She went to the hospital to see her ex-boyfriend who had a broken leg, only to find that his attending physician was the husband she had just gotten a marriage certificate with that morning!
...
"I thought you mentioned 'Zong Yi' because you wanted a child."
Zhou Mo sat up straight instantly, "We've only just started, and you're already thinking about the child."
Han Chen: "Think ahead."
Zhou Mo curled her lips. "I don't have any plans for that right now. I'm still in school. During my doctoral studies, most supervisors are very averse to students getting pregnant. Besides...if I get pregnant, my doctoral graduation will definitely be delayed."
Han Chen: "I know, I don't want to force you to have a baby during your doctoral studies. Let's wait until you graduate."
Zhou Mo sighed slightly, "It's so difficult. I'm already in my thirties after graduating with a doctorate, and it's hard to have children."
It is difficult for students to graduate with a doctorate, which will affect their future work.
If you don't give birth, you are too old. Not only will the risk of childbirth be higher for older mothers, but it will also affect the health of the child.
Han Chen: "It depends on you."
Zhou Mo curled his lips, "What if I don't want children in this life?"
Han Chen was stunned for a moment, "Can you tell me the reason?"
Zhou Mo: "I don't like children, and... I feel like things are pretty good now. If... well, if I could be a little braver, a little more reckless, not be burdened by worldly views and my parents' ideas, maybe... if I didn't have you, I wouldn't have the desire to get married in my life."
In the final analysis, Zhou Mo felt that he had independent ideas, but he was not in control of his own situation.
If she didn't have parents, and if society was tolerant enough towards unmarried women, she would feel that living alone for the rest of her life, without marriage and children, might not be such a bad thing.
But she has parents, and today's society is not so tolerant of women.
She can only choose to compromise. If she wants to have a peaceful life, she can only choose to live a normal life.
Zhou Mo was also feeling fortunate that the person she met was Han Chen, who made her yearn for marriage.
Han Chen: "Why do you have such thoughts? Is it because I didn't do well enough to make you feel at ease or..."
"No," Zhou Mo shook her head. "I just feel that being a woman in society is too much of a burden and too much pressure. I don't want to live my life just as a woman. I want to enjoy my life as a human being and do what I want to do."
Han Chen frowned, "Maybe you're thinking too much. Having children or not will not affect you. You can still do whatever you want boldly."
Zhou Mo shook his head. "Let me think about it again. Maybe I haven't figured it out myself."
Han Chen patted her shoulder and said, "Well, take your time. There's no rush."
Speaking of having children, Zhou Mo's mood was affected. "Han Chen, if... I mean if, if I don't want to have children, what will you do?"
Han Chen: "The concept in my mind is to get married and have children. I have never imagined the situation of not having children. If you really want to ask me what I think... I think having children is the best, but if not, then there is no such thing."
Zhou Mo: "It's you who makes me feel at ease. I would still be entangled in the issue of having children. If it weren't for you..."
She didn't dare to think further.
It is impossible for her to give up her doctoral degree for the sake of her children. She will most likely seek to graduate first, no matter how old she is, find a job after graduation, and stabilize her life first, so that she doesn't need her parents' support or worries.
Then seek career development, whether to go to university or enter the system.
Maybe... by the time she really starts thinking about getting married and having children, she will already be over 35.
Or, after she is thirty-five, whether she is married or has children is no longer important to her.
Her family conditions are not the worst, but if she is so afraid of marriage and having children, just imagine women whose family conditions are even worse.
On the one hand, they work hard in big cities, but on the other hand, they cannot stay in big cities. If they continue to improve their academic qualifications like her, it would be even worse.
It would be a terrible thing for a female PhD in her thirties to have nothing without a strong family support.
If you enter into marriage without any financial foundation, and have a child in a muddle, life will be another mess.
There are some things that I dare not think about.
Fortunately it was Han Chen, fortunately it was Han Chen.
Zhou Mo hugged Han Chen tighter.
Han Chen also felt Zhou Mo's strength and raised his arms to hug her tightly.
"We still have a lot of time, think about it slowly," Han Chen said. "Some problems don't necessarily require a thorough understanding. Perhaps it's better to let things take their own course. Don't worry, I won't force you."
"Yeah," Zhou Mo rubbed his forehead against his neck.
Han Chen: "Let me remind you that the law stipulates that women have reproductive rights. This means that women have the right to have children, and they also have the freedom not to have children. So, whether to have children or not is up to you, and I have no right to interfere."
Zhou Mo raised his eyes and looked at him deeply: "You know so much."
Han Chen: "There's no harm in learning more."
Zhou Mo: "You always have a way to solve my worries."
Han Chen: "What else? I can't be your husband for nothing, right?"
Zhou Mo smiled with relief instantly, and with a "baji", she gave Han Chen a loud kiss on the side of his face.
"Feeling better?"
"Much better."
"Pack up and go to my mom's for dinner."
"good."
Zhou Mo jumped out of Han Chen's arms and ran to the bedroom to clean up.
Han Chen went to the balcony to collect the clothes and carried them to the bedroom.
"When you come back in the evening, I'll pack some of my things and bring them with me." Han Chen suggested while folding clothes.
"Okay," Zhou Mo said, "It's still early for Chen Pan to come back. I asked, at least a week."
"Only a week?"
Zhou Mo laughed, "What do you mean only a week?"
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