Mother Gu also echoed:

"Yes, yes, don't worry about that. I can guarantee that there will be no man in our family who beats his wife."

"Let alone anything else, if he really bullies Xiaojin in the future, we will be the first one in the family to not let him go."

"Don't worry about this. Xiaojin is such a good girl, how could our family have the heart to bully her?"

"I can't say anything else, but Xiaojin will definitely not have to suffer hardships if she marries into our family. If she doesn't want to cook, we have a nanny who can do it for her."

"He has his own business now. If he feels too tired working outside, he can come home. We can afford to support one person."

"She doesn't have to work so hard. Everything is up to her. She can do what she wants to do and not do what she doesn't want to do. Our family has the conditions."

"Also, we don't favor boys over girls in the future. We have several grandchildren, so we're not in a rush about this."

"Everything should be left to nature. We will never put any pressure on them. Is it a boy or a girl? We both prefer that the two of them live their own lives first and then think about the future."

"Jing Mo has his own house. If they don't want to live with us in the future, they can move out. After all, it's easy for conflicts to arise when two parties live together now. We know that."

"Don't worry, as long as you let your child marry into our family, we promise that he will not suffer any loss and will definitely treat him like our own daughter."

After hearing what he said, Grandpa Xia nodded with a smile on his face. To be fair, the in-laws his granddaughter found were really excellent.

To marry into a family like theirs is really marrying up, but they don't look down on their family at all. Instead, every word they say is for their own family members.

Moreover, they did not act arrogantly. Instead, they put the child on an equal footing and discussed the matter. It seemed that they really loved their little Jin.

Besides, their family is well-off enough. Even if my granddaughter marries into their family, her future living conditions will not be too bad, even if I don't work.

Not to mention their village, even in the county, how many people can marry into such a family, with a nanny, and the mother-in-law and father-in-law are so well-educated and well-mannered.

Nan Fang is also quite capable, and he can rely on himself to provide his granddaughter with a better life. The two of them seem to be very compatible. No matter what, their conditions are really impeccable.

Even if they wanted to refuse, they couldn't find any reason to refuse. After all, he really didn't have any shortcomings. The only shortcoming was that he was too busy at work and couldn't come back in time to accompany her.

But in this era, everyone has a filter for soldiers. Not to mention that he holds such a high position, even if he is an ordinary soldier, the people in the village will be very happy if they can marry their children to him.

There is no holiday, there is no holiday, they are at the front line to defend the country.

They have no reason to complain about those who work hard for the country. After all, without them, they would not have the good life they have now.

Therefore, this only shortcoming cannot be called a shortcoming, but rather an honor.

Besides, compared to his one shortcoming, it is not really a shortcoming. If she marries someone else, he might have problems of all kinds, and his family conditions may not be as good as his.

The people in their family don’t get along as well as they do, and they don’t necessarily have to be ugly, so no matter from which aspect, he is the best choice.

The most important thing is that their children like them. They have been together for 34 years. It would be impossible for them to separate.

The two children have a good relationship. Although Xia Jin rolled her eyes at Gu Jingmo when she came down just now, it was obvious that the relationship between the two was not bad.

They are all experienced people, and they can see clearly between the two people. Their relationship is still very good and has not been affected at all.

Everyone is like this, so I guarantee they have no objection.

"Well, since both children are interested and have been dating for so many years, we can't force them to break up. Since both children are willing, then let it be."

"As for the betrothal gifts, you can just follow ours and take 300 yuan."

"We don't have any other requests. As for the four major items, we already have them at home. If they were to be sent here, it would be inconvenient to transport them to the capital. Let the children buy them themselves."

"You two aren't together just for the money, so just give a little bit to show off. After all, the money will be given to the children in the end."

After hearing what Grandpa Xia said, Mother Gu shook her head and said:

"That won't do. This is our gift to your family. How can we just give it so casually? Since you don't have any requirements, then we'll do as we say."

"We have prepared 9999 here, which represents the longevity of the children. You already have things like radios and televisions, so we will see if there are any other things we can buy."

"No matter what, we can't lower our status and let others look down on us. If people in the capital knew about this, they would think we weren't sincere about marrying Xia Jin."

"We've given you this money. It's up to you what you want to do with it. Even if you give it back to Xiao Jin, we won't touch it."

"What we gave to your family is yours. As for the rest, we have also prepared some start-up capital for the young couple. Of course, they probably don't need this money."

"After all, Xiaojin's business has grown so big in the past two years. We also know that my son has some stakes in other businesses. They really don't need money."

"But whether we give more or less is our intention. Whether they need it or not is their business, and whether we give it or not is our business. These start-up funds were also decided long ago."

"My sons also have money, so whether they need it or not, we will give it to them. It's not much, just tens of thousands of yuan."

"This will be for their small family to spend. If they need anything, they can buy it themselves. We can't take care of the rest."

When Grandpa Xia heard that he was talking about nearly ten thousand yuan, he was a little surprised and said:

"No, no, there's no need for so much. No one in our village can come up with so much money at once. So just give this much as a betrothal gift."

"Less it, please. If you think 300 isn't enough, then add some of this 9999. It's really too much."

"It's not easy for everyone to earn money. There's no need to give them so much. Can't you two just use the money for yourselves?"