[Chapter 177 Heart-to-heart talk between mother and daughter]
Xia Xiulan was stunned for a moment, then laughed out loud:
"Haha, I was also attracted by your father's face at first. There are so many people who like me, and there are many better ones among them, but your father's handsome face touched me. Facts have proved that my choice was right, otherwise how could
I give birth to a beautiful daughter and a handsome son." Qin Yian nodded frantically: "Yeah, thank you for your choice, mom. People say that a daughter looks like her father. An ugly father will most likely get an ugly daughter. Dad is handsome, so he gave birth to a beautiful daughter like me. Genes are very important. Thank you mom for your wit."
Being handsome is indeed a plus for Qin Yian, and it's a plus.
Everyone likes beautiful things. Everyone will look at beautiful things a few more times, and good-looking people will unconsciously keep their eyes on them for a while. She is just a vulgar person who likes handsome guys. Good looks are also a kind of asset, not to mention that she is a hidden beauty lover. In the world of beauty lovers, handsomeness is a must, and it is better to be poor than excessive. Ugly people must not be, which affects appetite and the genes of the next generation. They don't want the next generation to be troubled by ugliness.
"But face is important, character is also important, and being good to you is the most important. Your father stood out because of his face and because he was good to me."
Xia Xiulan was very happy that the lady had the same idea as herself. She held her hand and happily shared her past with her.
Qin Yian took a few steps closer and asked excitedly, "Mom, tell me how Dad pursued you."
"He, as soon as we met, he gave me all his belongings, and always cooked delicious food for me. They were all vegetables he grew and meals he cooked himself, and each time they were different. I knew that this man was right and was willing to spend time and effort on you, so he couldn't be bad."
Xia Xiulan recalled the past with a beautiful smile on her face.
"Time has once again proved that I made the right choice. Your father is a great cook. He still cooked for me after we got married and didn't let me suffer. Now most of the meals at home are cooked by your father, and I only cook when he is really busy. The most important thing is that I later found out that your father didn't know how to cook before, but later he heard from somewhere that I like to eat, so he went to learn from a chef."
Qin Yian was excited and raised his thumb to praise: "Wow, my father is really good. He was so ruthless in order to pursue his wife. No wonder the dishes he cooked tasted so good, especially his cooking skills, and there was such a thing."
Xia Xiulan smiled and looked into Qin Yian's eyes and said seriously:
"So, my lady, you have to see whether a person treats you well or not, and feel in your heart whether what this person does shows that he really cares about you and values you. Don't look at what he says, but what he does and how he does it."
Qin Yian nodded in agreement:
"Well, that's not the case. I think so too. A handsome face is just the threshold for me to get in, just like studying. After six years of hard work, you can get a primary school diploma and get good grades to go to a good junior high school. After graduating from junior high school, you can pass the exam to go to high school. In the past, you had to take the college entrance examination and get good grades to be admitted to university. Every step is indispensable, and every step is a threshold. I also have my own one, two, three, and four thresholds in my heart, and I will not lower my standards for anyone."
She has never been a love-minded person, nor does she like poverty alleviation. Only the country can provide targeted poverty alleviation.
"Mom, for me, the hard conditions in terms of appearance, personal ability, work and property, family background, etc. must all meet my standards, and then I will be able to choose him. Only then can I get to know him in depth and feel his inner charm, and feel the difference between how he treats me and how he treats others."
Qin Yian carefully told Xia Xiulan about her concept of choosing a spouse and discussed it in depth.
It is normal for her parents to worry about her. What she needs to do is to reassure her parents and let them know that she is sober and serious about choosing a spouse, and has seriously considered whether Lu Jinghe pursues her and whether she agrees with it or not.
"Mom, listen to me about Lu Jinghe's situation. Lu Jinghe meets the conditions I mentioned earlier."
"Okay, go ahead, Mom is listening."
Xia Xiulan placed a glass of water in front of Qin Yian, sat up straight and faced her, ready to listen.
Qin Yian took a sip of the water in front of him to moisten his throat, and began his own review.
"First of all, his appearance is obvious to everyone, which is a big plus point, so he passed the test directly."
"Secondly, his personal abilities are also very good. He is independent, knows medical skills, has good acupuncture skills, can cut hair, knows some weapons that are not easy to talk about and must be kept secret, can drive a large truck, and can cook, and he does all of them well. He is a technical talent, and some of these abilities he possesses have helped me, so he passed the test in this aspect."
"As for his work and property situation, you also know that his main job is a barber in a state-owned barber shop, but he also does a lot of temporary jobs privately, such as a truck driver in a department store, and other jobs that are inconvenient to talk about. His salary alone must add up to more than two hundred yuan a month. Of course, there are some invisible benefits, such as driving a truck to do some things, but those don't need to be mentioned."
"Let's talk about his property situation. Hey, he now has three houses and a bicycle. He doesn't have to worry about food, clothing, housing and transportation. The key is that he trusts me and puts his money with me. Now I still have 600 yuan of his money."
Qin Yian is not sleepy when talking about this. One of the houses was obtained with her help.
Otherwise, she and Lu Jinghe get along well. He helped her to cheat the Lu family's money, and she helped him to cheat the Lu family's house. Sacrificing the Lu family to make their family complete, this feeling is not bad. Could it be that she met such a compatible person.
The more Qin Yian talked about this, the more she felt that Comrade Lu Jinghe was really good. Did she feel that he had convinced herself?