After the family of four returned to the Duan family, that night, the whole family, young and old, sat together to discuss the matter of Shui En and Mu En.
Duan Xichuan spoke first, "Grandpa, grandma, mom, dad, big brother and sister-in-law, Shui'en and Mu'en are still young, and it would be better for them to live with their mom. So, Xiaobei and I have decided to let them go to Jing City with Xiaobei."
"Then... Mom, we'd like you to come with us to Jing City and help us take care of Shui En and Mu En."
"I'm going to Jing City?"
Although Wang Zhaodi really loves her two grandsons, she wishes they could be in front of her every day.
But the farthest place Wang Zhaodi has ever been to in her life is Shuanghe County.
Beijing is so far away, and it's a big capital. She felt a little scared before she even went there to take care of her grandson.
Duan Jiaxing heard Duan Xichuan's words and remained silent.
He couldn't say anything about this.
Agree, he and Wang Zhaodi have been married for decades and have never been separated. If she goes to Beijing to take care of her grandson, his life at home will definitely be difficult.
If you disagree, it's rare for a son and daughter-in-law to ask their parents for help, and it's not an excessive request, so it's a bit unreasonable.
"Xichuan, Xiaobei, Mom is definitely willing to help you two take care of the children. Besides, Shuien and Muen are easy to take care of."
"But Beijing is so far away. Mom is unfamiliar with the place and doesn't know anyone. I'm a little worried that I won't be able to adapt to the life there and won't be able to help you take care of the child."
Seeing that Duan Jiaxing didn't say anything, Wang Zhaodi had no choice but to bite the bullet and said it with an embarrassed look on her face.
After saying that, the atmosphere became a little awkward.
Wang Zhaodi immediately added hastily, "Well, Xichuan, Xiaobei, why don't you just leave Shuien and Muen at home? Leave them at home, and I can promise you that I will take good care of them!"
"Leave it at home?"
After hearing Wang Zhaodi's words, Duan Xichuan and Shen Xiaobei looked at each other tacitly, both of them feeling hesitant and helpless.
If you keep it at home, it will stay there for four years.
These four years are a very important period for Shuien and Muen in terms of character development, behavioral habits, and preschool enlightenment.
During this period, leaving them entirely to the care of the elderly would definitely result in a world of difference compared to having Shen Xiaobei, a college student mother, participate in their upbringing.
This point is not only clear to Shen Xiaobei, but also very clear to Duan Xichuan.
Neither of them expected that this matter would be much more difficult and tricky than they had imagined.
Shen Xiaobei also realized for the first time that it was no wonder that in modern society, there were always conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Sometimes, it may not be that either the mother-in-law or the daughter-in-law has a bad character, but that the two have different positions, different choices, and different ideas.
Conflicts and disagreements are inevitable.
The reason why she only encountered a disagreement between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law now was because she was lucky. She joined the army as soon as she married Duan Xichuan and did not live under the same roof with her mother-in-law for a long time.
If she lives under the same roof with her mother-in-law for a long time, no matter how good her mother-in-law is, she cannot guarantee that there will be no conflicts between them.
After all, it's two generations.
There will definitely be differences and generation gaps in lifestyles and parenting concepts. At that time, the party that compromises will definitely feel somewhat uncomfortable.
Thinking of this, Shen Xiaobei whispered in Duan Xichuan's ear: "Xichuan, otherwise, I'd better find a nanny in Jing City to take care of the child!"
"Can you rest assured with a nanny?"
"I'll just carefully choose a reliable one then."
"Okay, that's all we can do."
After Duan Xichuan finished speaking to Shen Xiaobei, he said to Wang Zhaodi with a smile on his face: “Mom, Shuien and Muen are still so young. How can Xiaobei bear to leave them at home for four years?”
"Besides, Xiaobei, Shui'en, and Mu'en and I are in three different places, so it won't be convenient for us to reunite. Since Mom can't adapt to life in another place, we won't force her. It's really our fault for not considering this for Mom."
"So, Mom, we've decided to find a nanny in Jing City to take care of Shui'en and Mu'en. This way, we won't have to worry about it."
"Xichuan, do you blame your mother for not wanting to go over and help you?"
"Mom, how could that be? It was our fault for not thinking things through first. How can we blame you?"
"Yes, Mom, it's all my fault. I only wanted you to help take care of my grandson, but I didn't think about whether you would feel uncomfortable when you go to Beijing?"
"Xiaobei!"
Like the other elders, Gao Hongmian, who had been holding her son silently, heard the conversation between Shen Xiaobei and the other three, and suddenly seemed a little excited and called her.
"Sister-in-law?"
Shen Xiaobei suddenly looked at her with some confusion.
"Xiaobei, Xichuan, Donglin, Grandpa and Grandma, Dad, Mom, how about I take Xien and Qingen to live in Beijing, and take care of Xiaobei and Xichuan's children as well."
"You're taking the kids?"
As soon as Gao Hongmian finished speaking, everyone turned their eyes to her, all of them were very surprised.
Because no one had ever thought of letting her go to Beijing to take care of the child.
Including Duan Donglin.
"Yes, I'll take the kids with me!"
"Shui'en and Mu'en are still young and can't leave their mother, Xiaobei. But Xi'en and Qing'en are even younger, they also need their father to accompany them."
"Besides, Donglin is well-educated. He's better than me at educating children. With him being a college-educated father, I don't have to worry about them not becoming successful in the future!"
"Hongmian, are you serious?"
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