Chapter 601 Bi Lizhu Teaches Her Daughter
After returning home this time, An Songyu and his wife stayed at the Jian family's house for two days before going back to An's home.
However, as soon as the couple returned home, they could clearly sense that the atmosphere at home was a bit strange.
An Songyu couldn't help but ask An Jianping, "Dad, what's wrong at home?"
Why do I feel like Mom's mood is really low?
An Jianping sighed helplessly before saying, "Isn't your sister's boyfriend coming the day after tomorrow?"
"No matter how much your mom cleans the house these past few days, she feels it's not presentable."
As he spoke, An Jianping couldn't help but remind his daughter, "Your mother will probably keep nagging you about the progress of the house construction over there."
"Don't get angry if she speaks to you in a bad tone!"
"Dad will be there and will definitely interrupt her in time."
An Jianping didn't want to make his second daughter suffer because of his youngest daughter's situation.
He didn't want his wife to be too depressed.
All he could do was offer advice from both sides and try to put out the fire in time.
Jian Ziyu listened attentively to his father-in-law's words. He had always felt that there were many things he could learn from his father-in-law.
For example, in his relationship with his wife.
The protection and reassurance that her father-in-law gave her was something that Chien Tzu-yu always felt she couldn't match.
Sure enough, when Bi Lizhu came out, she brought up the matter: "Ayu, how is the construction of the houses over there going?"
Why is it so slow?
“Your sister said her boyfriend is coming the day after tomorrow. I clearly told her that we shouldn’t rush this year.”
"She just won't listen!"
"Look at her boyfriend's family situation, and our family's situation..."
"I think it's great as it is now!" An Jianping looked at his cozy home with great satisfaction.
Bi Lizhu couldn't help but glare at her husband again. Wasn't she satisfied with their home either?
She just didn't want to lose out to her daughter's boyfriend.
They don't care, since they won't be living with that child anyway.
But if this causes her daughter to be looked down upon, that's something she absolutely cannot accept.
"Mom, since Xiaoxiang is willing to bring the person back, we should try to trust her character." An Songyu knew Bi Lizhu's unease and gently advised her.
Bi Lizhu, however, thought her daughter was naive.
But when she looked at the two men beside her, she knew she couldn't say things directly.
Women should never place all their hopes on men.
After all, hope is given by others, and they can take it back at any time.
But when the time comes, only the woman herself will have to bear the consequences.
That night, the mother and her two daughters lay on An Songxiang's bed, and Bi Lizhu spoke to her two daughters in detail.
"Mom, do you feel the same way about Dad?" An Songxiang asked with a hint of mischief.
Bi Lizhu rolled her eyes at her daughter but did not answer the question directly.
Instead, she spoke earnestly to her two daughters, saying, "Xiaoyu, Xiaoxiang, you are doing very well now."
"Whether it's getting married or having a boyfriend."
"They have their own earning ability and their own life priorities."
"So, we won't let you place all your hopes and dreams on men."
"It will also make men respect you more."
"Men... with the exception of a few, most of them share some common thoughts."
"On the one hand, they want women to be gentle and dependent on them, but on the other hand, they don't want to be completely bound."
"In a family, the obvious contributions are easily seen, but the hidden contributions are never appreciated!"
"So, being busy making money and having your own life priorities means you don't have much time to care about or restrict your partner?" An Songxiang thought about her own life and realized that it really was true.
“A person’s time and energy are limited,” Bi Lizhu said calmly.
“Excessive concern can indeed become a constraint.” An Songyu nodded in agreement. “Moreover, people’s hearts are fickle!”
"Many people always find the reasons they like each other to be the reasons they break up."
"There are such things?" An Songxiang stared wide-eyed in disbelief.
"Why not?" It was Bi Lizhu who answered her.
She said, "You see, when you first start dating, don't many people like their partner's cute and charming appearance?"
“Of course!” An Songxiang nodded immediately.
“But being charming and cute is something that’s been cultivated by someone,” Bi Lizhu said meaningfully.
"When the person you're raising becomes him, he'll know that pampering comes from spoiling and dressing up from being charming."
"Cuteness is carefree!"
"If he has the ability and the will to pamper her, then her charming and adorable nature can continue indefinitely."
“If you don’t have the ability…” An Songyu added, “then being cute and charming becomes the original sin.”
"You always hear men say: You've changed!"
"Actually, it's just that the circumstances have changed, and so have our hearts!"
Bi Lizhu looked at her second daughter with some surprise.
This child has only been married for a year, and the couple seems to have a good relationship.
How could she possibly say such a thing?
"Wow, sis, you know so much!" An Songxiang exclaimed with admiration.
An Songyu paused for a moment before saying, "Watch more TV and read more novels, and observe your interactions with the people around you, and you'll be able to draw your own conclusions."
Bi Lizhu then realized what was happening.
Indeed, if this child didn't have this keen mind...
After our house was demolished, we wouldn't have been able to develop to where we are today.
An Songxiang thought about what her mother had just said and began to analyze it as well:
"In terms of outward contributions... both of them earn money and support the family."
“But if only one party earns money, the other party can do everything at home without anyone seeing it.” An Songxiang naturally recalled the situation back in the family compound.
There are actually quite a few families like this.
If things are going smoothly at home normally, it's not a problem.
But what if something difficult happens at home?
The person who makes money can always be in a superior position to criticize their partner.
Thinking this, An Songxiang couldn't help but sigh.
Getting married doesn't seem to be a good thing.
“If you really want to continue your relationship with your boyfriend, let’s not forget that Hong Kong is so far away from us.”
"We may not be able to know in time if something happens to you."
"Even if you miss us occasionally, you can't see us whenever you want."
"Xiao Xiang, it's basically impossible to live a completely comfortable life without feeling wronged."
Even the most loving couples will have disagreements at times.
“After all, we’re all human, and we all have our own thoughts!” Bi Lizhu stroked her daughter’s head, her words carrying a particularly profound meaning.
An Songxiang nodded slightly.
Come to think of it, their parents were also a loving couple that many families around them envied.
But it's not like there are absolutely no contradictions!
Thinking about it, An Songxiang suddenly lifted her head from Bi Lizhu's arms, looked at her sister beside her, and asked, "Then, sister, do you also argue with your brother-in-law?"
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