In the early 1980s, as the eldest sister returned to the city with her family, Su Xueqing suddenly realized she had transmigrated into a book.
There was no spare room at home, so Su Xueqing s...
Chapter 111: Learn from the mistakes
"Someone was deceived, foolishly deceived." Su Xueqing said, "Girls are the easiest to be deceived, especially girls like you who have a family property to inherit. Girls who don't have money at home can be deceived and deceived into borrowing money everywhere. Men pat their butts and leave, but women owe a lot of debts, and they can only pay them back by themselves."
"They are so stupid." Xiao Wenjun said.
"They think about climbing up the social ladder, thinking they have met their soulmate, thinking they have met their Mr. Right, thinking the man loves them very much, but it's all fake." Su Xueqing said, "They say they will work hard for their future, and that they are temporarily short of money and will give them money, this is a scam."
Yu Guochao's family is really stupid. When it comes to paying money, they still believe that just because others give gold bars or drive cars, they must be rich... Things have come to this point, Yu Guochao's family should reflect on themselves. It's not wrong that they are victims, but they have to reflect on themselves to avoid being cheated again next time.
"As for you, don't be so foolish as to trust others in the future. You must be more careful, okay?" Su Xueqing said.
"Yes, definitely." Xiao Wenjun nodded.
Xiao Wenjun didn't ask who was cheated. She thought maybe her mother heard it outside.
At night, in the bedroom, Ning Yanjing asked.
"Did someone from your relative's family get scammed?" Ning Yanjing asked. "I saw the newspaper. There are several people who got scammed."
"My eldest cousin's daughter." Su Xueqing said.
Su Xueqing didn't tell Xiao Wenjun who it was, Xiao Wenjun didn't understand. Su Xueqing didn't tell Ning Yanjing who it was, Ning Yanjing would guess it sooner or later. Although Su Xueqing and her husband had little contact with Yu Guochao's family, they still had contact.
We are all relatives, and the circle is so small that someone will always say a few words.
Su Xueqing did not hide Ning Yanjing. She did not tell Xiao Wenjun who it was because Xiao Wenjun was too young and she was afraid that Xiao Wenjun would accidentally tell others. Ning Yanjing was an adult, and he could not just say it casually.
The fewer people who knew about this kind of thing, the better. If too many people knew about it, it would be bad for Yu Xiuxiu's future marriage.
"It's Yu Xiuxiu." Su Xueqing said, "She thought she knew a rich second-generation man. She lent him money to make ends meet, slept with him, and now she has a child."
"Are you so easily deceived?" Ning Yanjing said.
"God knows how she could be so easily deceived." Su Xueqing said, "Others asked her for money, but she foolishly believed them. They didn't tell us, and we didn't know either. They were probably afraid that if we knew, we would ruin their plans, so they had to wait until things were settled before telling us. In the end, things turned out like this."
Su Xueqing's tone was not good. "When my aunt told my mother, she also said that I could marry someone as rich as you, so why couldn't their Xiuxiu... Damn it, who I marry has nothing to do with them."
"Don't pay attention to them." Ning Yanjing said.
"My aunt didn't say it in front of me. If she was in front of me, I would definitely ask if she was crazy." Su Xueqing said, "I can't give her face. When they encounter something, they don't reflect on themselves, but blame others. What does my being with you have to do with them?"
Su Xueqing really didn't understand how Aunt Su and the others had the nerve to say such things, as if Yu Xiuxiu was deceived because of Su Xueqing.
"They stare at other people's wealth all day long, but they don't know how hard they work." Su Xueqing said, "Others can marry rich second-generations, can they do the same? They really dare to think and do it."
"Don't be angry. It's not worth getting mad at them." Ning Yanjing consoled.
"I'm not angry, I just know it, and I just want to say it out, so that I can feel better." Su Xueqing said, "If you hadn't asked, I wouldn't have planned to say more. After all, this matter... is really not glorious at all."
Yu Xiuxiu is a relative of Su Xueqing's mother's family. Although Ning Yanjing's relatives also have some problems, it will be much better. Ning Yanjing will deal with those relatives of the Ning family, and those relatives basically don't say much in front of Su Xueqing.
Su Xueqing's maternal relatives rarely came to see Su Xueqing, but Su Xueqing sometimes heard some rumors.
