Chapter 450 Help me... My dear father is going to cut off my fingers...

He put Jiang Dongyu on her head, put the little cotton jacket between her legs, picked up the scissors, grabbed her hands and started cutting.

When she cut the first two, Jiang Dongyuan was full of curiosity and didn't move.

But when he was about to cut the third one, she started to move, pulling her hands as if to stop him from cutting.

Jiang Jinzhou: "Don't move, it will fall off if you move your fingers!"

Jiang Dongyuan stared at him, as if she understood, but also as if she didn't.

Before she finished cutting one, she started shaking again.

"Tsk tsk tsk...don't move!"

She stopped moving again.

After he finished cutting the third nail, Jiang Dongyuan started waving again.

"oops……"

Seeing that he couldn't control himself, Liang Xiulan took Jiang Dongyu off her head and went over to help.

One hand pulled her arm, and the other hand controlled her entire upper body, suppressing her forcefully.

Jiang Dongyuan's freedom was restricted and she began to cry loudly.

Jiang Dongyuan: Help me... Help me... My dear dad is going to cut off my fingers...

Crying from beginning to end.

On the second day of the Chinese New Year, all girls go back to their parents' home.

In previous years, Liu Guizhi would take Liang Xiulan and Liang Xiujuan to Liu Shuisheng's home to pay New Year's greetings.

But this year is different. Liang Xiulan is in confinement after giving birth, and everyone has to come to Liang Xiulan's house.

Happy New Year and send a half-month gift.

Anyone who enters the door will ask, "What's going on with this door?"

Liu Guizhi said casually: "Jinzhou's nephew came yesterday. The child was naughty and accidentally bumped into him."

"Tsk tsk tsk, it's New Year's Day..."

"It's okay, it's okay. After the fifth day of the New Year, we can find a piece of glass to install it. It's not a big deal. Come and sit down..."

Liu Guizhi greeted the guests, while Jiang Jinzhou and Liang Jianguo poured tea and washed the fruit.

There were quite a few children coming, running around in the house, making it very lively.

But there are always adults watching, so there will be no situation of climbing onto the sofa to reach the crystal chandelier.

The men were looking after the children outside, and all the women went into Liang Xiulan's room to look after the two children.

The two children, who were less than twenty days old, were praised like flowers by everyone, while the person concerned was fast asleep.

The more people there are, the sounder they sleep. They were awakened by the noise, so they opened their eyelids, rolled their eyes, and continued to sleep.

Completely ignoring the New Year's money stuffed into his arms.

In addition to the New Year's money they received, there was also Jiang Jinzhou's.

Jiang Jinzhou smiled and waved his hand: "I sent it last year, so I don't need it this year."

"That was last year's, and this year he's still a new son-in-law, so take it."

Since that was the case, he had no choice but to accept them all.

At around ten o'clock, Liu Guizhi started to busy herself with cooking. Liang Xiujuan went in to help, and Zhang Hong and Li Qingtao also went in to help.

Liu Guizhi looked towards the living room and found that Liu Dayou's wife was not there, so she couldn't help but ask a few questions.

"Why didn't Dayou's wife come?"

Zhang Hong was picking vegetables and said in a low voice, "She doesn't want to come."

"What's wrong?"

"Nothing, I went back to my parents' home."

"She went back to her parents' home, why didn't Dayou go with her?"

Li Qingtao nudged Liu Guizhi with her elbow and winked at her.

"Xiu Lan's baby is only half a month old, so she's going to have a lot to gain. Don't ask me."

Thinking that something happened, Liu Guizhi stuck out her tongue and didn't ask any more questions.

At lunch time, there were too many people at home and two tables were not enough, so Jiang Jinzhou went to Mrs. Sun's house to borrow another one.

As she gets older, she can't bear to throw away any junk. Those things that others think will never be used are finally useful this time, and she becomes more confident.

"Look at this. I told you this thing is useful, right? But you insisted on throwing it away."

"If I really throw it away, what will Jinzhou use today?"

Her two daughters both held their foreheads and laughed without saying a word.

When Jiang Jinzhou was leaving, Mrs. Sun's third daughter pulled him aside and asked, "When can we start work after the New Year? I've prepared everything here."

