Sun Lifang, diagnosed with terminal cancer, reflected on her hard-fought life in the hospital. She had once enjoyed immense glory, riding on her husband's success, with a loving family and chil...
Why is there so much talk about love and hate? Sun Lifang was curious about how Zhao Chengguang convinced Liu Qing to "have a child."
“It’s something to look forward to.” Liu Qing sighed. “I’m too lonely on my own, and I don’t know how to take care of myself, so I still need to have a family.”
Humans are social animals and cannot avoid social relationships.
"The most direct one is the parent-child relationship."
Zhao Chengguang's original words were, "How long can our love last? Love will eventually turn into family affection. I want to experience what it's like to raise a child myself."
"My child is my motivation. To be honest, I'm a lazy person. My life only becomes normal after I have a child."
What's normal?
It sounded like fallacies, but Zhao Chengguang explained it in a very logical and reasonable way.
"We're two adults, we can eat whatever we want, we can usually just make do with whatever we can find."
But what if you have children?
“Having children changes things. We have to get up to prepare food for them, right? For the sake of our children, we can’t stay up late and we have to eat healthily.”
This forces me to live a healthy life.
Furthermore, "I don't want to be alone when I'm old. I also want my children to be by my side, a group of relatives. Just thinking about that scene is wonderful."
Zhao Chengguang was a clear-headed man. "I didn't say I wanted you to have several children. We'll just have one. Consider it as giving me something to do."
The man, desperate for a child, used a conversation that ranged from marital relationships to social relationships, successfully persuading Liu Qing to have the baby.
"Having something to strive for gives us something to look forward to in the future."
Add wood to the fireplace of your marriage, and then learn how to control the heat.
Liu Qing felt that she would be a happy person, like Sun Lifang, "someone asked me if my porridge was warm, and someone stood with me at dusk."