Since the confinement period, Jianshu has had to start taking care of the baby by herself.

After a few days of adaptation, she was not in a hurry when Meng Ying and Zhao Yueling left and she adapted well.

When I was watching videos in my previous life, I often saw that children should not be held often, otherwise they would develop a habit and cry loudly when put down.

After the child was born, Jianshu asked her family not to hold the child unless absolutely necessary. Others were skeptical, but considering that Jianshu would be the one taking care of the child most of the time, they all followed her advice.

After more than a month, both parties have adapted well, and it is easier for Jianshu to take care of the children.

"Dad, are you sure you have the job? When are you leaving?" Jianshu covered the child with a quilt and looked back at her father.

It has been more than a month since her father came back, but except for the day he just came back, the two of them have not had a heart-to-heart talk together.

Now there are only two of them left at home, oh no, there is also a little kid.

But the little kid didn't understand, so the two of them spoke without any reservations.

Jian Yucheng sat over, patted her head, and comforted her, "Don't worry, Dad won't leave so soon. The leader has approved my leave, so I can stay with you for two or three months. As for work, I will definitely return to Beijing. There will definitely be changes in my position, but the details haven't been decided yet."

Jian Shu leaned on her father's shoulder like she did when she was little, "Two or three months? That's so short."

After eight years of separation between life and death, she didn't want to leave her father for even a single day. Only by looking at him could she feel at ease. Only then could she truly be sure that her father had returned and it wasn't just a dream.

"It's okay, Dad is back, and I'll be with you for the rest of my life. Once I'm settled in, I'll take you and Yiyi back to live with me for a while." Thinking of this, Jian Yucheng said seriously, "Shushu, have you and Mingjing ever thought about returning to Beijing?"

Jian Shu understood what her father meant. Although she was tempted, she shook her head and said, "No, Ming Jing has something else in mind. Since he hasn't spoken yet, it means it's not the right time yet."

There are advantages to being in Beijing, and there are advantages to being outside. She didn't want to interfere in Gu Mingjing's career. Even if they were husband and wife, there were some things that needed to be handled with care and they couldn't make decisions for others on their own.

Jian Yucheng felt a little regretful, but still nodded, "Ming Jing is still young, it's not a bad thing for him to gain experience outside for a few more years." Although Beijing is a good place, everyone is trying to get there, and there are many people above them, so it's not easy to make a name for yourself.

From this we can see that Gu Mingjing is also a man with his own ideas. He is not blinded by wealth and prosperity. It is not bad for Shushu to marry him.

"Dad, wait a few more years. If Mingjing still can't be transferred back to Beijing, I will take Yiyi back with you." Jianshu wanted to go back with her father this time, but it was impossible. The child had just been born and could not withstand the bumpy road.

Moreover, if you calculate the time, if Gu Mingjing does not return to Beijing, the three of them will only have two years to spend together. If they want to meet again, they can only wait for her winter or summer vacations or when Gu Mingjing is on vacation.

The child has just been born and cannot be separated from his father so early. It is not conducive to their emotional development.

"Okay, this is what you promised. If you don't come, I will send people to take you back." Jian Yucheng said seriously: "Your household registration is still in Beijing, and the child will definitely follow your household registration. Whether it is living environment or educational resources, Beijing is far superior to this place. Even for the sake of the child, you have to go back."

The living environment has a huge impact on children, not only in the obvious ways, but also in the subtle ways, such as the social circle, friends, and relatives they interact with...

Jian Shu, who grew up in a compound, has a deep understanding of this. Her parents gave her a good starting point, and she couldn't let her child lose at the starting line.

It's cruel, but that's the truth. Even if a child growing up in a compound doesn't achieve much in the future, he or she is still far superior to most hardworking children from ordinary families.

Their starting point is the end point for many people.

An ancient poem says: "There are great scholars among those who talk and laugh, and there are no unlearned people among those who come and go."

And they, the elders who greeted me on the street every day, the companions I played with, were not ordinary people. These were my connections.

Just like how Jian Shu was able to live a comfortable life even after Jian Yucheng's death? Wasn't it all because of those friendships?

Even if it weren't for Zhao Mingze, she wouldn't have fallen into such a state. If she really encountered problems that she couldn't solve, she would shamelessly come to their house to ask for help, and the grandparents, uncles and aunts who watched her grow up would at least lend a hand.

And how many people want to strive for these?

Jian Shu's heart trembled, and he said seriously, "Dad, I know. Don't worry, I will definitely not delay Yi Yi. She is still young now. When she is old enough to go to kindergarten, I will definitely take her back."

It's best to cultivate relationships from a young age. Most children play together from a young age. If you wait until a child is seven or eight years old and then want to intervene, it won't be so easy and they'll likely be excluded.

Moreover, the feelings cultivated in childhood are the most precious, purest and most unforgettable.

Jian Yucheng felt relieved after hearing this and patted her head. "Then you and the child should spend the next two years with Mingjing. Dad won't take you back for the time being. I just came back and I'm sure I'll be very busy with work. I may not be able to spare time to accompany you. It's better for you to stay here."

Since Jianshu will be able to go back in two years, it doesn't matter if he takes a little while longer. It's time for the three of them to spend more time together. It will be good for everyone.

"Then I will spend more time with you during this period. When you leave, I will definitely miss you very much." Jianshu hugged her father's arm and acted coquettishly, just like before.

Looking at his daughter who was acting coquettishly in front of him, Jian Yucheng seemed to have returned to many years ago. At that time, his daughter's eyes and eyebrows were still very childish, but now, she has become a mother.

Eight years is really a long time...

Jian Yucheng's eyes were a little moist. He turned his head slightly and said with a smile, "Dad will miss you very, very much too."

Jian Shu noticed something was wrong with her father's voice, but she still looked oblivious. "And Yiyi, Dad, you can't forget about your granddaughter. She's your only granddaughter."

"Yes, and Yi Yi." Jian Yucheng nodded with a smile, then asked, "Are you and Ming Jing sure you only want one child?"

"Well, it's decided. All ten fingers have different lengths. Dad, I'm not sure if I'll be partial if I have other children, and I don't want to verify this possibility. One child is great. She can have our complete love, just like when I was little." Jian Shu paused, covered her face with her hands and smiled, "To be honest, when I was pregnant, I was worried about what to do if it was twins. Fortunately, it wasn't. I only need one, one is enough."

Jian Yucheng shook his head in amusement, "How can having twins be that simple?"

"Hehe, that's just worrying. Fortunately, it didn't come true, otherwise I would be in a dilemma." If you really have two children, you have to be careful to treat them equally, but many times, it is impossible to treat them equally.

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