"Then why don't you urge them?"

"Do you think I didn't urge them? I practically wanted to see them sleep together, but they didn't, did they?"

"Me too. Looking back now, I shouldn't have agreed to their suggestion to have children a few years later."

“That’s right. Now, whenever we talk about that incident, my daughter-in-law either sheds tears or my son complains that I’m making trouble for no reason.”

"Let alone your family, our family is also here."

Listen to this! To have a grandson, he's even saying things like this. Luckily, the people sitting nearby aren't strangers. If outsiders heard this, they'd laugh their heads off.

But let them worry about it. Ruohua has just married into the Yan family, so there's no need to rush about having children.

Putting aside the fact that they were busy even when they weren't at work, their physical condition is definitely top-notch, given that they engage in high-intensity training every day.

Another point is that over the years, even though the well water in the space is said to be for the user only, it has been used by them all along, hasn't it?

As for whether it works or not, I really don't know. Anyway, neither the children nor I have ever been sick, which means we are healthier than other people.

As the eldest grandson of Yan Liang, he is already married, so having children is only a matter of time.

It seems that the other elders in the Yan family are more concerned about whether their daughter-in-law can give birth to the next generation as soon as possible. As for whether they will cause trouble for Ruohua, they need to have that opportunity to do so.

Don't assume that anyone can just walk into your child's workplace without permission; that's impossible.

Even if you go by yourself, you have to call the security guard and get his permission before you can go, even if it's just to find the children's father.

I used to live there, but it didn't work. They didn't care who you were; as long as you were an outsider, you had to follow the rules.

So it's not easy to cause trouble for Ruohua. Besides, not to mention Ruohua's temper, Yan Liang is not someone who is easy to bully.

Otherwise, how could he control his cousins? It can be said that if there are any important matters in the Yan family that need to be discussed, the patriarch, Yan Liang's father, Yan Liang's uncle, and him are all people who can make decisions. This is the demeanor of a family head.

In this respect, it is completely different from the Shen family. When something happens in the Shen family, everyone sits down and discusses it together.

If people are not in the same city, or if they are involved in a particular matter and some cannot participate, then they should be led by someone according to their age to discuss and come up with a solution that minimizes the harm to the Shen family's interests.

If anyone targets the Shen family, the Shen family will absolutely not stand idly by; whoever it is, they will deliver a devastating blow.

This is no joke. Don't underestimate these brothers; they're not even in the same city anymore, or they're in very far places.

Whenever someone in the family gets married, or when it's a birthday celebration for the elderly couple, I try my best to come back.

After the gathering, they would sit down for a meeting. This was in case of special circumstances or other issues requiring the participation of female colleagues.

It's not just about listening from the sidelines; you can also speak up.

From the beginning, it was just us sisters-in-law, but now even my daughters-in-law can get involved.

Don't be fooled by the fact that this might seem like an easy way to leak things out; it actually helps them integrate into this big family more quickly.

This way, they will see themselves as part of the Shen family more and be more willing to do what's best for their own children.

When problems arise, they will prioritize the Shen family's interests because they believe that only when the Shen family prospers will they prosper. They will also consider their maternal family's interests in other ways.

This is why, despite being from military families, they are more united than other families.

As for Xiao Xuan and his friends, it may not be apparent now, but they may not be as united as their father's generation in the future.

But as long as their father is around, it won't be easy to bring down the Shen family.

After Ruohua returned to her parents' home, her eldest brother raised a suggestion to the old man.

"Just say what's on your mind. Everyone's had a long day. Don't beat around the bush."

Tell me, you've only been out of office for a short time, so why are you becoming increasingly reluctant to do things?

"Dad, this is just a sudden idea of ​​mine. We need to sit down and discuss the specific arrangements together."

"Brother, whatever it is, you have to tell us first, otherwise how will we know what you're talking about?"

"That's right, eldest brother. Fourth brother is right. Just say what you have to say."

"Alright then! I only remembered this when I saw those kids sitting there playing together today."

Actually, I just wanted to talk about it and see if we could set aside some time each year so that the younger children could live together.

Develop some rapport. Although they are indeed brothers, their parents do not live together, so it's hard to tell much from this short period of time.

However, over time, it actually affected the relationship between the brothers.

Another concern is that when they grow up, if something happens to them, they won't even have a brother they can talk to.

They're all children of the Shen family; there's no need to immediately seek help from outsiders when problems arise.

"Yes, that's possible, but how do we set the time? The children are about to start kindergarten."

This isn't like when they were in the countryside, spending every day together no matter what they were doing.

Furthermore, most families only have one child. Are these young people willing to let their child leave them?

"Fourth Uncle, please don't think like that. Our boy can go wherever he wants. We don't plan to stay by his side for long."

"Why?"

"Why? Don't underestimate him just because he's young. When he's at home, he practically wants to tear the house apart."

"If you ask me, we should just send them all here. That would save us the trouble of finding time each year to let them spend some time together."

"Well, what do you say, Vizhe's wife?"

"Third Aunt, I have no objection. I'm already quite busy with work, and my parents help take care of the children. I can arrange it however I want."

"Third Aunt, I have no objection. Our son is a little better when Xiuyuan is at home, but when I'm in front of him, he's completely uncontrollable. Let's send him here!"

“I have no objection to sending them over, but aren’t you afraid that their relationship with you as their parents will fade over time?”

"This can't be! I haven't seen any problems between Xiuyuan and his parents."

"That's because of my third aunt's good education. When we were young, we would write this letter to our parents every now and then, and we never stopped, even when we returned to Beijing."