Old people love to laugh at children and young people because they are not married and do not know how to have fun. When couples quarrel, they quarrel at the head of the bed and make up at the foot of the bed. So her mother complains about her father every day, but she has never thought about parting ways with her father. Similarly, her father complains about her mother every day, but he has never thought about separating from his wife.

The quarrel between the couple does not hurt themselves. After all, it is their own choice and no one else can be blamed. Who is hurt? The children.

The psychological trauma that parents cause to their children will definitely last a lifetime.

So for children, is it definitely a good thing if their parents are loving and happy?

Medicine has long proven that the influence of one person on another can never be fully explained, and even brain science has not yet fully understood it.

For example, her grandfather was a well-known lovelorn man who was well-known to the neighbors. He took care of his sick wife for many years and never left her until she passed away. After his wife passed away, he never thought of remarrying when he was young. Otherwise, with her grandfather's handsome appearance, there would be many women willing to come to him to seduce him.

As a result, my grandfather's two daughters, her mother, and my aunt all had unhappy marriages.

The parents are too loving at home, which may give the children the illusion that all marriages in this society are happy???

Influenced by her father's view on love, her mother believes that after establishing a small family, everything should be centered around the small family.

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Her father was indoctrinated with the clan concept that the Xie family cultivated for his sons since he was a child, that his own small family had to make all concessions for the Xie family.

Therefore, such a strange thing happened. Although his own small family could not make ends meet, after being persuaded by the Xie family, Xie Changrong used the scholarship his daughter had won for her studies to support his younger brother in buying a house.

If this happens in a wealthy family, it's the same. Believe it or not, if one party takes most of the assets to give to others for free, no matter how rich the couple is, they will break up. For example, the wife who supports her brother is what rich gay men hate the most. It can only be said that men and women are the same in this matter.

Why is marriage said to be the grave of love? It is simply because one is unable to fully understand the other person’s logic before marriage.

To ensure a good marriage, the only way is to wait until the day when medicine advances to the point where it can detect the logical ceiling of the other person's brain and whether it is the bottom line of what one can tolerate. Otherwise, the issue of whether men and women are completely compatible will never be resolved.

What to do if you are not completely compatible? You can only make do with it. Many couples ridicule themselves that their marriage is just a compromise.

Sun Rongfang has no confidence in her own brain, so she can only hope that her daughter is not like her and that it would be best for her to study medicine. Knowing more about the human body will help her make good choices in life.

Talking about the specific process of the incident, after sending his son away, Mr. Du described:

When Sun Rongfang was young, she took care of Grandpa Du and won his appreciation, and then met Mr. Du's eldest brother. Mr. Du's eldest brother wanted to marry her mother, but her mother refused because she already had her father as a marriage partner.

Not only that, because she had to draw a line with Brother Du about this matter, her mother knew that someone had secretly tampered with her test scores and did not protest.

The so-called exam refers to the personal medical exam selection that Grandpa Du needs to take to recruit a medical staff to take care of him long-term.

"Your mother's grades were not replaced by anyone, they were just deliberately lowered. This was done by my eldest brother."

I could tell that Brother Du was very angry at that time. You would rather reject me and choose that guy who is much worse than me. I might as well do as you wish.

After suppressing her mother, supporting Dr. Shao to take the position became a necessity.