Chapter 113 What kind of fate do I have?
"He earns less than a hundred yuan a month, yet he wants to treat you to coffee and Western food."
This must have cost him all his salary!
So how is he going to live from now on? Doesn't he have to support himself? Doesn't he have to give his parents money for living expenses?
"Do you think that he spends all his money on you, and that means he cares about you and is devoted to you?" Yao Shula asked rhetorically.
Gu Xiaoman nodded hesitantly.
Isn't that right?
This person is much better than the previous one who only knew how to get him to do things for him!
That person was incredibly stingy with her, and even though she was rich, she didn't want to be taken advantage of again!
"He's right. You shouldn't lower your standard of living just because you're in a relationship."
but……
Xiaoman, let me ask you this: can his meager salary support your current lifestyle?
What will he do after he spends all his money? Can he continue living like this?
He gives the impression that he has given you everything, and that he treats you the best.
In this situation, whatever you do is wrong.
What if you get married in the future and his salary runs out, and you want to maintain your current lifestyle?
Or rather, it can't be that you're eating a fancy meal while he watches! You're eating Western food and steak while he's starving? Yao Shula looked at Gu Xiaoman.
Gu Xiaoman calmed down.
In the future... his meager salary will barely be enough to live on in Shanghai, and she... certainly doesn't want to live a hard life!
I can't exactly say that I'm living a life of luxury while that other person is eating coarse food and eating wild vegetables!
In the end, don't you still have to use your own money to supplement your living expenses?
Although she is rich and doesn't mind, that person hasn't yet made her like him enough to give herself away.
"And if you don't want to be with him anymore and break up with him, what do you think he will say?"
He'll tell everyone he gave you everything he had, and you still want to break up with him? That's how you show your heartlessness.
You only care about money and look down on the poor.
And he will do everything he can to get back the money he spent on you.
The feeling of someone giving you 100 dollars to spend is completely different from someone giving you 10,000 dollars to spend.
If a hundred people have spent money on you, they're thinking about what they'll get in return. They want more than a hundred; they want more.
And what about the person with ten thousand...?
Haha, their feeling is that if you spend money, you spend money, it doesn't matter who you spend it on!
"Like your brother, if he spends money on his girlfriend, do you ever think about getting the money back?" Yao Shula continued.
Gu Xiaoman understood.
"Actually, he was just investing. He poured all his wealth into it, but he actually wanted more. In the end, he was just more cunning."
Oh dear, why am I so unlucky!
I've met all sorts of people.
It was one thing to deal with the previous person, but now we've encountered another one, and this person might want even more.
"If I'm not careful, my life will be over!" Gu Xiaoman began to sigh.
Miao Yamin nodded in agreement.
Such people usually only reveal their true colors after marriage, but luckily Shura was smart and saw through it at a glance.
"Actually, that's not necessarily true! Just be careful."
"If they invite you to dinner again in the future..." Yao Shula wanted to offer some advice.
"Don't worry about it! We'll break up once we get back."
As for the money he spent on meals and coffee for me, I gave it all back to him.
Of course, only half of it is folded.
"After all, he ate a big meal and drank coffee. If I don't take advantage of him, he can't take advantage of me either," Gu Xiaoman said angrily.
Yao Shula...
Good, very decisive, and not stupid either; knows not to let others take advantage of him.
But... did I just break up another couple?
Oh no, I've really become the captain of the demolition team!
"There's no need to break up so quickly. Slowly, you can say that you're not compatible, or that your family members' birth charts are compatible but incompatible, or that you're in conflict in your destiny."
"This kind of person is a petty person; it's best not to offend them too much," Yao Shula advised.
Gu Xiaoman nodded.
Yes, it's because their birth charts are incompatible, and they're destined to clash!
Gu Xiaoman shook her head, completely erasing that person from her mind.
"Shura, actually I don't want to be in a relationship, but my family... always says that I'm not young anymore and should be thinking about getting married."
You're lucky, no one's rushing you!
Yao Shula nodded.
That's a good thing, no one is pressuring me to get married.
"If marriage were really that great, would anyone need to urge me to get married?"
We didn't know to pick up the money that fell on the ground!
However, I'm different from you. I have younger siblings to support, so I definitely won't consider marriage.
"Instead of wasting time, why not think about how to make life more comfortable!" Yao Shula laughed.
Gu Xiaoman now completely believes Yao Shula's words.
Yes, if marriage is going well, why would you need to rush it? If there's money on the ground, everyone knows to pick it up.
"Shura, you're right. Why not spend that time making your life more comfortable?"
I've made up my mind. Once I return to Shanghai, I'll pick up where I left off and get back to what I was doing before.
"I can manage Dad's company, and I should pick up the violin I used to practice again."
Yao Shula completely agreed, but at the same time gave Gu Xiaoman a very pertinent suggestion.
"Why don't you try Taekwondo or Sanda, and learn some self-defense techniques?"
You're good-looking; you never know when you might need your help!
Gu Xiaoman thought it was a great idea too.
"Yes! I can learn some self-defense skills, so that if I encounter bad people or bad things in the future, I won't have to shout for help or cry."
Who knows, I might even do something heroic!
"Shura, you learn too! Yamin, you learn too! We'll all learn!" Gu Xiaoman's eyes lit up.
Gu Xiaoman thought that if she could protect herself in the future, it would definitely impress everyone.
"Shura, let's all learn!"
Men... are all unreliable.
Look at my brother, when he's on good terms with someone, he thinks everything about that person is wonderful, even their farts smell sweet.
When the relationship ended, he would even accuse the other person of rolling their eyes at him if they blinked.
No man is any good.
We must learn to protect ourselves!
Think about it, once we've all learned how to protect ourselves, won't we no longer need these men?
On a dark and stormy night, the three of us were walking along a country road when we encountered some hooligans…
Gu Xiaoman looked at Yao Shula.
Yao Shula immediately declared, "You choose first!"
Gu Xiaoman was very satisfied, and then asked another question.
"What if there's only one?"
Yao Shula's stance remains clear.
"Attack together!"
Gu Xiaoman immediately burst into laughter.
Miao Yamin also chuckled twice.
After she finished laughing, she realized something was wrong, but she couldn't quite put her finger on it!
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