As a member of the working class, Lin Jingyu, a cargo registrar at a port, transmigrated to the early 1970s during her lunch break.
She unexpectedly discovered that she had entered a chronicl...
Living with someone like that would be too exhausting.
"Sister, wake up!"
Yang Shujue gave her a thumbs up, "You're right. If your values don't align, you'll never have a good life together."
In my opinion, besides mutual affection, two people also need to consider their respective living environments, perspectives on issues, overall outlook, and pursuit of ideals. These are all important aspects of life.
If two people cannot integrate with each other, cannot understand each other, cannot tolerate each other, and cannot persevere with each other, then their lives will definitely be chaotic.
Especially since the two people didn't grow up in the same environment, their life together is bound to be very interesting. In the end, they'll either go their separate ways, or one of them will have to compromise and make the other's life better.
"Marrying someone of equal social standing is indeed more suitable for marriage."
Lin Jingyu said softly, "Of course, the most important thing is the relationship between the two people. Whether it is marrying into a higher social class or marrying into a lower social class, the main thing is whether the two people can truly live together."
Those who have climbed the social ladder must learn if they want to stand tall. They must learn anything they don't know. When you are good enough, you yourself become the social ladder, and other problems are no longer problems.
As for the trivial matters of poor families, most of them can be solved with money. As the old saying goes, poverty makes a couple miserable in every way.
Everyone knows what this means: 99% of the problems that arise in impoverished families are related to money.
I think that to truly marry into a poor family, besides liking the person, the first thing to do is to understand their character and whether they have a moral bottom line. These are actually very important.
Of course, the most important thing is whether this person is ambitious. Only ambitious people are willing to strive and work hard to bring a better life to their families.
Upon hearing this, everyone nodded involuntarily.