Five years ago, by a twist of fate, she gave herself to a certain man. She lost her innocence and her identity, the position of the eldest daughter of the Jiang family was usurped, and overnight, s...
Since returning home, Jiang Ranran has observed that Dabao is depressed every day.
Although Dabao didn't like to talk much in the past, he would always go to greet Jiang Ranran whenever she came home. Since then, Dabao basically hid in his room every day and didn't even look at the things that usually interested him the most.
At first, Jiang Ranran thought it was nothing, maybe the child was frightened, but after this happened for several days in a row, Jiang Ranran began to worry.
The child had never encountered such a thing before. Jiang Ranran was worried that the child would suffer from some mental illness, so she quickly made an appointment with a well-known local psychologist.
When we arrived at the hospital, the child's reaction was also very calm.
Sitting on a chair in the hospital, Jiang Ranran was a little anxious and said to the doctor, "Doctor, please take a good look at me. My child encountered something a while ago and has not been very talkative recently. I'm worried that there might be something wrong."
Jiang Ranran has always been very concerned about her children and doesn't want them to encounter any danger.
"Don't be anxious, tell me what's going on first." asked the psychologist.
Ever since Jiang Ranran arrived at the hospital, Dabao has been sitting in the chair without saying a word.
"My child was kidnapped some time ago. Since he came back, he hasn't been very talkative." Jiang Ranran looked at Dabao with some concern while speaking, but Dabao didn't react at all.
"Kidnapping?" The doctor was also a little bit unbelieving.
In today's society, kidnapping rarely happens.
Seeing Jiang Ranran was a little embarrassed, the doctor comforted her, "Don't worry too much. If it's really a kidnapping, then this is normal for the child. You can go out first. I'll talk to the child and see if he's been frightened and hasn't recovered mentally."
Jiang Ranran nodded worriedly, and just as she was about to get up and leave, Dabao grabbed her hand.
Dabao's eyes were filled with fear. "Mom, where are you going? Are you going to leave me here alone?"
At that moment, Jiang Ranran felt very distressed and almost burst into tears. She quickly said, "How could Mom leave you here alone? You talk to the doctor here, I'll wait for you in the corridor."
After saying hello to the doctor, Jiang Ranran walked out, still feeling uneasy.
Jiang Ranran was really worried about the child and kept looking inside in the corridor.
After about forty minutes, the psychologist called Jiang Ranran back.
The doctor gave Dabao a toy and let him go to the game room next door to play.
Jiang Ranran then asked anxiously: "Doctor, what's wrong? Is there something wrong with my child's psychology?"
During this period, Jiang Ranran stayed at home with her child almost every day, so she could notice any slight movement of the child.
What's more, Dabao's reaction has been so abnormal recently. Jiang Ranran has seen many cases of children suffering from depression, and she was also scared this time.
The doctor seemed a little helpless, but still told the truth, "That's true. I just chatted with your child, and he didn't seem very interested. He probably has mild depression."
At that moment, Jiang Ranran's head suddenly buzzed.
Jiang Ranran knew that although depression was not a disease that would actually affect the body, it was also very serious. Many children eventually died from depression.
If it weren't for me, the child wouldn't have become like this. Jiang Ranran fell into deep self-blame.
Fearing that Jiang Ranran might also start to become depressed, the doctor quickly counseled, "Don't worry too much. In fact, the child is only suffering from mild depression now. It's not very serious. As long as she receives treatment on time, she will be fine. She doesn't even need to take medication."
The doctor's words gave Jiang Ranran some psychological comfort.
"Then doctor, how should my child be treated?" Jiang Ranran asked.
"Actually, you don't have to worry too much about this. It still depends on the guidance of the parents. Spend more time with your child recently, and the child will naturally come out of the fear." said the doctor.
Jiang Ranran nodded thoughtfully.
Before giving birth to these three children, Jiang Ranran also read a lot of books about children and had some understanding of children of this age.
Jiang Ranran knew that children of this age could not live without the company of their family.
"I understand, doctor. I will take leave to stay home and take care of the children during this period."
Now that her child has depression, Jiang Ranran has no desire to go to work and is preparing to ask her boss for a longer leave.
The doctor added, "In fact, it's not just the mother's company that's important. The father's company is also important. Is the child's father with the child every day?"
When the doctor asked this question, Jiang Ranran thought of the child's father again and couldn't help but feel a headache.
"I...actually, this child comes from a single-parent family." Jiang Ranran didn't know how to start.
After Jiang Ranran finished speaking, the psychologist suddenly realized something and immediately said to Jiang Ranran very seriously, "Actually, for children of this age, the company of their parents is very important. And I see that you are not that old. If you want to find a boyfriend, it is best to find one as soon as possible so that the child can accept it better."
The child is still in kindergarten and is confused about everything. Jiang Ranran understands what the doctor means.
"Your child's current condition has a lot to do with the lack of a father's company. If you've thought about finding a boyfriend, perhaps finding one who can take care of the child would be of greater help to the child," the doctor continued.
After the doctor finished speaking, Jiang Ranran immediately understood what he meant.
These three children have no father's company and have not lived as happily as other children since childhood. Even if Jiang Ranran devotes all his energy to them, it will be useless.
Suddenly, Jiang Ranran thought of the paternity test again.
How could Gu Tingchen be the father of three children? This was really a bit unbelievable. Jiang Ranran wondered if the previous identification was wrong, or if there were some other reasons. This matter was very important. If she wanted to find out, she had to find a way to get Gu Tingchen's hair and do another identification.
The doctor saw Jiang Ranran was stunned and waved his hand, "Did you hear what I just said?"
Jiang Ranran finally reacted and said quickly, "Okay, doctor, I understand. Thank you. I may need to contact you more during this period."
"Don't worry, it's what I should do."
After saying goodbye to the psychologist, Jiang Ranran sent the child home and asked someone to take care of him while she went to the hospital.