, and there's no way to finish them all."

He Yuzhu was enlightened. She murmured, "Sister, you are the one who sees things clearly! I am such an old-fashioned person. You are making fun of me."

Miao Xiuying said straightforwardly: "What a joke, you are also doing it for the good of the child. There are no wrong parents in the world. Let's put ourselves in their shoes. You have your position and she has her ideas.

Why can't we sit down and talk it out? If the relationship gets too stalemate, it will fade away, and it will be hard to mend it in the future. Let it go. The children are grown up now, let them live the life they want."

He Yuzhu nodded and said in a muffled voice: "Well, I don't care about it anymore, just let her do whatever she wants!"

Miao Xiuying's eyes were filled with memories as she thought of something. "I used to worry so much that my hair fell out in clumps, but it's much better now. The baby's fate has not come yet, so nothing you say will help."

He Yuzhu glanced at Ana Shen, her eyes full of smiles, “Isn’t it because you are anxious to see someone as old as her getting pregnant?

You are right. If she doesn't marry well, it's better not to marry. We have enough food for her at home. When she has plans, I will arrange them for her!

Miao Xiuying got along well with her and continued, "When we have time, let's go climb the Great Wall and visit parks together. We can also learn from the young people and go to the movies. There are good days waiting for us, so don't waste your time on them."

He Yuzhu was interested, and she said on a whim: "Let's make an appointment next month to go to the movies together. My husband is busy with work and has no time for me.

I usually have nothing to do at home, so I just have random thoughts, right? I need someone to entertain me so I don’t get stuck in a rut.”

Miao Xiuying smiled and said, "Okay, I haven't watched the movie yet, so it's settled then."

The two of them were talking and laughing, and when they talked about something annoying, they just stared at each other.

Shen Nian whispered to Jiang Yan, “My mother isn’t talking about me anymore, is she?”

Jiang Yan glanced at her and said, "You have good hearing, and you heard her talking about you. You should think too much. She is talking about family and other things, and the topic has not yet reached you."

Jiang Yan had good hearing and could hear clearly what the two people said.

As people get older, they only care about family matters or gossip around them.

Shen Nian leaned on Jiang Yan, "My mother is almost worried about my not getting married. She also studied abroad, why is she so feudal and traditional? It gives me a headache.

I am a bit rebellious. I can do whatever I want, but what can't others let me do? "

Jiang Yan laughed sullenly: "I can't tell, doesn't she look quite well behaved? She's the type that adults like. Don't worry, things will work out when the time comes. There are people waiting for you."

Shen Nian glanced at Lin Sui quietly. He was using a spoon to dig out the crab roe from the crab. His expression was serious, as if he was performing some complicated surgery.

Her heart softened, "Yes, this is my capital for being willful, Lin Sui, I still want to eat shrimp."

Lin Sui said without complaint: "Okay, I'll peel it for you right away."

He put the scooped crab roe in Shen Nian's bowl and continued to peel shrimps. Shen Nian watched and nodded, becoming more and more satisfied with him.

As a man, you have to choose someone who loves you. Don't be blinded by the desire to find someone you love. Can love be eaten?

After eating cabbage for two years, you become obedient.

Grandma Chen would not let Chen Nian look for a poor boy, not because she looked down on the poor, but because the class is here, and if you want to cross the class, you have to shed a layer of skin.

Most men have an understanding of themselves, and a small number of them are mysteriously confident and think they can control women and make them help them.

This is also the reason why most aristocratic families choose to marry each other. They are well matched and their interests are tied together. No one can afford the consequences of a broken marriage.

Even if you are physically together but spiritually apart, you still have to maintain your marriage.

After the meal, it was already four or five o'clock. Mr. Shen was old and could no longer sit still.

The Shen Nian family had no choice but to return home.

She held Jiang Yan's hand, reluctantly saying, "Xiao Yan, come to my house and play tomorrow. I don't want to be separated from you."

Jiang Yan pushed her and whispered jokingly, "Don't be so clingy. You're a woman, but you like men. Just give up on this idea. I just like the one with eight-pack abs."

Shen Nian was amused by her and didn't know whether to laugh or cry, "What are you thinking about? I was exaggerating a bit, don't I want to go shopping with you? I want to buy some clothes, let you consider it for me.

You have always had better taste in choosing items than I do. My mom says that the clothes I buy are old-fashioned, just like those worn by people in their 50s and 60s. You wear different clothes every day, and you match them well. Many people in school imitate your style! Just pick some for me."

Jiang Yan wanted to pull it off, and responded: "Not tomorrow, maybe next week, I have to go to the military academy to bring food to my man."

By the way, take care of that shameless woman. If you dare to steal her man, I'll kill you.

Shen Nian blinked and said playfully, “Oh, oh, oh, you’re going to the military academy to deliver food to a man. You’re really nice to your man. You have the opposite sex but no humanity. Okay, then let’s do it next week. I’m going back.”

Miao Xiuying brought a lot of bags as return gifts, but He Yuzhu waved her hand and refused.

"Big sister, what are you doing? You came here and brought food and things with you. I'm afraid to come to your house anymore. Take these back and save them for the kids."

Miao Xiuying put them in the trunk of her car and insisted: "They are not expensive, they are just dried seafood from the islands. You can take them back to make soup. They are very delicious. There are also black fungus mushrooms sent from my hometown. They are also delicious when stewed with chicken.

I'm embarrassed. Look at what you bought. I suspect you emptied your house. Don't spend money next time you come. You said you would leave as your own, but this is not the way to leave. You are embarrassing me!"