Although Song Nanfeng came, he did not stay at the Yun family. After talking with everyone for a while, he and Han Zheng went to the military district family compound. He had to visit and greet the two elders, and also convey some things to the two old leaders.
After seeing them off, Yun Huaying returned to her room with her cousin and chatted with her privately: "Sister Zhaoyan, what do you think of Song Nanfeng?"
"He's... okay."
This is Yun Chaoyan's most honest evaluation of him.
Yun Huaying smiled as she listened: "Do you think his dual personality is a bit peculiar?"
Yun Chaoyan nodded. In fact, she quite liked his normal side. He was very serious and rigorous when talking about serious matters, and his vigorous and decisive way of doing things pleased her very much. However, when he turned around to face her, he always looked playful and frivolous.
It's not that she hates this, but she thinks this kind of personality is very special and somewhat different from her ideal partner standards.
When she was with her cousin, she was also willing to talk about this, and she said it very frankly: "I like his normal side. His abnormal side is too childish and a little crazy. I can't handle it."
Yun Huaying: "...Hehe."
"Don't laugh."
Yun Chaoyan smiled and patted her, but she couldn't help laughing herself.
"I'll help you pass the message on tomorrow. I think he'll put his abnormal side in check." Yun Huaying chuckled.
"Hanako, there's no need. Just let nature take its course."
Yun Chaoyan was a little repulsed by these two sides of his personality at first, but after two or three contacts, she has gradually adapted to it. She is a little overwhelmed, but not disgusted. With more contacts, she can understand the real him better from his abnormal side.
The normal side was too serious and cautious, which was not conducive to her investigation. She always felt that this side was the fake face.
She didn't explain, but Yun Huaying guessed something and nodded with a smile, "Okay, I won't say any more. Let's learn more about it first."
"Huaying, is there any difference between Han Zheng's behavior when he's alone with you and usual?"
Yun Chaoyan had never been in a relationship before, and she had not been exposed to these things on the farm over the years. She did not have a deep understanding of relationships and marriage between men and women, and the only person of the opposite sex of the same age with whom she could communicate privately was her cousin.
It's just that she is usually busy and is in Yang County, so she has a lot of things to do when they get together, and she has very little time to really sit down and talk. Today is a good opportunity, and she also wants to have a good chat with the two sisters.
"There is a difference. When we first met, he was very quiet and taciturn. On the surface, he was just like Song Nanfeng, serious and cautious. But as we got to know each other better, I found that he talked more than me, and in private, he was not serious at all. He was quite considerate, thoughtful and warm."
Listening to her cousin's words, Yun Chaoyan had a guess in her mind and said it out loud: "Their personalities are like this. It should be related to their jobs, right?"
"It should be. Seriousness and rigor are a work attitude, and in some ways, they are also a protective color."
Yun Chaoyan nodded thoughtfully. She began to understand that Song Nanfeng's abnormal side was his true nature. He would not easily show it in public. This was not something he deliberately pretended to be.
Yun Huaying didn't talk much with her cousin, but she knew that she was a delicate and smart person. In fact, when she asked these questions, she already had some ideas in her mind.
"Sister Chaoyan, if you're confused and can't make a decision, you can ask your uncle and aunt for their opinions. The elders have been through it all, and they have a sharper eye for people, often seeing things more deeply than we do. You can listen to their opinions."
Yun Chaoyan listened and smiled, "I talked to my mother, and now she is just like what Nanxing said. It's true that the mother-in-law likes her son-in-law more and more. She is very satisfied with Song Nanfeng."
"Yeah?"
Yun Huaying didn't even know about this.
"He came to Jinling last month and stayed here for two days. He tried so hard to show off in front of my parents that it hurt my eyes." Yun Chaoyan thought of the scene at that time and couldn't help laughing.
"Okay, starting with the elders directly is quite strategic." Yun Huaying could only say this.
"Dad seems to be quite satisfied with him. He said that his behavior is the same as his father. He is not pretending or being hypocritical. Both father and son have this special personality." Yun Chaoyan saw that his parents liked him very much, so he slowly tried to get in touch with him and get to know him.
"Song Nanfeng's character and ability are beyond reproach. The two senior leaders above him, Elder Long and Elder Jing, both admire and respect him. His family of high-ranking elders and relatives also like him very much. The fact that he has been recognized and affirmed by these leaders must be due to his unique strengths and charm."
"Of course, being excellent outside doesn't mean you'll be good to your wife and children at home."
"Sooner or later, this kind of marriage will be soaked in the daily necessities of life. If the man only works hard outside and ignores the family, is extremely chauvinistic, and has a deep-seated idea of male superiority over female, then such a person is not suitable for marriage."
Yun Chaoyan agreed with her. Nowadays, most men are patriarchal. In their eyes, women should stay at home to cook, raise children, do housework diligently, and take care of their parents-in-law and elders.
She is very disgusted with such people and is unwilling to marry such men. She feels that marrying such a man is no different from falling into the abyss.
"Time reveals a person's true character. If you observe carefully, get to know them more, you will always be able to see through the surface to see the other person's true nature." Yun Huaying suggested that she get to know them better.
Yun Chaoyan nodded: "Well, there's no rush now, it's good to get in touch."
After saying this, Yun Huaying also asked her about her studies, "I heard from my uncle that you have been studying very hard these past few months. Is it difficult for you to learn?"
"It was fine when I first started reviewing the junior high school curriculum, but now that I've started studying the high school textbooks, it's a bit difficult and my progress has slowed down a lot. However, my parents and Uncle Meng and Aunt Xiao take turns teaching us and giving us hands-on guidance, and now my learning progress has picked up again."
During this period, the three brothers and sisters studied extremely hard, spending at least ten hours a day reading and studying. They not only studied junior high and high school textbooks, but also read a lot of extracurricular books.
These extracurricular books were mailed to them by Yun Huaying, and now they fill up an entire bookshelf. Not only the three of them read these books, but the elders also take turns to read and study them. Everyone has had a very fulfilling time during this period.
"Learning is a gradual process. Take it step by step. Don't rush. We still have time."
Yun Huaying was not able to clearly tell them the specific time when the college entrance examination would be resumed. In fact, there were still two full years left, which was enough time for them to catch up on their studies.
"Yeah, we know that."
The two sisters chatted in the room for nearly half an hour. After everyone outside had finished washing up, they got up and went out to get some water and wash up.
Everyone has been getting up early and going to bed late these days, and it has been very busy. Tonight, everyone washed up early and went back to their rooms to rest and catch up on some sleep.
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