Song Xia was completely stunned when she was chosen by the system; she couldn't understand it at all. She had never given birth, and her heart had long since turned to ice, so why was she chose...
[Haha, my mom's the same. I worked an all-nighter, and I told her I wasn't going to eat breakfast and needed to catch up on sleep. My mom came in every five minutes, insisting I eat before going to sleep. I told her I'd already eaten at the company, but she said no, she'd already prepared everything, how could I not eat?]
[My experience is similar to Liang Hui's. I come from a rural background and have a younger brother. From the time I graduated, he started asking me for money. At first, I thought my family couldn't afford it, so I sent him money willingly. But later I discovered that they would even make me buy a bottle of dish soap online. When I was sick and hospitalized, they weren't worried about my health; instead, they asked how much the hospital stay would cost and how much work I would miss. They had no money to lend me for surgery. Heaven knows I never intended to ask them for surgery fees. But from that day on, I woke up. I stopped letting them take advantage of me indefinitely. But after that, they started to ruin my reputation in front of relatives, getting those relatives to call and berate me.]
[Many rural girls with older or younger brothers are like this, only the degree of their parents' excessiveness varies. I've learned my lesson now; I only buy them things, not money.]
My cousin was driven insane by my aunt. She was incredibly controlling. Her first girlfriend rejected him because he was too young and immature, easily deceived by women, and she drove her away. Her second girlfriend rejected her because of her family background, constantly making things difficult for him. When he was thirty, he had his third girlfriend. After he moved to another city and got married, she went to his wife's workplace and made a scene. I told her my cousin's wife was abusing her, and in the end, my cousin divorced her. He became silent, stopped working, and just tormented her at home. Now she says she regrets it. It's ridiculous.
Why do so many older generations of parents have distorted personalities?
[That's why young people these days are less willing to get married. Besides socioeconomic reasons, some may also be due to having terrible family backgrounds, having no expectations for starting a family, and not wanting their children to suffer like they did.]
Just a few episodes after the premiere, the experiences of the four female leads sparked a lot of discussion, with the most common comment being the realism of the show, saying it was exactly like their own experiences. However, ordinary people are different from the female leads in the show. Most ordinary people don't have such close sisters, nor do they have many opportunities. Even if opportunities are presented to them, they don't know how to cherish or seize them.
However, even without such an opportunity, many people have learned courage from the show and how to solve the difficulties encountered in the drama, making the show increasingly popular.