"Yes, there's nothing wrong with wanting to live a good life." Su Xueqing said, "You don't have the ability, and you don't investigate clearly. When something like this happens, you still want to blame others. No wonder their family always has a bad life. They are not clear-headed."
"Yes, their brains are not clear." Ning Yanjing said, "What did mom say?"
"Let's just pretend we don't know." Su Xueqing said, "What else can we do? Even if we know, we can all pretend we don't know. I guess my second sister and eldest sister all know about it. We can't hide this from them."
Zhu Baoqian and Yu Dasao had a grudge, but they were both daughters-in-law of the Yu family. Zhu Baoqian did not go around shouting about Yu Xiuxiu. But the neighbors went around saying that Yu Dasao was proud to have a rich second-generation son-in-law at first, but later, when Yu Xiuxiu got into trouble, Yu Dasao just said that they broke up. How could others believe it? The police came to inquire about the situation, someone knew someone at the police station, and the matter was reported in the news, so more people knew about it.
The news spread quickly, and many people knew about it, but they didn't know that Yu Xiuxiu was cheated. Yu's relatives and Su's relatives thought about it for a while, and they knew that Yu Xiuxiu was cheated.
Su's mother also went to find Wei Shanshan on purpose. She told Wei Shanshan to keep her eyes open and not be deceived. After all, Wei Shanshan didn't get maternal love from Su Yamei, and Su's mother was afraid that Wei Shanshan would be with a man casually in order to have a family as soon as possible.
Wei Shanshan naturally couldn't just be with a man, she hadn't graduated from school yet, and she still had half a semester to go before she graduated. Wei Shanshan didn't think about men for the time being, she hadn't reached the legal age for marriage yet, so it would be fine for her to find a partner when she reached the legal age for marriage.
Su Yamei did not go to find Wei Shanshan. She was too lazy to care about Wei Shanshan's affairs. Anyway, when Wei Shanshan really got married, she would definitely bring the person home. It was impossible for her not to bring the person home.
Because the Yu family wanted to conceal this matter and talk about the child and the couple of Master Yu, Su Xueqing and others did not go to deliver eggs. In addition, Su Xueqing was almost hit by Mrs. Yu, so Su Xueqing had not gone to the Yu family for a long time.
Over the years, Su Xueqing has not been to the Yu family. Aunt Su is still in good health and not sick, so Su Xueqing does not need to visit Aunt Su.
Xiao Wenjun doesn't know about Yu Xiuxiu's affairs, but Tian Caixia knows.
Su Yanan told Tian Caixia directly. Tian Caixia was older, so Su Yanan thought she had to let Tian Caixia know to prevent her from being cheated in the future.
"Cousin Xiuxiu has been cheated." Tian Caixia opened her mouth wide, and the next moment, she covered her mouth again.
"This is at home, it's okay." Su Yanan didn't tell Tian Caixia about these things in the grocery store. People often go to the grocery store to buy things, and it's easy for others to hear it. Although others may have known about this matter, it's better not to say it in front of those people.
"That child is now considered her sister." Su Yanan said, "How can a sister be so much older than her brother or sister? Even if there are, they are rarely born to the same mother. But there are special cases. Now... few people will believe them. All will doubt them."
"How could I be deceived?" Tian Caixia said, "I asked them to pay, so why did they give me money? If it were me, I wouldn't give any money. It's good enough that I didn't ask that person to give me money, but he still asked me to give him money."
"They want more money, thinking that Yu Xiuxiu can be like your aunt. Is your aunt comparable to ordinary people?" Su Yanan said, "Your aunt is a top student, graduated from Nancheng University, and she is also good-looking. She has good conditions in all aspects. If there is anything wrong, it is that her family background is a little bit worse. Your aunt is such a good person, of course she can find an excellent man to marry. Many people like her. And Yu Xiuxiu... she doesn't look that good, but her ambition is as high as the sky."
Su Yanan believes that the reason why Yu Xiuxiu has become like this has a lot to do with Yu Guochao and his wife. These people are thinking about getting rich overnight and they did not educate their children well.