Jiang Jinzhou said, "Maybe in March. It's not good to build a house when it's cold."

"Okay, I'll come see you in March."

"Yeah, okay!"

After returning home, Hu Dabiao had already moved the sofa and made room for a table in the living room.

But even with two tables, there was still not enough space for everyone to sit, so the children had to either eat standing up or sitting on the coffee table.

When Liang Xiulan sat down at the table, a group of so-called experienced people began to drive her into the room.

"Why did you come out? You're in confinement after giving birth, hurry back, hurry back..."

With that, the two men carried her back to the house.

Although Liang Xiulan knew that they were doing this for her own good, she still felt uncomfortable.

There is always a feeling of being imprisoned.

"Oh, I didn't leave the living room. There's no wind in the living room. It's okay, it's okay..."

"That won't work either. What if I get some postpartum illness? And you can't sit for long periods of time during confinement. Your back will ache if you sit for too long."

"It's okay, it's okay..."

"What do you mean it's okay? Just be obedient and stay in the room. If you can avoid going out, don't go out. Just bear with it. It will be fine after the confinement period..."

Push her onto the bed, then quickly go out and close the door.

Liang Xiulan: I feel so wronged... I feel like confinement is like being in prison...

Perhaps some people will envy those who are in confinement after childbirth, who can eat and sleep all day long and do nothing but feed their babies.

But that is not the case.

Women who have just given birth have hormonal imbalances, are physically weak, and are prone to emotional collapse.

Therefore, people who are in confinement not only need a good rest, but also need someone to accompany them.

Just think about it, a person who needs companionship is locked in the house all day, facing a child who can't speak and can only cry, and she has to be like a feeding machine, constantly feeding, changing diapers, and coaxing the child.

I have to eat things I don’t like all day long, and I eat brown sugar eggs until I vomit.

What was that experience like?

Why do we say that a mother must be strong? It is not just about being physically strong, but also being strong mentally.

She wants to understand everyone, including herself.

Even with her hormone levels disordered, her heart fragile, her body weak, injuries, and having a child, she still has to play multiple roles as a mother, daughter-in-law, daughter, wife, etc.

Except herself.

When Liang Xiulan gave birth to her first child, she cried several times during the confinement period.

It’s because no one pays attention to her and no one accompanies her.

When the child woke up, the first thing Xue Shuzhen did was to hand the baby to Liang Xiulan and ask her to feed him. No matter what Liang Xiulan was doing, she always said this.

"Hurry up and let the child eat."

Even when she was pooping or peeing, Xue Shuzhen still said: "Hurry up, the child must be hungry when he wakes up. You poop later, don't let the child cry."

The same goes for eating. As soon as the food enters her mouth, the baby wakes up and she has to feed him.

By the time she had finished eating and taken care of the child's poop and pee, her meal was cold.

There is no need to reheat a bowl of rice. You can either drink it with some hot water or eat it cold.

When the child was sleeping, whether it was day or night, Xue Shuzhen would whisper in her ear.

"Go to sleep quickly when the child is asleep. Don't wait until the child wakes up before you fall asleep again..."

She is a human being, not a machine. She cannot fall asleep just like that. She needs at least half an hour of transition period before going to bed.

Especially at that time, she would wake up from time to time, worried that the child would urinate, poop, or vomit.

So during the day, she basically couldn't sleep and would wake up as soon as the child moved.

Xue Shuzhen said she was stupid and dumb, and that she didn't go to bed quickly after the child fell asleep. It was her fault that she got sick from staying up too long.

At that time, she was really lonely and had a lot of grievances but no one to talk to. She went to talk to Jiang Jinzhou, but he was busy drinking and playing cards with his friends.

Finally, Liang Xiulan cried and grabbed him, refusing to let go, and secretly told him about her grievances. Only then did Jiang Jinzhou realize that his wife had not had a good confinement period.

Gradually, he began to consider Liang Xiulan's feelings, and later, he took care of her personally.

Chat with her and help her take care of the children.

It is said that women who are in confinement after childbirth should not cry, but how many mothers who are alone in confinement after childbirth do not cry?