Chapter 460 A perfect marriage is hard to come by

On the way back, Huang Tianyi was silent. I knew that Mrs. Tang's attitude towards her today made her very uncomfortable, so I tried to comfort her.

"Tianyi, Tang Yi's attitude is what's important. After all, you'll be living with Tang Yi from now on, not with his mother."

Huang Tianyi smiled nonchalantly, "I understand. In fact, I can understand why Ayi should have stayed today. I don't blame him.

But if I don’t get recognition from my elders, will I still be happy in the future?”

I don’t know what to say. This has always been a difficult choice, for her and for Tang Yi as well.

Xiao Shiqiu suddenly said, "My aunt has been strong all her life. My eldest cousin and my second cousin both had their own crushes, but under her strong intervention, they both compromised in the end.

My uncle didn't interfere much in his children's marriages. At that time, my cousin asked my uncle to speak for her. My uncle felt sorry for his daughter and wanted to persuade my aunt, or just let her do what she wanted.

My aunt vetoed it. I don’t know how she convinced my uncle, but later my uncle also sided with her.

But I have to say that the marriages my aunt arranged for her two children were very good.

I can't say whether they are in love, but they seem to be happily married so far. There are no scandals on either side, and both families have a son and a daughter.

Therefore, a happy marriage as perceived by the world has nothing to do with love. As long as the family is harmonious, there are both sons and daughters, a rich life, and no extramarital affairs, it is considered a good marriage.

I couldn't help but ask, "Can a marriage be considered happy without love?"

Xiao Shiqiu said calmly, "There's a difference between a happy marriage and a perfect marriage.

A perfect marriage is something that can only be achieved by chance. Love, responsibility, wealth and health are all essential.

A happy marriage can be managed with care, and even if there is no love, it can be maintained with family affection.

A writer once said that marriage is a collaboration. The best betrothal gift a man can give to a woman is a lifetime of tolerance and love, and the best dowry a woman can give to a man is a lifetime of understanding and admiration.

True love is about correcting and perfecting each other's thinking and concepts, and growing together."

I didn't quite understand what he said, but when he said it, it seemed to make a lot of sense.

Huang Tianyi, who had been silent in the back seat for a long time, suddenly said, "Another writer once said that marriage is essentially a collaboration. There's no need to make it look like love, because love will disappear.

The lower-class men want to continue their family line, the middle-class men want to find helpers, the upper-class men want to find strong teammates, and the scumbag men want you to help the poor.

Tang Yi hasn't realized yet that he needs a strong teammate, but his mother is clearly aware of this."

When I heard her say that, I looked at Xiao Shiqiu with some panic. He was definitely an upper-class man, and I was definitely not a strong teammate. I was probably just a pig teammate in the eyes of others.

Huang Tianyi saw my nervous look and chuckled, "Don't worry, your Xiao is strong enough on his own. There's no need to give up love for a strong teammate."

Xiao Shiqiu's mouth curled up, and he raised his eyebrows proudly, "Your best friend has a unique vision and is very knowledgeable. If she had a stronger background, she would definitely be the daughter-in-law that the upper class would fight for."

Is that so? I thought about it and humbly asked him, "Are those who are optimistic about you all the knowledgeable ones?"

"Of course. If someone can't see something so obvious, their vision must be poor."

I said seriously, "I'm optimistic about you, too."