Many netizens have seen the news about a wealthy man finding his biological son who was abducted as a child.

I heard that after his biological son was found, the wealthy father directly gave him a luxury car -

Next, I will buy a house for my son and arrange a wedding for him and his girlfriend.

Now that I have recognized my rich father, I can say that I don’t have to work hard for the rest of my life!

This kind of thing is definitely enviable for millions of workers on the Internet.

Now that it was mentioned by the young people, everyone understood it immediately.

However, from what the young man said, although both were found by their biological parents, his experience was completely opposite to that of the rich man’s son on the Internet?

Soon, netizens heard the truth -

"The person who claimed to be my biological mother cried on the phone and said she missed me. She also said that she had never given up looking for me for more than 20 years."

"She wanted to see me and recognize me. She even said she came to me not to ask me to take care of her in her old age. She has two daughters and my two sisters will take care of her."

"I learned that she simply wanted to see her son, who had been separated for over 20 years. I was moved by her longing for him, so I took the initiative to go to her city and meet her."

When the young man said this, netizens all felt that it was a good thing for the mother and son to recognize each other.

only……

[Something else must have happened during the recognition! Otherwise, this guy wouldn't have looked so sad.]

Netizens guessed it right!

"After meeting my biological mother, I learned from her that my biological father died of illness a few years ago. Now, besides my mother, my family only has two sisters."

"My sisters are all married and have children, and my biological mother's family is ordinary. Unlike those adopted families online, they can't help the child."

"In fact, when I agreed to meet her and decided to recognize my family, I didn't think about relying on my family's wealth to get rich."

"I'm a college graduate with a stable job in a third-tier city, earning 6,000 to 7,000 yuan a month. After paying for my expenses, I can still save some money."

"I thought my biological mother had found me, and that I could just visit her during the holidays. But not long after, my biological mother said she was sick and wanted me to treat her..."

When netizens heard this, they immediately understood!

[This kind of recognition of relatives feels like a trap! ]

[What disease? How much?]

[No matter how much it costs, she originally said she wouldn't let her long-lost son support her in her old age, but now she's being asked to pay for her medical care?]

[Didn't she say she had two daughters to look after her? Why didn't she let her daughters treat her?]

My daughter is already married and has her own family and children. Which man would want his wife to give all the family money to her mother-in-law?

[This may sound a bit harsh, but it's also true. It's okay for a son-in-law to take a small amount of money, but he'll definitely be unhappy if he takes too much!]

It's natural for children to pay for their parents' medical treatment, but it's inappropriate for parents who haven't raised their children to ask them for money when they're sick.

[Daughters are raised by themselves, so they should take care of their mother.]

[If this adopted son is able, it is reasonable for him to give some money to his biological mother for medical treatment, considering their blood relationship. However, this money is only for filial piety, and it does not need to be a lot.]

…

Many of the discussions among netizens were very pertinent, but unfortunately the young man’s biological mother was not one to know when to stop.

The young man continued.

"My biological mother has cancer. It's not too serious and there's a chance of cure, but it will cost a lot of money, conservatively estimated to be over 500,000 or 600,000!"

"My two older sisters didn't have any spare money to spend because their families were poor, so my biological mother asked me to save her life and give her all these hundreds of thousands of dollars!"

"When I learned about this, the only thought in my mind was that I had been cheated!"

"I even suspect that her purpose in finding her son was to get him to give her money to treat her illness!"

"She even said she'd rely on her daughters for her old age... Now that she's sick, her daughters can't be relied on, so how can she rely on them when she's old?"

"With this kind of recognition, I really would rather never be able to recognize my biological parents in this life!"

The young man's words sounded a bit cold-blooded, but he was not a rich man and his life was just getting by. How could he shoulder such a burden?

When netizens heard this and put themselves in the shoes of others, they also couldn’t accept it!

[Yes, I think you were deceived too! ]

[Your suspicion is correct. She must have found you so that you could treat her illness!]

Asking a son I haven't seen for over 20 years to save my life... This is moral kidnapping!

[Does not paying mean not helping? This kind of mother is a bit suffocating...]

"Hey, if you encounter something like this, don't worry! As long as you don't pay, what can she do? There's no need to think too hard about it."

[If you make up your mind about this and don't give her the money, what else can she do?]

[Yeah, it’s not to the point where I don’t want to live.]

…

For a time, netizens began to persuade the young man not to commit suicide.

But obviously, the young man experienced more than that.

He continued—

"I've been out of school for four or five years. My initial salary was less than 6,000 or 7,000 yuan, so I couldn't save much. In the past two years, I've had a stable job, but I've only saved 50,000 or 60,000 yuan. I definitely don't have hundreds of thousands of yuan to spend on her medical treatment, but she's still relying on me!"

"I had a girlfriend and we had a very good relationship. She didn't mind me being an orphan. We had originally planned to get married before the Chinese New Year, but my girlfriend's family found out about my situation and thought I would be a burden if I had a biological mother like that."

"My girlfriend's parents don't agree with us being together, and my biological mother is also worried about the cost of my marriage. In comparison, her medical treatment is more important."

"So she found my girlfriend privately and said that we would get married without any gift, and that after the marriage my girlfriend would work with me to earn money to pay for her medical treatment."

"Of course my girlfriend didn't want to marry someone who would be a burden. In the end, under the persuasion of her parents, she broke up with me!"

"Not long after we broke up, she found out she was pregnant with my child. The baby came at the wrong time, so she had an abortion..."

When the young man said this, his eyes turned red and tears were welling up in his eyes.

"If my biological mother hadn't shown up, if I hadn't acknowledged my biological parents, I would have married my girlfriend, started a happy family, and soon we would have children."

"But now, everything is ruined—"

After hearing what the young man had experienced, netizens finally understood why he was so depressed.

It’s really hard to deal with something like this.

[A mother who betrays her own son like this shouldn't have acknowledged him in the first place! ]

If some abducted children grow up to be well, it is not recommended to find their biological parents, as they might end up being a burden.

Compared to the billionaire who found his son and gave him a car and a house, this guy is really miserable... (End of this chapter)