"They are all unwilling to work hard and only want to get more benefits from others, but they don't have the ability to do so and don't know whether others are good or bad." Su Yanan said, "They just think they are special and rich people will definitely like them. Your aunt can marry a rich man, so why can't Yu Xiuxiu?"
"Cousin Xiuxiu is really not as good as my aunt." Tian Caixia has her own eyes and can tell what Yu Xiuxiu looks like. It's not like she hasn't met before. "She is inferior in every aspect. How can they think that? Even if there is a small probability, they should be careful. Especially for this kind of thing that requires them to pay for it."
"They thought it was a good deal to mortgage their gold bars to them." Su Yanan said, "Gold bars are all fake, not real at all. You will be the same in the future. If you really encounter such people, don't believe them. Those who ask you to use money to turn around their business are mostly scammers. Even if they have obtained a marriage certificate, the marriage certificate may still be fake."
"Yes." Tian Caixia nodded vigorously, "Mom, don't worry, I'm not Yu Xiuxiu, and I'm not thinking of marrying a rich man."
"It's not wrong to marry a rich man. What's wrong is to rush into it without finding out everything." Su Yanan said.
Yu Xiuxiu was afraid that the man would abandon her, so she slept with him early and got pregnant early, hoping to tie him down with the child. But the child didn't tie the man down, but Yu Xiuxiu herself.
Even if the Yu family said the child was the Yu Dasao and his wife's, others would doubt it. If Yu Xiuxiu's brother was talking about marriage and the woman was pregnant, would Yu Xiuxiu's brother tell them? It's impossible for Yu Xiuxiu's brother to give up his wife for his sister.
I can only say that it's a good thing it's a girl, because girls will get married in the future, and some people can tolerate girls, but if it's a boy, others' tolerance is not so great. When men grow up, they want to get married, they want a house, and a dowry, and they want too many things.
"Women should cherish themselves and not be stupid." Su Yanan said, "Many people like to deceive women."
"Mom, I'm not Yu Xiuxiu." Tian Caixia still said the same thing.
"It's good that you know." Su Yanan said, "Mom is afraid that you will be deceived, so I tell you a few more words to let you know that people's hearts are treacherous. Yu Xiuxiu and the others are too greedy. They jumped into the pit on their own. They jumped directly without anyone pushing them."
On a new day, Ning Jiaxuan went to Su Xueqing's place and read the newspaper. Of course, she didn't know about Yu Xiuxiu's affairs. She just saw the news when she was reading the newspaper with her child at home. Ning Jiaxuan came to gossip with Su Xueqing. The child was still young, and Ning Jiaxuan still went out to play less frequently, but it was much better than the year when the child was just born.
"Have you read the newspaper?" Ning Jiaxuan asked.
"Newspaper?" Su Xueqing was puzzled. She immediately had a premonition.
"It's the news about cheating women out of their money." Ning Jiaxuan said, "A man driving a car can cheat several women and make them willingly give him their money."
"I know about this news." Su Xueqing said, "Someone in our unit is talking about it. I guess everyone in the city knows about it."
"Yes, this is a newspaper from a few days ago. I just read it today." Ning Jiaxuan said, "You won't know until you read it. I was shocked when I saw it. Those women are so easy to deceive. Some people were cheated out of thousands or even tens of thousands of dollars."
"They are quite rich." Su Xueqing said. She didn't know how much money Yu Xiuxiu had been cheated out of, but it was definitely not that much.
Yu Xiuxiu's family didn't have that much money. They had borrowed money from all their relatives in their early years, but none of them were willing to lend them money. Yu Xiuxiu had little money, so the amount of money she could borrow from her relatives and friends was limited.
"Yes, I'm quite rich. It would be great if I could spend the money on myself." Ning Jiaxuan said, "Go out shopping and have some fun. As for men, with that much money, what kind of man can I want?"
"Those who have some money always want more money." Su Xueqing said, "Plus the man is not bad looking, so they have delusions. Swindlers are always good at talking and fooling people."
"Those people can't even tell whether it's true or not." Ning Jiaxuan shook her head. "It's almost Chinese New Year, and such a big news broke out."
"Yes, it's almost Chinese New Year." Su Xueqing said, "I'm afraid these people will have a hard time celebrating the New Year."
"I heard that someone is pregnant with the liar's child." Ning Jiaxuan said.
