"You should have a clear idea in your mind and don't rush into dating. You two can get to know each other first, especially the personality of the other person's parents and whether you can get along with your future in-laws.

It also depends on Tian Xinghe's attitude. If you have a small conflict with his parents, how does he deal with it? Does he directly stand on his parents' side and hope that you will be more patient and tolerant of his parents, or will he coax you and comfort you while he solves the problem with his parents himself?

How he handles it will determine how your married life will be like. Haven't you heard the saying, "A bad man tells both sides, and a good man hides things from both sides?"

You just need to understand that you will be living with your in-laws after marriage. A good man who can mediate for you can save you a lot of trouble. Sometimes the relationship between a couple is still very good, but because of the intervention of outsiders, it will completely affect the relationship over time.

Jiang Mengran, who was originally a little shy because she was in love for the first time and met a boy she liked, felt a little uncomfortable and unable to accept it when she heard her sister's analysis.

She didn't think too much about it. She just felt that the other person was pleasing to the eye, and Tian Xinghe was also nice to her.

"Sister, now that you mention it, I don't dare get married anymore. Why is marriage so troublesome? What if I don't get along with my in-laws in the future?"

Jiang Mengxue was helpless and shook her head: "What can I do? Just leave it alone. As long as you get married, you will face these problems. Unless you never get married, but if you never get married, you will face your mother's iron palm."

“Don’t overthink it. Sometimes things aren’t as bad as you think. How do you know the other person can’t solve these problems for you?

Sometimes it doesn't matter what the family is like, but what matters is what the man is like. As long as he is mature, responsible, motivated, and tolerant of you, sometimes with such a man, you can endure any difficulties you face.

But if you meet a man who is not ambitious and has childish ideas, it is not enough for you. Even if he is wealthy and his parents-in-law are good, you will not be happy with him.

This may also be Jiang Mengxue's true feeling. She thinks that if a man is good enough, attractive enough, mature and responsible, when faced with all kinds of difficulties and troubles, he will think about how to solve and bear them instead of complaining about you and giving up.

Two people go to work together every day, after work one person cooks, the other helps the children with homework, one does the laundry, the other cleans, and both of them participate in all the housework at home. They will obviously find that their sense of happiness has increased.

Let's look at it again. If one person lies on the sofa drinking tea and reading the newspaper, one person cooks, helps the children with their homework, washes clothes, sweeps and mops the floor, all the housework falls on one person.

When you find that the match ball is gone, the light bulb is broken, you can't lift the bucket of water, and you can't get another person to do anything, no matter how you urge or what you say, he just sits there motionless, then you will find that you gradually lose patience with everything, complaining while cooking, complaining while washing clothes, and complaining when the children play with you, then you will become a shrew in the eyes of everyone, with a bad temper, cursing the sky, the earth, men, and children all day long, when you realize why you have become like this, as the main culprit, he has become an honest man who is oppressed and cursed by you every day.

This is the daily life of many women, so when choosing a husband's family, it is very important to choose a family with good family traditions.

After cooking the noodles just now, Jiang Mengxue added half a pot of water to the pot. The sweet potatoes at the bottom of the pot were already roasted. It was just right for the two of them to soak their feet and eat sweet potatoes together.

"Sister, look what this is." She would often take out a handkerchief from her coat pocket, unfold it layer by layer, and take out a ten-yuan note.

Jiang Mengxue took it, not knowing what her sister was going to do.

"Sister, this is for you. My brother-in-law must have spent a lot of money to find me this job. I've asked my colleagues, and the current job market requires at least two years of income from this job. I currently make 27 or 8 yuan a month, and this job must have cost at least 600 or 700 yuan. I've already thought about it. I'll pay you back 10 yuan a month in the future. If I save a lot, I'll pay you back 15 yuan. Sister, I can't let you and your brother-in-law spend money to help me find a job, and then let me profit in the end. I told my parents about this when I went home last time, and they think the same thing."

Jiang Mengxue didn't know what to say. She was very happy that her sister knew their efforts, but this job really didn't cost that much money. Gu Qingbei brought some cigarettes and alcohol, and then stuffed a red envelope of 200 yuan into Li Qiang's pocket. However, Li Qiang might not want to take more because of Gu Qingbei's face.

However, Jiang Mengxue didn't say much and just nodded in agreement. Even though they didn't actually spend more money, they still owed someone a favor and would have to pay it back in the future, so Jiang Mengxue didn't refuse.

Because Jiang Mengxue had something to do at night, she let Jiang Mengran stay in the small room by herself. She helped her heat the kang, took out two quilts from the cabinet and spread them on her bed. Then they went back to their rooms to rest.

When Jiang Mengxue entered the space, she found that the place where she and Gu Qingbei usually left notes had been moved.

The notes she had left before had disappeared, and now what appeared on the table was a square folded by Gu Qingbei in his usual way.

When I opened it, there was a message from Gu Qingbei. The handwriting was very sloppy and there were even stains on the paper.

"Wife, I'm on a mission outside right now. I'll be back in the army in two days. I'll write to you in advance then."

Moreover, some of the repair pills and nutrient solution she placed on the table were missing. She knew that Gu Qingbei must have taken them. He was now on a mission outside, and what he needed most was food and medicine, and she could solve both of these problems.

Knowing that he was fine, Jiang Mengxue felt relieved. There had been no news from him for such a long time since he left. Although she didn't say anything, she was always worried in her heart.

Jiang Mengxue relaxed, smiled, and replied on the note: "I have good news for you when I get back."

Just like before, I went into the space today to trade on the platform, and there were several unread messages in the message list.

Jiang Mengxue looked from top to bottom. Except for Senior Brother Lingshan and General Xuanwei, the others should have been added yesterday.

Jiang Mengxue’s principle is to stabilize old customers first, and as for new customers, she will wait and work with them later. If she keeps old customers, it will be very unprofitable, after all, she can only trade three times a day at most.

"Hello, Senior Brother, what would you like to exchange today?"