Since things had come to this point, the director had no choice but to try anything, even if it seemed hopeless.

But in fact, none of the male guests, including Cheng Yize and Qin Menghan, wanted to give a message.

Zhong Yi'an, on the other hand, was simply not interested in the so-called message.

He said he's too used to polite talk, and he can't bring himself to say anything truly heartfelt and uplifting.

After all, he has no such worries.

What was his growth like? Was it simply transforming from a corporate boss into a famous actor?

This is of no reference value to others.

The three guests' slacking off infuriated the audience.

They thought the guests were too arrogant, and in fact, they didn't want to listen. They didn't care what the guests said or didn't want to talk; it was none of their business.

They were more interested in hearing what advice the female guests would give them for their lives.

After all, many people have some overlap with the life trajectories of the three female guests, and they may be in a period of confusion and uncertainty.

The first person to speak was Chen Qingxuan.

Perhaps it's because at home, when she wants to express herself, there's no one to listen. Coming to this show, at least someone is willing to truly sit down and listen to her talk, which is why she's so interested in giving advice for other people's future.

Holding the microphone, she said, "When I came to this show, my label was housewife, full-time mom. The production team chose me to let mothers in the same situation as me see that being a full-time mom is actually great and very fulfilling, and to encourage you to work harder to contribute to your families."

"But I want to say sorry here because I am not happy. Not only am I not happy, but in other people's eyes I am even asking for trouble. After all, my conditions are better than many people's. But I am very clear that I have completely lost my direction in life during the years of working full-time."

“Starting over is for my child and for myself. My example will probably make many stay-at-home moms hate me, after all, I was too hypocritical. Since I enjoyed a happy family life, why did I start to regret it at a certain point in time? But I still want to say that I think my choice was right.”

“We are born into this world to experience it. I don’t want to wait until I leave this world to say what my value and sense of existence I have, except that I have raised my two children well and made them successful—or if they haven’t, I will have nothing to say.”

“I have been supported by my husband my whole life. People don’t know what I have accomplished, they only know that I have been a full-time housewife my whole life.”

So what? Why bother pursuing values? Isn't life tiring? She really takes herself too seriously.

[You may disagree with her opinion, but your criticism is meaningless. Pursuing one's own existence and value is a noble spiritual pursuit and a sign of progress. Does life have to be like that of livestock, eating and sleeping all the time? That would also make one a beast.]

The argument in the live stream did not interrupt Chen Qingxuan, and she continued to speak.

"I'm someone who craves external validation, and the thought of that kind of ending terrifies me. I live in such a wonderful era, with such great conditions, but who am I living for? My husband, children, and even my in-laws are ahead of me. Is my life only about doing laundry, cooking, and warming other people's beds?"

"Besides, my husband supporting me for life is already the best outcome I could hope for. I have to pray that he will be loyal to me, love me, and remain faithful for decades to come. Isn't demanding that someone remain unchanged a form of torture?"

Chen Qingxuan's words silenced many people again.

Because what she said is true, why do you expect someone to remain unchanged? In fact, as long as a person has humanity and experiences the changes of the world, it is difficult for them to remain unchanged.

It's better to rely on yourself than on others.

"So I decided to leave. I'm not content, I'm greedy, I don't appreciate what I have. Even if I suffer, I won't regret it. That kind of life isn't what I want. I'll know once I experience it."

"If I had to give advice to everyone, I would say to stay-at-home moms in the same situation as me, if you still want to go back to work, I hope you can give it another try. We all need to leave some value and color in our lives."

“If your values ​​are different from mine, I won’t rush you to go to work. After all, everyone has their own path to pursue. Perhaps for you, a happy life is the best thing, the highest pursuit in life. As long as you are satisfied, that’s enough.”

“I also hope that some stay-at-home moms can be more tolerant of working women. Sometimes I see comments that mock working moms for having to raise children and work, saying they don’t know how to enjoy life.”

"But in fact, the ability to be independent and to earn your own money should be respected. Taking control of your own destiny is the most basic thing. Isn't that how we were all educated? Is taking money from others something to brag about? I don't understand, because I feel uncomfortable taking money from others, and I feel uncomfortable not creating value."

[You're upset, but I'm not. Can you please stop talking? It's so annoying, why are there so many things to discuss? Why don't you talk about all the criticism of stay-at-home moms?]

The criticism stems from frustration and disappointment, from resentment towards women who entrust their fate to others, feeling unjustly inferior. Otherwise, who would bother with you? Don't go online seeking help when you're later abused, cheated on, or denied property.

If you don't want to listen, then don't listen. There are many people in the live stream who do want to listen.

Chen Qingxuan continued: "I have read history. The equal right to work that we have and the protections that women have are all fought for by our predecessors who are too extreme in your eyes. The rights they fought for us allow us to have property and security in our families. We cannot deny the voice that women in the workplace have fought for for all of us women."

Many people remain silent because they simply don't understand. They insist on bringing up some grand vision, arguing that they were born here and in this era, and should therefore enjoy the fruits of their predecessors' struggles.

Chen Qingxuan seemed to realize she had said too much, and she forced a smile: "In the end, I still hope that everyone can learn from my experience. Everyone should learn to be content. No matter where you are, as long as you can avoid regrets, I think that's good enough. If you do regret it, then you should hurry up and get out of there."

“I know I don’t fit into that kind of life, so I’m escaping. If you think being a full-time mom is good, I’ll wish you all the best.”

"After I leave the show, you can criticize me all you want. I'm willing to be an example and show you how a stay-at-home mom who has been at home for a long time will live."

"I will not turn back, please rest assured."