“Besides, hard work and perseverance is a spirit, it doesn’t mean that you can’t live a good life.

People are suffering now because they don't have the necessary conditions. What we need to do is to create those conditions so that people in the future won't have to suffer.

I once chased a big bandit for three days and three nights during a bandit suppression campaign. When I was hungry and thirsty, I ate tree roots, leaves, and wild fruits.

When in hiding, it is possible to stay in one place motionless for ten to twenty hours, during which time you cannot even eat or go to the toilet.

But after leaving the battlefield, we still have to eat meat and eat rice in big bowls! So hard work and perseverance also depend on the place. "Zhao Li said to Song Jinxiu.

After hearing this, Song Jinxiu was extremely impressed. If she were in his place, she would definitely not be able to endure such hardship.

No, the topic has gone too far.

Am I being a little too sentimental? The other person's conditions are already too high for me to reach, and I'm being so ungrateful and complaining about them.

Yes, it’s an identity issue. Although he said he doesn’t mind and doesn’t think there is anything wrong with it, others may not think so.

In the future, whenever something happens, people will start to talk about your conditions and the other person's conditions. Why are you still being so pretentious?

It feels like you are clinging to the other person, and others may even think about how much effort you put into marrying into a wealthy family.

Just live your own life and don't worry about what others think. But doesn't this mean that the relationship hasn't reached that stage?

The truth is to cut losses in time before you get emotionally involved.

If I really fell into it, could I still be so rational? Could I still be so calm?

"Don't think too much. What you are thinking now is inappropriate. It's all just your fantasy. Nothing is certain to happen.

"Would you please tell me if there are any drawbacks when we get along? Give us more time to get to know each other." Zhao Li said gently.

"When two people are together, conflicts are bound to occur. We should think about how to resolve them and understand each other, rather than retreating when faced with a small problem.

From now on, you just need to stay at home and look beautiful, and I will be responsible for earning money to support the family."

Song Jinxiu poked the rice and thought, "What are you still hesitating about? Look at him, he's so handsome, so rich, and so considerate. Where else can you find someone like him? Why are you still being so pretentious?"

Song Jinxiu didn't know what she was thinking. Maybe she just had no feelings.

But is this their problem or my own? If I don't find someone I feel passionate about, should I really not get married?

It's okay now, I have Liu Ankang at home, but what if Liu Ankang has his own family in the future? I will be the only single woman left.

There are still many people at the door of a widow, not to mention a single, beautiful and wealthy woman like me.

A three-meter wall wouldn't even be enough for someone to climb, right? It's a bit scary to think about it. Alas, being too charming can also be a problem.

"Okay, let's continue to get to know each other. If you are dissatisfied with me in any way, please speak up.

Whether I change or not is one thing, but I won't let you get frustrated. Now is the time for us to assess each other, so there's no need to put ourselves in a difficult position," Song Jinxiu said.

"For now, I am still very satisfied with you." Zhao Li said.

"There's nothing I can do. My only shortcoming is that I'm too outstanding." Song Jinxiu shook her head helplessly.

"Hahaha! I feel very happy to be with you." Zhao Li said.

"You're not the first one, everyone says so!" Song Jinxiu said bluntly.

"By the way, I have something to tell you when I invite you to dinner this time. I have to go back to the army. I have received an urgent mission and I will write to you after I return." Zhao Li said.

He was a little panicked, as the other party had just mentioned whether he was around or not. He was about to return to the army.

"Yeah. I understand." Song Jinxiu nodded.

"I now have a shadow on the word 'understanding'." Zhao Li said with a smile.

"Don't worry, our relationship isn't at the point where I'd blame you!" Song Jinxiu said.

"Uh, I don't know whether to be happy or sad about your comfort." Zhao Li looked at the other person helplessly.

"I should be happy, after all, this proves that I'm not after your money! Think about it, we've only known each other for a few days?

If I act like I'm in deep pain right now, it'd be so fake, I'd be acting, I'm definitely after your money! Isn't that right?" Song Jinxiu analyzed.

"You are very different." Zhao Li said.

"Because I'm a stubborn person! I'm too direct with my words, right? It's so tiring to beat around the bush!

"Don't try to compliment me in a roundabout way. Just be direct if you want to compliment me. I won't understand anything too complicated," Song Jinxiu said.

"Well, you are good-looking, straightforward, lively and cheerful, and love to laugh. You are perfect." Zhao Li praised.

"Hahaha, I feel embarrassed by your praise! Let's eat. When are you leaving? Otherwise, I'll go and see you off." Song Jinxiu greeted.

"Will you come early tomorrow morning? My family may be there then!" Zhao Li's eyes lit up.

"Ah, it's so early in the morning. I may not be able to get up. I won't see you off. Let this meal be your farewell." Song Jinxiu said quickly.

“Actually, after we get married and both of us live in the capital, it won’t be that difficult to see each other.

When the time comes, buy a house in a town near my unit so I can come visit you whenever I have time." Zhao Li said, and then continued.

"And the towns near the military base are pretty safe. You can come and check on them anytime you want.

Of course, if you want to live in the capital, that's fine too. I have a house there, and it's not that troublesome to drive back from the army."

"At this time, you should say in a domineering manner that after marriage, you will follow the army and the family should live together. It doesn't matter if it's hard or tiring." Song Jinxiu instructed him.

"Do you like this?" Zhao Li pondered the possibility of this matter.

"How is that possible? I'm not a masochist. If you dare to do this, I will just slam the table and leave. There's no need to worry about whether we are suitable for each other!" Song Jinxiu said.

Why do adults have to make choices? Don't you know I have difficulty making choices? Oh, it's too difficult.

Zhao Li's face was filled with black lines, he was almost led astray, he thought she liked that.

"Don't worry, our family tradition is to discuss things together, so this kind of one-man show won't happen.

When we get married, you will be the one who makes the decisions about everything at home, big or small, and my mom will be the one who makes the decisions about my dad." Zhao Li quickly expressed his opinion.

"That's so tiring, let's just discuss it!" Song Jinxiu said. "Well, I might be a little lacking in social skills, so if that day ever comes, you might want to be mentally prepared."

Song Jinxiu spread her hands and drew a circle for him, indicating that there was a little bit of a shortcoming.

"It's okay. Our family relationship is simple. As for comrades-in-arms, you will become familiar with each other after getting along for a long time. I can also take you to meet them at the beginning." Zhao Li said indifferently.