Chapter 165 Breakthrough
Director Meng sighed, "You can try, but I just talked to your eldest sister and found that she has had this condition since she was a child.
Your mother must have instilled this idea in her since she was a child. When the child had no clear understanding of society, she told her what was right, which led to her wrong cognition.
So she has this idea deeply rooted in her mind, and it is difficult to change it. We can only slowly lower her psychological defenses and then make a breakthrough, which may take a long time. "
After hearing this, Lin Yu was silent, feeling a little disappointed. It was obviously too late.
"Then there is no other way?"
Director Meng shook his head. "No, psychological change is a process of forcibly changing one's self-perception, which is very difficult. In fact, what I just said is still an ideal state. It is very likely that nothing will change in the end."
After hearing this, Lin Yuzhu fell silent again, then sighed silently. Since the doctor said so, she didn't intend to argue anymore. She stood up, thanked him, and prepared to leave.
As a result, Director Meng called her back again.
"But after chatting with your eldest sister just now, I found a breakthrough. If we start from this aspect, the effect will be better, and there may be some hope."
Lin Yuzhu's eyes lit up when she heard this. "What's the breakthrough?"
"child."
"child?"
"Yes!" Director Meng nodded, "Your eldest sister is a daughter, but she is also a mother. There is no mother who doesn't love her children.
I have heard you talk about her current thoughts and situation, and I think it is best not to let her get divorced for now, so that she can stay closer to the children and have someone to worry about, and stay away from your mother, and then use psychological intervention to slowly change her."
"Will this work?" Lin Yuzhu was a little confused.
"I can't say for sure, but I just told her something about the child, and it seemed to touch her."
After saying this, seeing that Lin Yuzhu was curious, Director Meng continued:
“I gave her an analogy and told her what her children would face in the future if she divorced.
Her husband is not too old and is likely to remarry, so the children will have a stepmother. Then they will have to make a living under the stepmother at a young age, or be looked down upon by their classmates and friends, who will say they are motherless children...
In short, it was just talking about some miserable lives, which made her feel distressed and a little shaken.
You can also talk to her more after you go back and let her know that the child will definitely not live better with his biological mother, then she will naturally not dare to divorce.
After that, you guys should try to let her see her mother less often, and then come to see me every other week for some treatment, and try to help her change her cognition as soon as possible."
Lin Yuzhu's eyes lit up when she heard this, but then she thought of something and became a little disappointed.
Alas, although my eldest sister did not divorce in her previous life, her attitude towards her children was always second to her mother's family. She gave all the good things to her mother's family first, and her own children lived a miserable life, but she never seemed to feel sorry for them.
Will this really make her change?
She even thought that if the child was older, it might be a good thing for them to divorce, but the child was still young now, and as Director Meng said, her brother-in-law might not necessarily not remarry, so the child's life in the future might be worse than it is now.
So, she thought she should give it a try. No matter what, according to the doctor, it might be of some use. As for the rest, she would have to wait for further treatment.
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