Chapter 182 How terrible it is, just imagine it yourself
Rutang thought for a long time before coming to the conclusion that Chen Guilan had an NPD personality.
Only in this way can her abnormal behaviors in past and present lives be reasonably explained.
"Everyone has his or her own personality. We are all normal, but some people's personalities are very dangerous, such as Chen Guilan's NPD personality, which is medically known as narcissistic personality, which is one of the three most dangerous personalities."
"Narcissistic? My brother is narcissistic too. I saw him looking at himself in the mirror for a long time this morning. He had that expression that said, 'Hey, I'm the most handsome man in the world.'"
Xiaoyue made a figure eight with two fingers and pointed it at his chin, imitating his brother's narcissistic look.
“Narcissism and narcissistic personality are two different concepts. Narcissistic personality is a pathological personality. How can I explain it to you…” Rutang thought for a while and found a suitable metaphor.
"Vampire, yes, a vampire. A narcissistic personality is like a vampire. In her eyes, everyone is her blood bag. She has to rely on sucking other people to make a living. There is only her in her world. For her own benefit, she can hurt others without any guilt."
Rutang put together all of Chen Guilan's actions and came to this conclusion.
The reason why she didn't find anything wrong with Chen Guilan in her previous life was because Chen Guilan needed Rutang's money and the power that Rutang had, so she tried every means to please Rutang. The other people in the Chen family also licked Rutang's boots. Chen Guilan's performance was not outstanding, but her vampire qualities were still revealed inadvertently. She often hurt Rutang intentionally or unintentionally with words and destroyed Rutang's self-esteem.
In Chen Guilan's eyes, Rutang in her previous life was just a huge "blood bag". She sucked Rutang's energy while waiting for an opportunity to hurt him.
In this life, Rutang does not have the identity and status that she will have in the future, so there is no need for Chen Guilan to please her, so Chen Guilan reveals her true colors.
"Normal people have feelings and hearts, even a lecherous man like your brother... I mean, a man with a true nature, cough cough." Rutang felt Yu Yaoyang's gaze and immediately changed his words out of desire to survive.
Yu Yaoyang licked his back teeth and waited until they returned to the house. He would kiss her little mouth until it was swollen! Dare to say he is lecherous!
"Your brother is such a genuine man, very good to his family and friends, he's a normal person." Ru Tang added in his heart, a normal person who is a little bit lustful.
"Chen Guilan is different. She has no heart. All NPDs are hollow people. All her actions are to serve herself. The dead gangster is her blood bag, and Brother Yaoyang is also her blood bag."
"Hey! Who are you annoying?" Yu Yaoyang rubbed his arms. Who would want to be a blood bag for that kind of ugly and bad woman!
Even if he dies, he will die on his own wife. He is willing to die of exhaustion! Who wants to be associated with that disgusting Chen Guilan?
"I'm just using a metaphor. Of course you won't fall for her, and you won't give her a chance. She treats all men the same way."
Rutang felt that the reason why Chen Guilan set her sights on Yu Yaoyang might not have much to do with love. A narcissistic person only loves himself, so even if she has feelings for Yaoyang, they would not be too much. Chen Guilan only had eyes for Yu Yaoyang's money and his social status.
If she really got Yu Yaoyang, Chen Guilan would dump Yu Yaoyang and pursue a bigger man if she had the chance to meet a richer man in the future. Of course, she herself did not have that kind of charm. God was fair in giving her a very ordinary face and a not very smart heart, so she could not catch a very outstanding man.
"In addition to these, there is also Gui Ning. You are also her blood bag." Ru Tang looked at Gui Ning with sympathy.
"Me?!" Gui Ning was a little confused. She was not a man, and even if she wasn't dating Chen Guilan, how could she be a blood bag?
"Think back, has she always suppressed you since you were a child? She did things that clearly hurt you, but she also brainwashed you, saying that it was for your own good? She couldn't get any economic benefits from you, so she drew spiritual strength from you, and raised herself up by suppressing you."
Gui Ning nodded and suddenly felt a chill.
The clothes that were soaked by the rain were stuck to my body and mixed with the fear of past memories, I felt extremely cold.
Her shoulders felt warm and Xiaoyue put the towel on her.
"Now that you've left that home, don't think about her anymore. Her actions have nothing to do with you." Xiaoyue comforted.
"Gui Ning only looks weak, but fortunately, her spiritual core is still quite strong. That's why I was not completely defeated by her. If she were a more fragile person, she would have tortured them to death."
The reasons for the formation of narcissistic personality are rather complicated, some are innate and some are acquired. Ru Tang feels that Chen Guilan's is probably innate because her father is a narcissistic personality. If there is a narcissistic personality in a family, other people will also be affected, either suffering a mental breakdown or becoming the same pathological person as a result.
"The reason why narcissistic personality is listed as a dangerous personality is that this disease will change the brain, making all her logical behaviors revolve around herself. In order to make her logic self-consistent, she is full of lies. She lies so many times that she even believes them. Moreover, she has no sense of shame and will not empathize with anyone. We cannot change this kind of person, nor can we treat them."
Even with the development of psychology in later generations, it is impossible to cure this dangerous personality that will bring disaster to those around them, let alone expect to influence these people with love.
"Sister-in-law, what you mean is that even if she lost all of Jingtian's money, she wouldn't blame herself, right?" Xiaoyue asked.
Rutang nodded.
"Irresponsibility is also a prominent feature of narcissistic personality. She will do everything she can to put the blame on others. She will complain about the bad weather, the cold-blooded passers-by, and everything else, except herself."
"What kind of monster is this..." Xiaoyue clicked her tongue. The world is so big that there are all kinds of strange things.
"Let alone a truckload of goods, even if the gangster who did things for her last time died, did she go to his grave to burn a piece of paper for him? Although that gangster deserved his punishment, he was doing things for her." Ru Tang told the more heartbreaking truth.
People with narcissistic personality have no heart and will never empathize with anyone. Not only would Chen Guilan not feel sorry for the gangster's death, she might even blame him for his incompetence and unlucky death.
"Having no sense of shame means she has no sense of morality. You can imagine how terrible it is for someone who is not bound by morality and only cares about her own interests." Ru Tang sighed.
That's why she asked Yu Yaoyang to go to Jingtian as soon as possible. Chen Guilan lost all the money invested by others. Not only does she not feel guilty, but she is likely to kill Jingtian in order to avoid compensation.
Rutang felt that it was better to resolve a feud than to create one. If she could save Jingtian, perhaps the feud between the two families would be resolved.
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