Turning thirty is an awkward age. Some people shine brightly and achieve glory at this age, while others find their lives a messy struggle.
Undoubtedly, Chen Pingsheng belonged to the latter....
Chapter 57 Chen Anan’s Study Problems
Chen Anan can no longer play around casually.
She obediently followed Bai Xin into her own children's room on the second floor.
The interior is beautifully decorated and the space is very spacious.
Bai Xin felt that there was always a reason why children didn't like studying. For example, she used to often get first place, which was because she really wanted to get first place.
The uncle's daughter is different. She seems to be completely unaware of the importance of studying, and she doesn't even have the idea of wanting to study at all.
If her mentality is not fundamentally changed, no matter how good the teacher is, it will be useless.
In fact, a good teacher is mainly able to stimulate students' desire to learn.
Only in this way can they make progress spontaneously.
If you can't even do this, then the good things will always be good, and the bad things will always be bad.
This is exactly the current situation of education in China.
She decided to start with psychological warfare.
"An An, can you tell me what your ideal is when you grow up?"
Chen Anan was confused. Shouldn’t the teacher teach her how to do her homework?
Why are you still asking these questions?
She answered honestly: "I want to be a scientist when I grow up."
"Then why do you want to be a scientist?"
"The teacher said scientists are amazing."
It turned out that what the teacher said was not her real ideal.
When children are six years old, their ideas actually change a lot. If they can remain firm, they will definitely be very successful when they grow up.
Just like her, the college bully.
"An An, to be a scientist you need to have very good grades."
Bai Xin patiently coaxed Chen Anan, but she sighed softly, looking dejected.
Although she can no longer be a scientist, she can still be a foodie.
"Teacher Bai, my dad often tells me that if I don't work hard when I grow up, I'll end up being a landlady. Isn't being a landlady a scary job?"
It's really scary. Give it to me and let's exchange it.
Bai Xin's breathing stagnated. It turned out that the uncle's daughter could not be dealt with through simple psychological warfare.
No matter how poor a person is, he will grow up in Rome.
The landlady, doesn't she just do nothing every day and send messages in the group all day long?
Um, so-and-so paid the rent today.
Hey, if you don’t pay the rent, I’ll kick you out.
This kind of day is really boring.
She is willing to do it even if she is bored.
Bai Xin coughed twice and thought hard, explaining, "Being a landlady is indeed very tiring. It's much harder than being a scientist."
Chen Anan asked: "Doesn't that mean better grades?"
"No, just having hands will do."
I'd better teach you how to do your homework. If we continue talking, I'm afraid my faith will collapse.
Bai Xin is very optimistic and has a sense of humor when teaching others.
Chen Anan prefers her class and can't stand talking about anything else.
The biggest problem facing the uncle’s daughter right now is that she doesn’t know the meaning of studying.
It was difficult to explain to her. I couldn't tell her that if I became a top student in college like me, I would earn a million dollars a year when I grew up.
If you say this, they will definitely be confused.
Is a million-dollar annual salary a lot?
Any small house in my family costs tens of millions.
It's very embarrassing.
Most people are taught that they should study hard so that they can have a successful future when they grow up.
Bai Xin was already a little confused. Born in a family like that of the uncle, what was the so-called future?
No matter how poor a person is when he grows up, he will have a house given by his family.
In this life, I just want to not start a business, gamble, or take drugs.
Money is destined to never be spent.
So for them, what else do they need to achieve?
If you are too promising, you will want to start a business. Once the rich second generation starts a business, it is likely to backfire.
No matter how big the family business is, when it is handed over to people like them who have never lived at the bottom, everything they learn is destined to be castles in the air and flowers in the fog.
Less than one in a hundred can succeed.
Instead of this, it is better to live a down-to-earth and carefree life.
Bai Xin decided to have a good talk with the uncle about this issue and resolve the confusion in her heart.
After all, she is an actor. What is the most important thing for an actor?
That's acting.
The so-called acting skills are definitely not just a few external expressions.
Instead, it is necessary to be able to accurately grasp the character's inner thoughts, that is, the character's psychological logic.
Only in this way, with a random eyelid twitch and a simple gesture of raising your hand to smoke.
It will all be superb acting.
Otherwise, it would be superfluous.
For example, Chen Anan, when playing a rich second-generation like her, suddenly makes some inspirational expressions such as "I want to struggle, I want to work hard".
That's quite dramatic.
Absolutely.
Because there is no point in trying at all.
Not even an idea.
She began to understand why Zhao Liying was chosen as the leading role by the uncle, and why he even spared no expense to support her.
The reason may be very simple. She came from a rural background and had been a supporting actress in the crew for six years.
As you come into contact with various characters more often, you will naturally be able to understand their psychological activities.
On the contrary, if there is a lack of social experience and traces of life, the characters portrayed will only be false and empty.
This is a common problem faced by current traffic stars.
After teaching a class, Song Yanxi had already prepared dinner.
Her family has the means to hire a nanny, so there is no need.
Three meals a day are the wife's responsibility.
If a woman doesn’t even cook at home, how can a man feel at home?
That place would become a hotel.
Bai Xin observed carefully and kept trying to figure it out.
Life is really full of knowledge.
Chen Anan is, and Song Yanxi is even more so.
Chen Pingsheng handed her chopsticks and said, "Try my wife's cooking. She used to be the best cook in our village."
With three dishes and one soup, life is still relatively simple.
It’s a pity that Song Yanxi is not a star. Bai Xin thinks she is too beautiful.
That temperament is exactly the most beautiful white moonlight.
The same is true after having a child.
"Uncle, I found An An to be very smart, but she just doesn't know the purpose of studying?"
"You discovered it too."
Chen Pingsheng said, "When she was little, her grandparents would often tell her that she had to study hard when she grew up so that she could have a bright future. Later, my family gradually became prosperous, and this little girl, after realizing that our family had everything, suddenly became arrogant beyond her control."
"It's like she doesn't need to work hard anymore. Her grades, which were OK, plummeted after she entered first grade."
This is just like it takes a long time to learn good things, but only one reason to learn bad things.
It is now obvious that Chen Anan has found a reason to make his grades worse.
"So what should she do?"
"What can I do?"
Chen Pingsheng said, "Actually, her mother and I have discussed this issue before. Currently, Chen Anan's most critical problem is that she hasn't found her true interests and hobbies. Learning requires motivation, and interests and hobbies are that driving force."
“Only when she finds something she really likes will she dive into it.”
That seems to be the case.
Bai Xin nodded. The uncle's family's education method was quite unique.
The main focus is to cultivate interests and hobbies.
She likes flowers and plants, so let her plant them as she pleases.
If you still like it after farming for a few years, you can develop agricultural projects when you grow up.
If she likes dancing.
This will definitely not happen. Her size will keep her out.
Playing the piano, painting?
It's also obvious that there's no one she loves.
When you grow up, do whatever you like to do, just don't go astray.
This is the love of parents.
Eventually, when I am able to, I will give her what she wants most.
(End of this chapter)