The result is not important, what is important is the process.

As long as they have had it and been happy, they will not feel too regretful even if they are not together in the future.

After all, not every relationship can last from the beginning to the end.

Even if they cannot go to the last step in the future, he will remember these happy and beautiful times.

At least at this time, the happiness they bring to each other is real.

Life is short and bitter. We should have the awareness of enjoying it while we can and know how to grasp the present. Don't think about the illusory future. As long as we live every day without regrets, then when the end of life comes, there will be no regrets and no regrets.

Besides, human emotions are actually very strange.

Liking someone is nothing more than the result of hormones, which cannot be secreted for a lifetime.

If you think about the long term future, your life will be very tiring.

Sera didn't want to live that kind of life herself.

Cherish each other when they are together. If they are really not destined to be together and separate in the future, she will not think badly about him.

Sera had also seen some lovers who were very much in love with each other.

Once they break up, they regard each other as enemies and erase all the beauty and sweetness that happened before.

In fact, she didn't understand this phenomenon.

In her opinion, even if two people break up, the beauty they once had did exist. As long as both parties were sincere when they were together, they should leave gracefully even if they break up.

Li Xia listened to Sera's words and nodded, "Sera, I didn't expect you to have such awareness. You are right. Even if you get married, you can't guarantee that you will not get divorced for a lifetime, let alone if you are just dating. You fall in love because you like each other. If one day you don't like each other anymore, then there is no need to be together. But this way of dealing with it can only be used in the period of dating. If you are really destined to walk into the palace of marriage in the future, it would be fine if you two don't have children. If you have children, for the sake of the children, you can't think of separating just because you don't like each other anymore. After all, love is difficult to maintain for a lifetime. When two people live together, love will slowly fade away, and you will change from lovers to relatives. At that time, it is family affection that maintains the relationship."

"Really? Li Xia, will you and your man eventually come to this? If there is no love between you, but you have to force yourself to be with each other just for the sake of the child?"

Sera frowned and asked in confusion.

"If you ask me to talk about big principles, I may be able to say a lot, but if you turn the question to myself, I can't tell you the exact answer. What I just said may only mean that most people are like that, but it does not represent all people. After all, I have seen some people whose love can last a long time, such as my husband's eldest brother and sister-in-law. They are considered the model couples I have seen. Many people will get along with each other because of children after being married for more than ten years, but they have been married for more than ten years and have no children. They have never said anything cold to each other because of this topic. So, what I said is not a complete pairing. You also have to have confidence in yourself. Maybe you can live a life that others envy."

"By the way, Li Xia, when are your children coming over? Let me know and I'll go with you to pick them up. By the way, I'll take a look at your man with my own eyes. I've only seen his photo, and I haven't seen his real face yet. I'm also very curious about what kind of charm he has that made you give birth to two children for him in one go."

Sera blinked, looked at Lixia and spoke.

Ever since she knew that Li Xia had children, she had always wanted to meet them.

However, due to the time difference between the two places, this wish has never been realized.

Li Xia glanced at her and moved her lips: "Sera, when will you change this habit? Why are you so curious about other people's affairs? Just take care of your own business. Besides, if you want to see it, haven't you seen his photos before? Just look at the photos, why do you have to see him in person? Besides, people look the same, don't they all have two eyes, a nose and a mouth? Except for the slightly different skin color, everyone has the same face. If he didn't have two extra horns, why would he be so curious?"

Li Xia really didn't understand why Sera was always curious about Shan Yilin's appearance.

And even after seeing his photo, she was still curious.

Aren’t I pretty much the same as in the photo?

"You can't tell from the photo, so you have to look at the person. What's wrong? Is it not okay to look at him? The one in your family is not someone you can't see."

Sera moved her lips.

Photos are photos, and real people are real people. There are definitely differences.

Besides, the photos are dead and don’t move, so what can you see?

People are different. When you meet face to face, you can better understand what kind of person he is.

"No, I'm thinking about you and Chen Chuan. Why don't you two enjoy your own world during the holidays instead of following me? You should just spend time with your boyfriend. By the way, speaking of Chen Chuan, the winter vacation is coming soon. Will he go back to China for the Spring Festival? Or will he stay here with you? If he goes back to China, will you go with him?"

Li Xia treated the man in his own way.

If Sera gossiped about her, then she would gossip about her in return.

Let's see if she can change this bad habit next time.

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