"Yes." Su Xueqing said, "I wonder if the liar has another family somewhere else. Don't tell me that he gave the defrauded money to his wife and children."
"..." When Ning Jiaxuan heard what Su Xueqing said, she was wondering if the liar really did this, would his wife and children know?
"Scammers are not male or female." Su Xueqing said, "Boys can also be deceived. Girls say they want to date, and ask boys to go to the bank to take out a loan to buy a house, and ask men to give money. Anything is possible."
"Have you told Xiao Wenjun?" Ning Jiaxuan asked.
"I told her a few words. She has to know something to avoid being cheated in the future." Su Xueqing said, "We don't tell the children anything. Children have no experience, they don't understand, and they fall into the trap easily."
After the Chinese New Year, during the first month of the lunar year, the Yu family didn't think about inviting guests. What kind of guests should they invite? To invite others to gossip? Yu Xiuxiu had just given birth to a child not long ago, and her body was still weak. Some people had sharp eyes, and they could easily find out whether Yu Xiuxiu had given birth to a child.
Yu Chunhua's child grew up, but he didn't pass the high school entrance exam, nor did he go to a technical school. He left home early to work in a factory. Yu Chunhua once thought about letting her child live in the Yu family for a while, but she didn't. In the early years, Yu Chunhua wanted her child to go to school in the south city, so she first transferred her child's household registration to the south city. When Yu Guochao and his wife wanted to return to the city, Yu Chunhua had no way to transfer her child's household registration.
In the countryside, Yu Chunhua and her husband had some thoughts in their minds, and they had some opinions about the Yu family. But so what, Yu Chunhua had been married for a long time, and it was very difficult for her to throw the child back to her parents' home and let her family take care of it.
If your child grows up and is not in school, and you let him stay with you, he will not be able to earn money and will only have a harder life.
Yu Chunhua sent the child to work in a factory in the south city, where he ate and lived. Yu Chunhua did not specifically tell Aunt Su and her husband about the child, but she told Yu Donghua. Yu Donghua occasionally let the child come to her home for a meal, and that was it.
Yu Donghua is married and has to take care of her own children, so she doesn't have much time to take care of Yu Chunhua's children.
The Su family didn't take care of Yu Chunhua's children. The people from the Yu family were like dog-skin plasters that were hard to get rid of. If you can avoid it, don't rush. Yu Guochao and his wife still haven't paid back the money they owed the Su family. After so many years, the money has become worthless, but Yu Guochao and his wife still haven't paid back the money.
Su Xueqing and others brought their children to pay New Year's greetings to Su's father and mother. The living room had long been full, so they had to set up tables in the yard. Xiao Wenjun didn't mind, she sometimes thought it was quite novel, and it was not bad to come to her grandparents' place more often.
Xiao Wenjun received red envelopes, and the amounts in these red envelopes were large and small. Su Xueqing never thought about how much money she gave out, and how much money she would get back. Su Xueqing gave red envelopes to Su Yanan's children. She gave three red envelopes, and Su Yanan would add up the amounts of the three red envelopes and give them to Xiao Wenjun. However, Su Yamei gave the same red envelope no matter how much amount Su Xueqing gave.
Su Yanan always told Xiao Wenjun to keep the red envelope quickly. When Xiao Wenjun was about to keep it, Wei Yaozu ran over and snatched the red envelope away.
"Aunt, I want to exchange a red envelope with her." Wei Yaozu said.
"No." Tian Caixia snatched the red envelope from Wei Yaozu's hand and stuffed it into Xiao Wenjun's hand. "Xiao Junjun, this is yours, not someone else's."
Anyone with a discerning eye can see that the thickness of the red envelopes is different. Tian Caixia can tell at a glance that Wei Yaozu wants a big red envelope. Wei Yaozu is so shameless that he even asked his own mother to give a big red envelope to others.
The amount of the red envelopes that Wei Yaozu’s mother gave to others was so small, but Wei Yaozu still wanted a big red envelope. Is it just because he is a boy?
How ridiculous!
Tian Caixia is much more sensible than before. She was afraid when her father fell ill and was hospitalized. Now she is not as willful as before and helps with more housework.
