The reason why Qiao Qingqing gave such advice is because no one can afford to bear the responsibility of another person's entire life.
There are many crossroads in life. As a bystander, no matter how close the relationship is, you cannot make choices for the people involved, because no matter which path you choose at the moment, you will regret it when you think about it later, and you will doubt whether you made the wrong choice.
If you interfere too forcefully with other people's choices, you will inevitably be blamed or even hated in the future.
If it is for the other person's good, you can make suggestions and analyze the pros and cons for the other person, but never make choices for the other person, let alone force the other person to make a choice.
So, many days later, Zhou Lanfang received the first letter from Hongsheng Brigade in Hefu County.
——The first letter was received almost ten days after she sent it. The letter mainly expressed the two sisters' worry and concern for her, asking why she delayed joining the Hongsheng Brigade. The concern and warmth between the lines still blurred Zhou Lanfang's vision.
However, this first letter lit a lamp in the darkness for Zhou Lanfang who was lost.
"Lan Fang, I am very grateful for your letter.
I see that you are worried and distressed in your letter, and I think you are also exhausted at the moment. I have no good solution for your predicament, so I want to tell you what is in my heart.
You once said in a letter that you were lucky enough compared to me. My dear Lanfang, you shouldn't compare yourself with me, nor do you have to. Unless you have no choice but to comfort yourself, you don't have to compare yourself with others.
You should understand that our parents have done us a great favor by bringing us into this world. My dear Lanfang, from the moment our parents decided to give birth to us, their obligations and responsibilities to us were set.
Human relations and morals should be based on fair standards.
Your parents gave birth to you and raised you, which is their obligation and responsibility. Whether they treat you well or not depends on their conscience.
To be honest, your parents have been very nice to you before, so when they suddenly made such a request, you found it difficult to accept and even doubted whether their kindness to you was based on love or on interests?
Lan Fang, don't worry about it.
People are complicated. Loving you doesn't prevent them from analyzing the pros and cons. I agree with what you said, there is no absolute selfless love in the world. No matter how kind and loving parents are, when they devote themselves to their children, they are not completely without expectations in their hearts. At least, they will expect their children to be filial and appreciate their kindness, otherwise they will regret their efforts.
This is human nature and it is not a mistake.
In fact, among all things, there is no gain without effort. Even if we cultivate the fields, if we don't care about them and let them grow wildly, we cannot expect a good harvest. How much we can harvest depends on God's will, isn't it?
Therefore, there is no need to feel surprised or upset about your parents' request. Think more open-mindedly, this is the law of the universe, maybe you are right, and they are not wrong either, you are pursuing personal happiness, and they are pursuing so-called "rewards", in fact, they are all hedging of interests, and now it depends on who can make a concession in the struggle for interests.
I will not express any opinion on this.
I just want to tell you that if you come, I will accompany you with Qiaoqiao, Nian Nian, and San San, and will not let you go hungry or cold, nor will you be bullied or wronged. If you don't come, I will write to you often, and Qiaoqiao, Nian Nian, and San San will never forget you as their godmother. No matter where you are, no matter when, you are a family member to us.
In addition, there are many ways to repay others, perhaps you can consider them carefully.
Lan Fang, I just hope you are safe and happy.
Qiao Qingqing, pen.
August 19, 5th day of the fifth month, evening.
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