Shen Qiaoyue has been reborn. In her past life, she was deceived by her best friend and sweet-talked by a scumbag man into divorcing him. After he used her to climb up in the world, he reported her...
"Sister-in-law, you don't understand. Medically speaking, a twenty-year-old girl's body is not mature enough. Girls at this stage are still in the developmental stage. The best age for a woman to give birth is my age. The child born will be intelligent and have good overall qualities. Giving birth in a teenager is harmful to the body. The child's development is not complete. Some girls give birth to children who are mostly..." Thinking about some teenagers who are sensible but have intellectual problems.
Liu Xinlan didn't say it because saying it would offend many people.
Qian Luoshui listened from the side and knew what Liu Xinlan wanted to say. She was a medical student and had a certain understanding of the human body.
"What are they?" Huang Yingzi and the other sisters-in-law looked at Liu Xinlan with great curiosity.
"The best time for a girl to give birth is between the ages of twenty and thirty, because her body is basically mature in all aspects, and the baby born after ten months of pregnancy is healthier and easier to care for," Qian Luoshui explained from the side.
“I understand this.” Grandma Zhao quickly explained, “I gave birth to his older brother when I was 29. He was almost never sick after he was born, and he was very mischievous when he was young. The traditional Chinese medicine doctor in my hometown said that it was the best age for me to have a child.”
Liu Xinlan and Qian Luoshui exchanged a glance. Old Mrs. Zhao was very old and in poor health, and she didn't even know that her youngest son had also sacrificed his life.
Those who knew the truth dared not speak out, fearing that the old lady, seriously ill, would not be able to accept the fact.
“If that’s the case, then Xinlan, Miaoya, and Luoshui’s children have hardly ever been sick,” Zhang Juanjuan began to analyze.
Xu Miaoya's child only got sick once and rarely got sick afterward. Liu Xinlan's child was well taken care of from birth and there was no news of him ever getting sick.
Qian Luoshui was even more amazing; she gave birth to her child in just half an hour after entering the delivery room.
Shen Qiaoyue found their conversation amusing and then suddenly pointed out that it made a lot of sense.
"Thinking about it, it really is true. Now that you mention it, I remember someone in my family had a child at fifteen. That child was really pitiful; he died a few months later. After that, he had a second and third child, all of whom had intellectual disabilities. Only the youngest one was of normal intelligence, but he was weak and sickly!"
Huang Yingzi also began to think about the things that happened when many people in her hometown had children.
"Actually, this isn't necessarily accurate. It depends on an individual's genes. For example, if you have a miscarriage and have just gone through the pain of childbirth, you need to recuperate and recover your body. This is a long process, taking at least a few years. And if you get pregnant again less than a year after giving birth, childbirth is also very troublesome."
Shen Qiaoyue at least had some understanding of this; when she was in college, she read some foreign books.
Liu Xinlan nodded and said, "Qiaoyue is right. The fetus needs to absorb nutrients from the mother's body. As long as the body is well-nourished, eats well, and sleeps well, there are basically no problems. The main thing is to listen to the doctor. In the past, there were no conditions, and childbirth could only be done at home. Now it's different. There are hospitals where all kinds of examinations can be done. The main thing is still to listen to the doctor."
"Previously, medical science education was incomplete. Some women would start having sex again right after giving birth, and their contraceptive methods were also incorrect. They didn't have access to contraception, so they could easily get pregnant again. It's like their bellies hadn't had a chance to rest before they got pregnant again! These babies are either prone to miscarriage or are likely to have various problems after birth!"
When Shen Qiaoyue was a child, she saw a neighbor's aunt who became pregnant less than two months after giving birth, gave birth to several children, and eventually died in childbirth.
"Yes, yes!" Huang Yingzi nodded quickly. "That's absolutely true. Women just have a hard life! Not only women need to understand this, but boys should understand it too!"
"So, Aunt Zhang has experienced and seen things like this before, which is why she feels sorry for Xiaoli. Aunt Zhang is a good person, so Battalion Commander Li Qingming can't be too bad either."
Qian Luoshui, who was standing to the side, also started teasing Xia Xiaoli.
Xia Xiaoli lowered her head shyly.
And that concludes the discussion about having children.
When my sister-in-law and I get together, we talk about many things. But as we start talking, things tend to change and the conversation turns to other topics.
As the weather gets colder and winter approaches, everyone is discussing how to prepare for the New Year by slaughtering pigs. Everyone in the residential compound has three pigs, and they want to slaughter them so they can have a good winter. The pigs that can't be eaten will be preserved as dried meat with salt and can be stored for a long time.
After chatting, they went home. Shen Qiaoyue helped pick vegetables, while Qian Luoshui and Chu Wanfang cooked in the kitchen.
Xiao Nian moved a small stool and sat down next to Shen Qiaoyue.
"Want to help Mom pick vegetables?" Shen Qiaoyue looked at the precocious little girl, Xiao Nian. She was dressed in thick clothes and even moved a stool over to sit down by herself. The child, who was a little unsteady on her feet, was able to move a stool over to sit down by herself.
"Mom... vegetables?" Xiao Nian reached out and handed a leafy vegetable to his mother.
"Xiao Nian wants Mom to teach you, right?" Shen Qiaoyue asked Xiao Nian.
"Yes!" Xiao Nian replied confidently.
Shen Qiaoyue patted Xiao Nian's head and said, "Xiao Nian is not old enough to cook yet, Mom can do it."
Xiao Nian looked at his mother, wondering why she didn't teach her how to do it.
"Xiao Nian, sit down obediently and keep Mommy company." Shen Qiaoyue looked at Xiao Nian, what a sweet little girl.
Then look at the two young men in front of my house; they're arguing and tearing at each other.
“My little darling is so sweet, Mommy loves her!” Shen Qiaoyue said, looking at Xiao Nian.
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