We all have girlfriends, so we need to be more discerning in the future. Looks are secondary; character is paramount.
Bonnie thought that it was better to stay single than to meet bad people.
"That's right. Han Ye and I both said that we must be careful about our daughter's marriage. It's a lifelong matter."
Unlike Bao Ni's family, Zhou Weihong's family is small, and the older generation has lost their voice.
There are elderly people in your own family, so you have to think more about things. Getting married is easy, but getting divorced is difficult.
"It's not that rigid. If you can't make it work, you can get a divorce. You can't waste your whole life on it."
In Bonnie's past life, divorce was commonplace, and she was very open-minded about it.
"Divorce? Who gets divorced these days? Everyone just tries to make do. You could drown in the gossip of the people around you."
Zhou Weihong is an old-fashioned person with conservative ideas; divorce is a bit out of line for her.
"It's good if we can make it work, but if we can't, I won't let the kids put up with it. Some fundamental issues are unforgivable, like domestic violence or infidelity. There's no such thing as a one-time thing or a recurring one."
Bonnie knows that many men nowadays like to resort to violence, thinking that once they earn money, they can boss their wives and children around and even beat or scold them.
"Bonnie, what you said is very insightful and a very accurate summary. This is the first time I've heard this before."
Zhou Weihong found it intriguing; there was such a saying. She knew of many families where the husband beat his wife.
Bonnie thought to herself, "This isn't her summary at all; she just copied someone else's."
The two talked about the Yang family's affairs and their daughter's future marriage, and then about domestic violence, which led them off-topic.
Luckily, they didn't say it in a crowded place, otherwise, if those elderly folks had heard them, they would have definitely caught them and given them a lecture.
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