Xiao Wenjun doesn't mind how much the red envelopes are, she has received many red envelopes with large amounts. For children's New Year's money, the red envelopes given by wealthy families are larger.
“It’s just a red envelope.” Amelia Su came over immediately, “You guys…”
"Red envelopes are still different from each other." Su Yanan said immediately.
“Second sister, this is your fault. They are all your nephews and nieces. How can you favor one over the other?” Amelia Su said.
"If you give the same amount to my child, I will give your child the same amount as well." Su Yanan said, "The wool comes from the sheep, big sister, you should know that."
Mrs. Su San saw this scene, but she didn't go over. Mrs. Su San gave Xiao Wenjun as much money as Su Xueqing gave to her own children, and no one took advantage. Red envelopes are supposed to be give and take, but Amelia Su always liked to give less money, and she felt that she was at a disadvantage. She said that Su Yanan's family had three children, and her family only had two children. Amelia Su felt that she had given out too many red envelopes, so she should give out smaller ones.
The ones who really suffer are those who have only one child, and those who don't have children suffer even more.
In the local area, as long as you are married, even if you don't have children, you have to give red envelopes to your children. After all, children can't be born at the same time, some are born earlier and some are born later. If someone else's child is born first, you have to give red envelopes to that other child first. You don't have to give red envelopes after a certain number of years. The same is true for others giving red envelopes in return.
Amelia Su didn't expect that Amelia Su and her son were so unhappy for a red envelope. Amelia Su was speechless. Although it was just a red envelope, she didn't ask Xiao Wenjun to exchange red envelopes with Wei Yaozu.
"Xiao Junjun, put the red envelope away. It was given to you by your second aunt. Have you said thank you to your second aunt?" Su Xueqing said.
"Aunt, thank you, thank you." Xiao Wenjun said happily.
Wei Yaozu was unhappy because his red envelope was not that thick. He knew that Xiao Wenjun's red envelope must have more money in it.
"There's no name written on the red envelope." Wei Yaozu muttered.
"It's true that there was no name written on it, but my mother gave it directly to Xiao Junjun." Tian Caixia rolled her eyes at Wei Yaozu, "That's for Xiao Junjun, not for you. Have some shame."
"I just want to change it, I'm not shameless." Wei Yaozu said, "It's Second Aunt who is unfair."
“Shanshan, give your red envelope to Yaozu.” Amelia Su said to Wei Shanshan.
Wei Shanshan took the red envelope, but she did not give it to Wei Yaozu.
"Give it here." Su Yamei snatched the red envelope directly from Wei Shanshan's hand. She thought that if she hadn't given the red envelope to Su Yanan and Su Xueqing's child, Wei Shanshan would not have received the red envelope.
In the past, when Amelia Su took a red envelope from Wei Shanshan, Su Xueqing also secretly gave Wei Shanshan some extra money, which Amelia Su had already noted down. Amelia Su was wondering if Su Xueqing would give Wei Shanshan some red envelope again if she took it away again.
In fact, Su Xueqing didn't give Wei Shanshan extra money every time, but occasionally she gave her extra money. This was recorded by Amelia Su.
Wei Shanshan was unhappy. She didn't try to get it back. It would be soon. She would graduate from school soon. When she graduated from school, she wouldn't have to endure her biological mother anymore.
"What red envelope do you want for someone this old?" Amelia Su said this, but she did not return the red envelope to Amelia Su and Su Yanan, but gave it to Wei Yaozu.
"The red envelope belongs to whoever it is given to." Mother Su walked up to Wei Yaozu and said, "Give the red envelope to your sister."
Wei Yaozu refused to give the red envelope to Wei Shanshan and he remained silent.
"Give it to your sister." Mother Su took the red envelope directly from Wei Yaozu's hand, gave the red envelope belonging to Wei Shanshan to Wei Shanshan, and turned to look at Amelia Su, "Yamei, Yaozu is not a child anymore, don't always let him snatch his sister's things, my sister's things are not his things."
“Isn’t it the responsibility of an older sister to take care of her younger brothers and sisters?” Amelia Su said, “I used to…”
"Don't talk about your past." Su's mother said, "As the eldest sister, you didn't care much about your younger siblings. Don't always talk about your going to the countryside. That was due to policy. You didn't go to the countryside because you cared about your younger siblings."
