Su Yan frowned. Does this child often get scolded at home? Just as she was about to ask something, Qin Shuang said, "You always snatch food from your brother, so of course mom scolds you. Your brother is a boy and the pillar of our family, so we have to give in to him."

Qin Xue's eyes were filled with tears as she said aggrievedly, "No, I ate slowly and my brother snatched my food away."

"You are older than your brother, so you should give in to him. Aunt, do you think I am right?"

Su Yan didn’t think Qin Shuang was right at all. Could it be that this child was brainwashed by her grandmother?

She had resisted before for the five-dollar New Year's money, and now that it happened to her sister, she still wanted Xiaoxue to give in to her brother. Is she planning to become a brother-supporting demon?

Su Yan cleared her throat and said, "Aunt Shuangshuang tells you, no one should give in to anyone else. It's wrong for Siming to snatch Xiaoxue's food.

Courtesy is a traditional virtue, but it's not an obligation. If your sister doesn't want to give her food to her brother, you can't force her to eat it, okay?

After Su Yan finished her lecture with Qin Shuang, she said to Lu Shu, "Five fingers have different lengths. In fact, when you have too many children, it's inevitable that parents will feel unfair.

No matter which family it is, the first child, whether a son or a daughter, will naturally attract the attention of the family. If the second child is also a girl, she will be easily ignored by the family, especially in the case of you who gave birth to a son as the third child.

For example, your Xiaoxue is younger than Shuangshuang, and many of her clothes are picked up by Shuangshuang. All of you care about Shuangshuang more than Xiaoxue, not to mention your son Siming.

"Sister-in-law, we didn't ignore Xiaoxue. She's usually quiet and a bit clingy, and she's always slow in doing anything."

"Little sister, I found Xiaoxue to be quite quiet and smart. She's clingy because she likes you guys and wants you to pay more attention to her.

I know that parents want their children to be successful. I wonder if you have ever heard the saying, "If you try hard to plant flowers, they may not bloom, but if you try hard to plant willows, they may grow into a shade."

Who knows, the child you care the least about may end up being the most successful and the most filial. "

Generally, quiet children are sensitive and more vulnerable. Children like Qin Shuang who express their dissatisfaction directly are generally strong and not easily taken advantage of.

She didn't want to say anything else. After all, Xiaoxue was not her daughter, and they seldom saw each other because they were busy with work. Now that she had come to this point today, she wanted to say a few fair words for Xiaoxue.