Chapter 110 Another Question Come on

"Oh? Are you so confident? I remember that you and Wen Yan didn't have much communication outside of work, right?"

Xu Yonghe knew exactly what his grandson was thinking.

It was as if she had hinted to him before.

She didn't believe that Zhen Shuwang couldn't see what she was thinking.

Although he did not express his opinion or make any "pursuit" moves, the fact that he did not refute himself is very telling.

Therefore, when Zhen Shuwang chose to copy himself, Xu Yonghe's first reaction was to doubt whether his grandson understood the psychology of girls.

Of course she pushed for Jia Wenyan to be her granddaughter-in-law, but she would not force it.

As an elder, there is nothing wrong with her saying things like smashing cultural relics and shareholders as betrothal gifts, but it would definitely not be appropriate if it were Zhen Shuwang.

Although the straight male boss-like spending of money is effective, it can also easily lower a person's image in front of his partner.

How to bring two people together and how to make two people live a good life are two completely different concepts.

The reason she did that back then was purely because she was in no position to prepare for any "long-term battle".

However, Zhen Shuwang disagreed:

"Grandma, I know what you are worried about. Don't worry, my confidence does not come from my judgment of her emotional attitude. It is because I have a deep understanding of her attitude towards work."

Zhen Shuwang: "Just as you and Grandpa reminded me before, Wen Yan's personality will never be the type that will let her love life affect her work."

"This type of person has a very notable characteristic, which is her judgment of work efficiency and time cost."

"She may not reject love, but she is extremely sensitive about the cost of her time."

"Like why should I spend this time on a relationship?"

"It may be nice to be in love, but is it worth my time?"

"Isn't it better for me to go shopping, watch a movie, or just have a good sleep at home?"

She will have an extremely clear and "high-price" understanding of her time.

She would not allow herself to waste her time on meaningless trifles.

"She has a very clear plan for her life, such as how much time to work and how much time to live."

"With so many modern entertainment options, she won't feel empty without a significant other."

"So the other half she fantasizes about must be someone who meets the basic requirements in terms of objective conditions and can maintain a stable "private space" between the two of them."

"I think that's the key to whether I can win."

"You and Grandpa got together because you had feelings for each other, but the way you broke that window paper was a bit radical. But my situation is different."

"Whether it's me or her, the proportion of our emotional life is only a very small part. So we choose to use various additional conditions to convince ourselves in this mentality of whether or not it's okay."

Everyone says that work is work and life is life, but I think we both prefer to regard work as a small part of life. Why people in the past were so obsessed with love was largely because of the lack of entertainment at that time, so people had to have a longer "entertainment conversation" with their significant other.

People in the past were able to distinguish between work and life because there were very clear working and going-to-get off work hours in your era.

But who can do it in this generation? Maybe the law stipulates an eight-hour work system, but if people are ambitious and want to go further, it is impossible to plan themselves accurately.

What's more, nowadays with the continuous development of online media, people already have sufficient entertainment life to fill their time.

In this way, there will be a more stable way to relax and entertain, and who would care about the completely uncontrollable "love life".

Is it that watching dramas and playing games are not interesting anymore, or is it that there is not enough fun on Weibo?

Zhen Shuwang understood this idea very well because he felt the same way.

As a rich second-generation with superior looks, he has been confessed to by beautiful women since he was a child. However, every time he thinks about whether he should start a relationship, he always gives himself a "relatively negative" answer.

It’s not because of the other person, but because he feels that there is no need to waste time on love.

When I was in school, I felt it affected my studies; when I was working, I felt it affected my work.

He did not deny that love might bring happiness, but its instability was not enough for him to accept it completely.

He didn't reject it, but he felt it wasn't worth it. He had seen a lot of beautiful love, but the problem was that from what he knew, those so-called successful relationships seemed to have to satisfy something.

For example, boys need to understand girls’ thoughts and the various hints in their words.

You have to work hard and also be able to give your partner full emotional value outside of work.