Mother Su stopped Amelia Su from continuing to speak. As soon as she saw Amelia Su, she knew what Amelia Su was going to say. Amelia Su always liked to talk about her going to the countryside. It was obviously not the fault of her younger brothers and sisters, but Amelia Su still said that.
When Xiao Wenjun saw this scene, she walked to her mother.
Amelia Su held Xiao Wenjun's hand tightly. That was Amelia Su's family's business, so it was better for her to stay out of it. Xiao Wenjun looked into her mother's eyes. She knew what her mother was thinking, but she didn't say anything. She was still a child and couldn't care about so many things.
When the family was going back, everyone was walking on the road, and Xiao Wenjun said, "Mom, the aunt is too biased towards boys."
"It's terrible, isn't it?" Su Xueqing said, "It's not just your aunt, there are other people who favor boys over girls. If a person gives birth to a daughter at first, she will treat her daughter better. When she has a son, she may treat her son better."
"If it were mom, she would definitely not do that." Xiao Wenjun said.
"Mom doesn't favor boys over girls, but if we have a second child, my energy will be dispersed and I will have to take care of the younger one." Su Xueqing said, "Your father and I have only one child like you, and we don't want a second child."
"Mom and Dad are the best." Little Wenjun was spoiled when she grew up, and she feels that her family environment is really good.
When Xiao Wenjun saw Wei Shanshan being treated like that, she felt it was so horrible. How could her aunt do that?
"When you grow up, don't favor boys over girls. You are a girl yourself," said Su Xueqing.
"I wouldn't do that." Xiao Wenjun said.
"That's right." Su Xueqing nodded.
"Will you go home directly after a while?" Ning Yanjing asked.
"Let's go shopping at the mall." Xiao Wenjun said, "I heard that some things will be much cheaper after the Chinese New Year."
"You know all this?" Su Xueqing raised her eyebrows.
"That's what grandma said." Xiao Wenjun said, "Grandma just told my second aunt that things were expensive before the New Year, but after the New Year, many things became cheaper, and that many people rushed to wear new clothes during the New Year. Is it because the things are only used during the New Year and are no longer needed after the New Year? No, they are still useful after the New Year."
"It's because everyone is using it during the New Year." Su Xueqing said.
"Mom, let's go and see if it can be much cheaper." Xiao Wenjun said.
"Okay, let's go and take a look." Su Xueqing nodded. Since her daughter said so, she certainly couldn't say no.
Ning Yanjing accompanied his wife and daughter there. Instead of going to the big mall, they went to the small mall next to it. They could go shopping in the mall and still have enough time to go home.
When Su Xueqing and her friends went to the mall, they saw Yu Li and her husband still setting up a stall. Yu Li and her husband thought that many children had money at this time, and adults were willing to buy things.
Su Xueqing didn't look at Yu Li much, as they didn't interact much.
Yu Li no longer had the arrogance she once had, especially after she left school to work, she had understood a lot of things. At work, Yu Li successfully became a teacher in a junior high school, but being a teacher was not easy, and she had to face many problems on her own.
She still has to set up a stall. Yu Li has no intention of not setting up a stall. She will earn as much as she can.
Xiao Wenjun took Su Xueqing to the store, and she asked people about the prices of the clothes.
"It's really on sale." Xiao Wenjun said in surprise.
"Do you know the price during the Chinese New Year?" Su Xueqing asked.
"I asked." Xiao Wenjun said, "They said there was a discount, so the price must be different."
"It is discounted, but only a small number of people will wait until after the Chinese New Year to buy clothes, and some people will wait until the season changes to buy clothes." Su Xueqing said, "Buy clothes that are out of season, and those clothes will be cheaper."
"It's amazing." Xiao Wenjun said.
"That's because you don't have to worry about these things or save money, you just don't know." Su Xueqing said, "Many people buy clothes like this to save money. Some people buy groceries later so they can save money."
Some people go early for freshness, some go later for cheapness...
Su Xueqing didn't do business, this was just basic common sense.
"Yeah." Xiao Wenjun nodded.
Ning Yanjing walked beside Su Xueqing. He looked at the clothes and said, "You can try them on."
"Xiao Junjun, your father asked you to try on some clothes." Su Xueqing said.
