Through the Book to the 70s, the Spirited Intellectual Marries a Military Officer with a Space

(Period setting + Doting wife + Military marriage + Making a fortune + Space + Daily life + Transmigration)

When zombies besieged the city, Gu Anan died.

With a blink of her eyes, she a...

Chapter 463 Is the child conceived by the woman alone?

Gu An'an wondered if she had a matchmaker's face, since everyone wanted her to help introduce them to potential partners.

However, Old Chen spoke very politely, so Gu An'an naturally replied, "Okay, okay, I'll definitely introduce you when I have the chance."

Regardless of whether the introduction will actually work out, agreeing to it is definitely the right thing to do.

Sure enough, Old Chen was very happy to see her like this, and he pulled them to go eat.

After finishing my business in the morning, I rushed to school for class in the afternoon.

As soon as I entered the classroom, I saw Tang Yani with her eyes shining. Especially when I saw her, I felt an urge to confide in her.

Without even guessing, Gu An'an knew that the first day went well.

The more she acted this way, the less Gu An'an asked. She went to her seat, opened her book, and prepared to review.

Tang Yani held back for a long time, but seeing that Gu An'an really didn't intend to ask, she finally couldn't hold back any longer.

"An'an, aren't you going to ask me what happened between Wu Zhiyuan and me?"

Gu An'an slightly curled the corners of her lips, but still lowered her head and pretended to continue reading her book. "What's there to ask? You'll tell me if you want to, and it's no use asking if you don't want to."

That's what she said, but Tang Yani really wants someone to ask her questions right now.

Knowing that Gu An'an really didn't intend to satisfy her, Tang Yani could only start talking herself, "An'an, do you know? Wu Zhiyuan is exactly my type. Whether it's his height, looks, or temperament, he's my ideal type."

"Oh? You're so sure? Aren't you afraid you can't tell what's in someone's heart? Let me tell you, even though Wu Zhiyuan was introduced by Aheng, you'll have to see for yourself whether he's a good person to settle down with, understand?"

Gu An'an knew that Tang Yani was a simple person, but she didn't expect her to be so love-struck, so she couldn't help but worry.

To her surprise, Tang Yani laughed when she heard this. "I know, don't worry! No matter how much I like him, he has to treat me well for him to be worth my effort."

Gu An'an raised an eyebrow, "So ambitious?"

"Of course, my sister and I have the same temper. My sister used to date someone who wasn't my current brother-in-law. That man was very much to my sister's liking, but he was a bit lazy and wanted my sister to support him. My sister dumped him right then and there."

"I was only eleven years old at the time, and I couldn't understand why my sister liked him so much at first, but then broke up with him so easily. Do you know what my sister said?"

"What did they say?" Nan Xiaoxiao was starting to get curious.

"There are plenty of men who are to your liking. If you don't like one, just change to another. You can always find one who is both good-looking and has a suitable personality."

Nan Xiaoxiao didn't expect Tang Jiejie to be such a free-spirited girl. "Your sister is quite special."

It's really special. These days, how many guys dare to say something like that? Let alone breaking up, sometimes even if they haven't dated, they can be tied together by rumors and become a miserable couple for life.

“My sister is really special. My brother-in-law is great. He is not only good-looking, but also very good to my sister and my family.”

"I thought my sister would definitely stay with my brother-in-law for life, but do you know what my sister said?"

"Your sister wouldn't say it's uncertain, would she?"

Tang Yani nodded, "My sister said that her husband is doing very well now, so she will live a good life with him. But if he ever does something wrong and crosses her bottom line, she will immediately take the children and go back to her parents' home."

Nan Xiaoxiao's mouth dropped open in shock. She had never heard of such a thing before. Even when people around her encountered relationship problems, most would advise her to think things through carefully and consider the children and her parents.

They didn't even consider the girl's future happiness.

She felt something was wrong, but couldn't quite put her finger on it, since everyone around her was like that.

But what Tang's sister said gave her a new perspective, and she understood exactly what was wrong with what she had previously thought was amiss.

"You can do that?"

"Why not? We were not born to serve men. Those are outdated ideas. Leaders have said that women hold up half the sky. We can study, go to university, and work just like men. Why should we depend on men?"

Love is a matter of freedom, marriage is a matter of freedom. Being with someone should definitely be better than being single; otherwise, wouldn't that be holding us women back? That's absolutely unacceptable.

Seeing that Tang Yani was now fully conscious, Gu An'an felt somewhat relieved.

"An'an, you think so too?"

Nan Xiaoxiao's mind was a bit of a mess.

Both of their eyes were fixed on Gu An'an.

"Sister Tang's idea is right. We are all independent individuals and have the right to choose happiness. But this does not mean that we should be promiscuous or make friends indiscriminately. Rather, it means that we should discover what we really want in the process of getting along with others."

Moreover, we cannot completely depend on a man. We must always have the ability to earn money so that we have enough confidence to live the life we ​​want, no matter what.

Otherwise, even if we discover incompatibility, or a man's bad habits and infidelity, we might choose to compromise due to life's difficulties, and that kind of life is definitely not what we want.

Each sentence struck Nan Xiaoxiao's mind, suddenly clearing her previously confused thoughts.

"So that's how it is."

No wonder the woman she knew chose not to divorce her husband after he betrayed her; it's because she had been supported by him all these years and had no ability to support herself, or rather, she couldn't maintain her current life on her own after the divorce.

Is it a choice between material comforts and a happy marriage? She certainly doesn't want to live that kind of life.

"I see."

Nan Xiaoxiao's smile was cute and shy, yet also carried a hint of enlightenment.

She wasn't the only one shocked; all the girls who overheard their conversation felt as if they'd been struck on the head.

Some people may not be able to accept such a trendy idea at first, but they can't say anything wrong with it.

But some men think differently.

"Gu, what you're saying isn't quite right, is it? If everyone thought like you, wouldn't marriage be treated like a game? It might be easier for the mother to choose divorce, but have you thought about how painful it would be for the child? He would have to live in the shadow of not having a mother for the rest of his life, and he would be ridiculed by other children. This would be very detrimental to the child's development."

Moreover, men are the heads of the household and have to work to earn money; they face a lot of pressure. Why can't we be more understanding?

Gu An'an looked at the boy in front of her, whose face was red and neck thick. She remembered that he was usually quite quiet, but she didn't expect him to spout such patriarchal ideas.

"What? The child was conceived by the woman alone?"