Zhen Shuwang certainly knew that this was right, but the problem was that for him, after working hard and overtime every day, and being exhausted physically and mentally, he had to think and give emotional value to another person.

This was truly a terrifying thing for him, even if it was as it should be.

He felt that love was a business that was destined to lose money.

He knew he should do that in order to be a qualified boyfriend, husband and even father.

But he couldn't do it, so even if he had expectations for that identity, he didn't want to try it easily. He couldn't do it, so he chose to be alone.

Because in his eyes, if he chooses to give, then the other party may also be able to give him the same feedback.

It is said that a good model boyfriend should know how to take care of his girlfriend, but the problem is that the standards of many model boyfriends nowadays have exceeded the scope of what normal boys can understand.

He doesn't need the other person to take care of him because he really has no way to maintain such a perfect image without any emotional fluctuations after a busy day at work.

The kind of love he longs for is the type where both parties give each other enough space and try not to bother each other as much as possible.

He doesn't want a long-distance relationship, nor does he want the girl to be a housewife, because he doesn't want to hear her say one day that she gave up something for him.

Of course, if it comes to issues like fertility, where Libra clearly leans towards the other party, that is a different matter, but he really hopes that both parties can be as independent as possible in the relationship.

This is also the reason why many people don’t want to fall in love. It’s not that they don’t want to, but they don’t want to become the negative example that is criticized by everyone.

What's more, for those who are really working hard for their careers, they don't have the time to fall in love.

Is their life an idol drama?

People who are really working hard for their careers don’t have the time to fall in love.

Which serious worker can really have a stable rest time on weekends. Not to mention the issue of weekend dating.

The dates in idol dramas where doctors and CEOs are always available are pure bullshit.

At least he couldn't put down his work just because of a love relationship.

Imagine if you were a worker who worked hard for five days and finally got home on the weekend.

Would you still plan a date when you are exhausted both physically and mentally?

Zhen Shuwang felt that most people would choose to have a good sleep at home to recover from the hard work of the week.

For this generation, love is really just a burden.

Besides, they can have more vacations and more money.

But the problem is that such a situation is completely contrary to what people call career ambition.

As long as a person has aspirations and dreams for his work, there is no way he can allow himself to have so much rest time.

Zhen Shuwang concluded that Jia Wenyan was the same type of person as himself.

What they need is never the kind of "touch-and-turn-earth bond", but the comfort of being together and giving each other a blanket when the other person really collapses due to pressure. That's enough.

Modern people should have modern ways of love, because young people today no longer have the qualifications to achieve that kind of perfect love.

Their love must have more details.

For this reason, Zhen Shuwang, who had just realized that he had such an idea, also tried to consult some questions.

Why does she think Jia Wenyan is suitable?

Is she beautiful? Indeed, as a craftsman, even without any makeup on, she can still attract many fans. Jia Wenyan's popularity and appearance are undoubtedly superior.

His ability as the owner of the Yong'an Museum and the master of various traditional handicraft techniques has long been beyond doubt.

In addition to the relationship between Jia Wenyan and the Zhen family, and the fact that Jia Wenyan is usually busy with work and does not need or even want a partner to accompany her at all times.

Zhen Shuwang felt that this should be the most suitable way of relationship for people like them.

They need a partner who can give them enough space.

Zhen Shuwang’s output made Xu Yonghe slightly stunned.

She didn't expect that her grandson's view on marriage and love would be like this.

He does not deny the possibility of a beautiful marriage, but that does not affect his feeling that love and marriage are a burden.

And Jia Wenyan really fully satisfied his needs for a significant other.

Let’s not talk about appearance and personality for now, just the income that Jia Wenyan can bring to their family is an issue that cannot be ignored.

In their eyes, Zhen Shuwang’s success is largely because he has truly become a winner in this wave of traffic.

Being with Jia Wenyan would create a huge internal circulation of resources for him, his grandmother, or even the entire Yongan Group.

If the two of them have a good relationship, there are so many benefits that can be brought about, but if they are family members falling out, it will be a completely different issue.