"Won't mom give it a try?" Little Wenjun tilted her head.
"..." Su Xueqing looked at the clothes in Ning Yanjing's hand, and they were indeed for adults.
The family of three went shopping in the mall, bought some things, and then went back.
When Su Xueqing returned home, Ning Jiaxuan was educating the children in the yard. It was a cold day, and the children ran to the yard to play in the mud, and got mud all over their bodies. Ning Jiaxuan looked at the children and had a terrible headache.
"All you do is play in the mud all day long. It's not like I didn't buy you toys, but you still play in the mud and get yourself covered in mud." Ning Jiaxuan said in a loud voice.
"Aunt, Aunt." Xiao Wenjun stood next to the fence and she saw next door.
Ning Jiaxuan's son often likes to play in the mud in the corner, probably because he thinks that if he hides in the corner, no one can find him.
"Little Junjun." Ning Jiaxuan saw Xiao Wenjun and said to her son, "Did you see it? Your sister saw you playing in the mud. Are you dirty? Are you dirty?"
Ning Jiaxuan was thinking about why she had to give birth to a child. She gave birth to an ancestor for herself, so she had to take care of the child. The child covered his ears and refused to listen, and continued to play.
"Little Junjun, auntie will look after your brother first and come to play with you another day." Ning Jiaxuan simply went to hug the child.
The child started crying before Ning Jiaxuan even picked him up.
"Let him play." Lou Mian came over. "He will stop playing when he gets tired. You don't have to wash his clothes, don't worry."
"Is this a problem that I don't have to do laundry?" Ning Jiaxuan said.
"..." Lou Mian looked down at the child, "Let him play."
"Forget it, forget it, just play with him." Ning Jiaxuan said.
Su Xueqing walked to Xiao Wenjun's side and said, "Let's go back."
"Aunt, we'll go back first." Xiao Wenjun waved to Ning Jiaxuan.
"Go back, go back." Ning Jiaxuan also waved at Xiao Wenjun.
Ning Jiaxuan felt that Xiao Wenjun was very well behaved and was not as naughty as her own son.
Just as Ning Jiaxuan turned her head, she saw her son caught an earthworm, "Ah."
Ning Jiaxuan screamed, and Su Xueqing and Xiao Wenjun turned around again.
"Whatever you hold in your hand, throw it away, throw it away, throw it away quickly." Ning Jiaxuan said, "Boys are much more naughty than girls."
Su Xueqing looked down at Xiao Wenjun, who lowered her head guiltily. Xiao Wenjun had never caught earthworms, but she had caught other small insects.
"Mom, I've grown up." Xiao Wenjun pulled her mother's clothes. She had really grown up.
"Okay, you've grown up, grown up." Su Xueqing said.
Ning Jiaxuan simply didn't stay at home. She ran to Su Xueqing and complained to her about her son.
"Children are all like this." Su Xueqing comforted Ning Jiaxuan, "Such a young child is full of curiosity about the world, and a newborn calf is not afraid of a tiger."
"He is really like his father." Ning Jiaxuan said, "Once you stare at something, you have to keep staring at it and look at it over and over again."
"This shows a spirit of research." Su Xueqing said.
"What kind of research spirit is that? It's so young, what can it see?" Ning Jiaxuan said, "Fortunately it's not dangerous. Let his father watch it. I won't watch it anymore."
"Then let his father look after it." Su Xueqing said.
"Did you go shopping today?" Ning Jiaxuan asked.
"We went." Su Xueqing said, "Junjun heard from my mom that the prices of things are different before and after the New Year. She was curious, so I took her to the mall and bought some things."
When people like Ning Jiaxuan buy things, they don't care when the things are cheap or expensive, they just buy them if they want them.
"That's good for Junjun. Get to know her better. She will have to inherit her father's company in the future." Ning Jiaxuan said, "Is Yu Li still setting up a stall over there?"
"Yes." Su Xueqing nodded. "Isn't this Chinese New Year? During the Chinese New Year, children get red envelopes and adults are willing to spend money. They can also make a little more money by setting up a stall."
"She is hardworking now." Ning Jiaxuan said, "You can't judge a person by his appearance. Who would have thought that she would become like this now? When she was in college, she had a bad mouth and a bad temper. She always thought she was great. Now, she is down-to-earth. She is a teacher and she also follows her husband to set up a stall to make more money."
