She goes around smearing her son, describing him as difficult to teach, lazy, and stupid, as if he were an enemy, hoping her neighbors will sympathize with her and agree with her.

Of course, most neighbors would do that.

Parents tend to side with the woman, criticizing the boy and looking at him strangely the next time he goes out.

Or they might jokingly say, "You've grown so big! You're all grown up now. Don't argue with your mom. It wasn't easy raising you."

This series of actions completely exposed the boy's privacy, making the man feel good but leaving his son to be "judged" in public.

Sun Lifang had also encountered this situation; a neighbor asked her what she thought.

At that moment, Sun Lifang didn't know what to say, so she chose to keep quiet, shook her head, smiled, and walked away.

However, now that she has compared the case of Aunt Pang, she realizes where her former neighbor went wrong.

Unfortunately, they've already moved.

I wonder how that boy, who was subjected to "judgment by the masses," is doing now?

Whether he will stay close to or distance himself from his mother, remain in that stifling and despicable home, or fly far away, it seems the answer is already clear.

If a boy like this meets his "true love" again, the girl standing next to him—

If he encounters another family conflict, he will definitely stand unconditionally on his wife's side (to protect his past self).

When a woman grows old and laments that her son is unfilial, that she is henpecked, that she raised someone else's son, and complains about everything and everyone else, she may not even realize where she went wrong.

The hidden dangers of conflict have long been planted; it's just a matter of who will explode.

Compared to Aunt Pang's son, Sun Lifang became even more determined in her future parenting direction—

Material life is secondary; the main thing is to cultivate a sound personality and empathy, and to be a gentle and warm mother.