Immediately afterwards, a message from Chen Chuntao came.
[You know I prefer gentle men, and he fits my aesthetic.]
Ever since she saw the man's video, Chen Chuntao was quite satisfied.
This wasn't the only blind date she had. In all those cases, the man only sent her a photo, and the rest was up to the matchmaker.
She would have to meet him in person to know whether he was good or not, or what his conversation style was like.
This made Chen Chuntao, who was not very willing to go out and see people, feel very distressed.
If you don't like the guy, you have to tell the matchmaker when you get back, and then talk to the guy through the matchmaker.
As time went by, more and more people knew about it.
Shitou Town is a small town with not many people. Many people know each other.
This also means that anything that happens in someone's family will become known to everyone.
If a girl goes on three or four blind dates, she will have a bad reputation in the town.
You will be accused of being picky, having high standards, etc.
Chen Chuntao still cherishes her reputation very much, so when she saw the video sent by this person, she felt that the other person was particularly sincere.
Different from those other "vulgar women".
Even Chen Chuntao's mother, Cao Xiaohong, was very satisfied with this. First of all, working in a pharmaceutical factory sounds good, and it also provides three insurances and one fund, which provides security for old age.
But she still wanted Wei Mian to take a look, otherwise she would always feel uneasy.
She couldn't explain why, but she intuitively felt that Wei Mian could see things that they couldn't.
Wei Mian did notice something different through the video.
The man spoke without showing his upper teeth, and his facial features showed a clear cross pattern.
When speaking, his eyes kept moving and looking left and right.
All these mean that he has lost money and credibility and has no credibility at all.
And his eyebrows grew in reverse.
Reverse growth means that one of the eyebrows does not follow the direction of the eyebrows, but grows towards the other side.
This man's eyebrows didn't just grow in the opposite direction, but most of them grew in the opposite direction.
The more reverse-growing eyebrows there are, the more likely it is that there will be discord between siblings.
Or your brothers and sisters may have moved across the ocean and are no longer with you, so you rarely have any contact with each other.
But based on what the man just said, about which unit they worked in the city, the second possibility was ruled out.
It can only be the first one, the brothers and sisters are not getting along.
If eyebrows grow in the wrong direction in childhood, parents can manually straighten them, but when people are in their twenties, their personality has already been formed.
It is obvious that the brothers are not on good terms, but the man says that they help each other and have a close relationship. It is obvious that this person is not telling the truth at all.
The most crucial thing is more than that.
Judging from the man's face, he is divorced and has a son.
However, she didn't mention it at all in her self-introduction just now, which shows that she is suspected of marriage fraud.
But Wei Mian didn’t know how to tell Chen Chuntao this.
On the other side is Chen Laoer’s house in Shitou Town.
Cao Xiaohong clicked on the video on her phone and watched it again, with a smile on her face.
Or people say that the more a mother-in-law looks at her son-in-law, the more satisfied she becomes.
Even though this guy is not her son-in-law yet, Cao Xiaohong still finds him particularly pleasing to the eye.
Seeing Chuntao's blushing cheeks, Cao Xiaohong knew that her daughter was also very satisfied with this man.
"Having many brothers and sisters also has many advantages!"
Cao Xiaohong held her daughter's hand and spoke earnestly.
"With so many brothers and sisters, you'll have someone to help with household chores in the future. Unlike our family, if your father and I have any problems, we'll rely on you alone. You'd be so exhausted!"
Chuntao nodded. Although she had not experienced it yet, her mother would never harm her.
"Besides, he has a stable job and insurance. If he gets sick, his employer will take care of him. And when he gets old, he'll have a pension!"
Although Chuntao is only twenty years old, this boy is six years older than her, which is actually not that old.
Men learn to care for others only when they get older.
Moreover, young men in their early twenties are always unstable in temperament.
The more Cao Xiaohong spoke, the more satisfied she felt.
Chuntao has always listened to her mother, so she immediately agreed to meet the man.
Meeting means agreeing.
As long as nothing major goes wrong during the meeting, the two will almost confirm their relationship as soon as the meeting.
Cao Xiaohong was not in a hurry to tell the matchmaker the news. She was still waiting for Wei Mian's message.
Wei Mian lived up to everyone's expectations and sent a voice message within a few minutes.
[I also think this man is quite good. Cao Xiaohong personally checked him out for you, so he must be right.]
Wei Mian first agreed with his second aunt's opinion, followed her words to praise the person, and then continued.
[You should definitely ask around before dating. There's a girl in my dorm whose cousin, a relative of hers, introduced her to a very good guy.]
The man was five years older than my classmate. He said he had a formal job within the government, his parents were civil servants and hadn't retired yet, and his family owned two houses in some upscale neighborhood. In short, he was in very good shape.
Chuntao opened the voice messages sent by Wei Mian one by one and sat with her mother to listen.
The two couldn't help but think along the lines of what Wei Mian said.
A man with such conditions is really good. Being a civil servant, having a stable job within the system is so great!
When my parents-in-law retire, their pension alone will be quite sufficient. If they can subsidize the young couple a little, their quality of life will be...
Wei Mian continued to post.
[My classmate's cousin went to see him, they were attracted to each other, and got married soon after.]
[Half a month after the marriage, my classmate's cousin found out that the man had been divorced and had two children!]
[It's just that the two children are hidden at a relative's house in the countryside, waiting to be sent back after they get married! All of the man's relatives and friends know about it, except for my classmate and cousin.]
[It's pitiful that she got married at such a young age and ended up being a stepmother. There were so many good guys she could have chosen from. I don't know how many tears she shed.]
Finally, Wei Mian said another sentence.
So, when it comes to face-to-face relationships, you can't just take what someone says for granted! With all the advanced communications these days, it's still more accurate to find out what you know yourself.
Cao Xiaohong was thoughtful after hearing this.
Yes, she is a girl named Chuntao.
If Chuntao met such a black-hearted family, she would probably want to go to their house with a kitchen knife and chop up their entire family!
It seems that I still need to ask around carefully, and I can't just believe everything others say.
At that moment, Cao Xiaohong stood up hurriedly and walked into the house, talking as she walked.
"I'm going to the city right now. Your second uncle's brother-in-law has a relative who also works at that pharmaceutical factory. I'll ask her to help inquire about it."
It was a long time after Wei Mian's voice message that Chen Chuntao replied to her.
[Let's not meet for now. My mom will ask someone to find out.]
Wei Mian nodded with satisfaction. He listened to the advice and ate his fill. This child is teachable.