The Great Fujin's Child-Rearing Diary of Qing Dynasty Transmigration

He Zhuo, the youngest daughter of the Irgen Gioro family, was bestowed a marriage to the 'Eldest Prince' of Emperor Kangxi's lineage.

Her story is about diligently raising childre...

He Zhuo's Child Rearing 2

"That's different!!!" Little Treasure retorted loudly, the tiny child even putting his hands on his hips.

He Zhuo looked at her: "How is it different?"

“Fangwan, Fangning, and Fangyun are all girls, and Father doesn’t really like them, so they don’t affect us much. Guan Gege is different. She’s pregnant, and we don’t know if she’ll have a brother or a sister. If it’s a brother, he’ll take Hongyu’s things, as well as the things of her second and third brothers. Father will visit her every day, so what will happen then…” Little Treasure’s mood became a little downcast at the end.

Because Little Treasure sometimes plays with the princesses in the palace, she has vaguely realized that princesses are not valued in the palace.

Even though He Zhuo had three sons, Yin Zhi still loved his eldest daughter the most. Therefore, Xiao Zhenbao was always the most pampered in the princes' quarters and never felt any difference from her younger brothers.

Because of the princess, Little Treasure has already vaguely realized the difference between the imperial princes and imperial princesses in the palace.

He Zhuo's eyes lit up. Unbeknownst to her, her daughter had grown up and was now able to think independently.

He Zhuo didn't answer him immediately, but turned to Hong Yu and asked, "What do you think of what your sister just said?"

Hongyu tilted his head and thought for a moment: "My son thinks that what my sister said is partly right and partly wrong."

He Zhuo: "How so? Tell me more."

“My sister said she doesn’t know if she’ll have a younger brother or sister, which is true. But she said she’ll take things from Hongyu, as well as things from her second and third younger brothers. This son thinks that’s wrong. Our things, our own things, are not something that others can just take away. We will protect our own things.”

He Zhuo patted Hongyu's little head and kissed his crescent-shaped head.

“Hongyu is right. Our things are not something that anyone can just take away. Besides, we must protect our own things.”

Have either of you thought about how to protect your belongings?

"Me, me," Little Treasure raised her little hand, wanting to answer first since she hadn't received praise from her mother earlier.

He Zhuo: "Okay, Little Treasure, you go first."

“I will go to pay my respects to my grandmother every day. She likes me and will help my mother and younger brother. In addition, I will learn to ride horses and shoot arrows so that I can support my mother after I get married.”

He Zhuo patted Xiao Zhenbao's head, kissed her little face, and praised her until her face turned red: "Xiao Zhenbao is so capable. Even your mother didn't think of this, but Xiao Zhenbao did."

For children, their parents are all very, very capable. Wouldn't it be amazing to be even more capable than one's parents?

"Grandma likes you, and Little Treasure likes Grandma too, right? We must be truly filial to our elders, you know? Sincerity begets sincerity."

“Hongyu, listen carefully too. This isn’t just for your sister.”

The two little heads nodded together, which was very cute.

"Also, Little Treasure said that she wants to learn to ride horses and shoot arrows, and Mother agrees with that. However, you are still young and your bodies are not fully developed yet. Everything should be done in moderation. If you practice all day long, it will not be good for your health, you know? Health is the most important thing."

"Also, just now Little Treasure said that she would support her mother after she gets married. Well, I really look forward to that day. But these are all minor things. Getting married and having a wedding is the most important thing. I hope you can live a good life and be safe and sound. I already thought of Little Treasure's name when she was still in my belly."

"At that time, your mother thought, my daughter is a precious treasure, so I named her Zhenbao (Precious Treasure). Your mother and father treat you like a precious treasure, and your mother hopes even more that you will treat yourself like a precious treasure. As long as a woman treats herself like a precious treasure, she can live well anywhere."

Little Treasure was very happy to hear that he was being treated as a treasure, but he didn't quite understand what came next.