"Having more money on hand and being more comfortable will make life easier." Su Xueqing said, "When I was in school, my parents supported me, so I didn't have to earn so much money. After graduation, I started working, and I have a husband and children. I can't always rely on my parents for money. I have to support the family, so of course I have to do more."
In school and in society, it is completely two different things.
"Indeed." Ning Jiaxuan nodded, "I see she has gained some weight as well."
"Some people tend to gain weight after having children," Su Xueqing said.
"Yes, I gained some weight after giving birth, but you didn't gain weight and your figure is still so good." Ning Jiaxuan still has to lose weight to maintain her figure, and she sees that Su Xueqing doesn't even have to think about losing weight.
"Everyone's physique is different." Su Xueqing said, "You are not fat now, but when you get older, it may not be the case."
"It's okay. If he really got fat, it must be my little brother who got fat first." Ning Jiaxuan looked around and leaned close to Su Xueqing's ear, "Look at my big brother. His belly is a little bigger. He has a big belly."
It's not because Brother Ning often eats out at social events. Brother Ning also travels a lot and runs around. His belly is still a little protruding. As long as he doesn't wear a suit, it's okay. If he wears a suit, it's a little obvious. This may be due to his physique. If it weren't for his physique, Brother Ning should be thin because he is so busy with work. Brother Ning often doesn't eat on time, which may also cause some puffiness in his body.
Brother Ning's image is considered good, some men's belly is more obvious.
"..." Su Xueqing's mouth twitched slightly, she looked at Ning Jiaxuan, and Ning Jiaxuan actually called him Brother Ning.
"Even if my brother is in front of me, I dare to say it." Ning Jiaxuan said.
"It's okay." Su Xueqing said.
"I'll ask Lou Mian to pay more attention to it." Ning Jiaxuan said, "He's already losing enough hair now, I suspect he'll go bald early. My father-in-law has a bald spot on the top of his head. Researchers like them use their brains a lot, thinking about problems all day long. I don't know if they often pull their hair, and when they can't think of anything, they pull their hair, and then they pull their hair out."
"Well... take a look and see if your man often pulls his hair." Su Xueqing said.
"I told him to stop thinking about research when he got home, but he went to work in the study." Ning Jiaxuan said, "I don't like to say anything to him. Anyway, we already have a child, and he is no longer of much use. Even if he stays in the study or in school all the time, it won't affect me much. At worst, I can let the servants take care of the child, and I can still go out and play."
Ning Jiaxuan didn't always think about asking Lou Mian to pay more attention to the family. If Lou Mian could pay attention to the family, then he would pay attention to it. If he didn't, then forget it. Fortunately, Lou Mian still knew how to take care of his wife and children, and didn't spend all day busy with research.
"After I got married and had a child, I didn't play as crazy as before." Ning Jiaxuan said, "The people I know are also married and have children. When we get together, they all like to talk about their children. They have matured all of a sudden, and they all give people a different feeling."
"It's like this. Just look at Yu Li and you'll know." Su Xueqing said, "Before, we never thought she would become like this. People change."
"Things that I once thought were childish, now when I think about them, they seem quite youthful," said Ning Jiaxuan.
"Do you want to eat here or go back home?" Su Xueqing asked.
"Go back and eat." Ning Jiaxuan said, "No matter what, my husband and child are still my own, so I still have to go and eat with them. If I don't eat with them, the child will still play in the mud. I don't know why he likes playing in the mud so much. He always likes to take a small shovel and shovel here and there in the yard."
"Xiao Junjun was like this before." Su Xueqing said.
"But Junjun is much better." Ning Jiaxuan said, "No matter how dirty he plays, he is not as dirty as my son."
On a new day, Xu Ruyun took her two children to Xu's house for dinner, but did not bring her eldest son Yan Mingde. Since Yan Mingde was born, Yan Mingde has never been to Xu's house, never called Xu's mother "grandma", nor called Xu's father. It was very difficult for Xu's family to see Yan Mingde. When they went to Yan's house, Yan's mother would not let them in. It was difficult for Xu Ruyun to get in, let alone them.