Chapter 103 Parents' Handbook It's only been a few days since I returned home, and Li Daohua...
After just a few days at home, Li Daohua felt extremely bored.
No one was trying to scam people or gossiping, and the world suddenly became peaceful. It was a little hard to get used to it, as my fighting spirit was born, but I had no way to vent.
Li Daohua felt that she had stayed in this place for too long and had become lazy and unwilling to work, and that it was impossible to upgrade to pure love.
Before traveling through time, the desire to fight was strong because there were all kinds of annoying things and annoying people on the Internet, and there were many self-media like them who were specifically responsible for inciting wars. There was no shortage of pure hatred material.
After traveling through time, as a rural woman from the lower class, it was common for her to be stepped on by others, and she also had a pair of eyes that were good at discovering materials.
Just when I was lamenting that life was as lonely as snow, I ran into a limping man. When he saw Li Daohua, he greeted her enthusiastically.
Li Daohua recognized that the man was from the next village. He went to school with her when they were young and pursued her when he grew up. He also said that he would come back to propose to Li Sanzhu after he was admitted to university in the future.
His family was not well off, and he was afraid that Li Sanzhu would look down on him. After all, Li Sanzhu was once the captain.
The only thing he has to show for it is himself. He has been smart since he was young and always gets first place in school. Not only himself, but his parents and teachers all hope that he can get into college.
But later Li Daohua stopped going to school, got married, and went to Peking, so no one knows what happened to him afterwards.
Now it seems like a lot has happened.
"Your legs..."
"I was digging coal in the mine and an accident happened. This is what happened..." The man didn't dare to look Li Daohua in the eye when he spoke.
There is a coal mine nearby. In the past, if a villager could be selected to work in the mine, it would be a very good job. The benefits in the mine were good and the salary was high. Apart from the high risk of accidents, there were no other disadvantages.
"Why... didn't you go to school?"
The man smiled bitterly: "I failed the exam, and my family borrowed a lot of money for my studies. I didn't pass the exam, and I was too embarrassed to repeat the year. I went to the mine, at least I can pay back the money my family borrowed.
But things have gotten much better recently. You've become a great writer, and we've become famous, and I can support myself at home."
Hearing that the man failed the exam, Li Daohua became a little suspicious. In her mind, the man was not smart at all. Of course, memories may also be beautified.
Moreover, being smart in elementary school does not mean that one will be smart in the future. There are many stories about Zhongyong.
After growing up, Li Daohua only heard from other people in the village that it is better for men to study, but she didn't know whether it was true or not.
Out of habitual thinking, Li Daohua suddenly started to think in conspiracy theories.
In this era, there was no Internet, information was not well developed, and various data and information were not open and transparent.
It's so easy to impersonate someone else.
The villagers would not make a fuss if they did not receive the university admission letter. There were many people like this man who accepted their fate.
"Have you checked? Are you sure you didn't pass?"
"I went to the school to ask, and they said they didn't have my admission letter."
When Li Daohua heard this, she realized that this was not a check at all. What she meant by check was to go to the Education Bureau to check the scores directly.
"In fact, you can go to the Education Bureau to check your scores. If you have any objections to your college entrance examination results, you can check them."
Li Daohua's words made the man fall into deep thought. When they were about to leave, they heard that someone in the next village had run away from home.
After listening to Li Daohua's words that day, the man really went to check his scores. He had indeed doubted his college entrance examination results before, because as far as he knew, some of his classmates who had not performed as well as him in the past had also been admitted to university.
But no matter how much I asked, the school said they had not received his admission letter.
Although he was looked down upon and it was very difficult when he went to check his scores this time, he finally found out that he had indeed been admitted to the university.
It was the Henan University that he applied for. Actually, he originally wanted to go to Peking University, but he knew his own limitations and insisted on applying even though he would not be admitted, which would end up in vain.
He knew that someone had impersonated him, so he prepared to file a complaint at Henan University, demanding that the impostor pay the price and return the school to him.
He prepared the money and was going to take a train to Henan University the next day. He told his family about this before leaving.
He originally thought that his family would support him, but his father kept trying to stop him from going, saying that it had been so many years, and there was no point in going. He was a cripple, and no one would look up to him or make decisions for him.
"If they don't make the decision for me, then I will continue to appeal to higher authorities. There will always be someone who can make the decision for me! It is not their turn to be lawless in this world!"
Taking the college entrance examination is a lifelong endeavor.
The man insisted on filing a complaint and wanted the person who impersonated him to be sued and put in jail.
In the end, his father had no choice but to tell the truth.
It was true that a powerful and wealthy family had impersonated his place and gone to college, but it was not the kind of impersonation he imagined. At least, his father knew it.
When the admission letter was delivered to his home, his father took it and hid it.
Originally his family supported him to go to school, but after the village had more contact with the outside world, his father heard that some people, after being admitted to university, married into wealthy families and cut off ties with their families just to have a place in the city.
No different from those educated youth who left their homes and careers behind.
His father wanted him to stay at home. His family had been a single-son family for three generations, and he couldn't let the family be cut off from him. So he couldn't go out to school, and he couldn't stay outside and not come back.
Because of this, his father sold his admission letter, and the introducer was a truck driver in the mine.
After selling the admission letter, he took out part of it and found a job for the man in a mine. He could go home during holidays and the salary was not bad.
His father felt that this was the best business he had ever done in his life.
The man was going crazy after hearing this. Just because of this crappy excuse, his life was ruined and now he is a cripple.
So he had a fight with his father, took the money he earned from the mine and left without saying a word that day.
"Look at this confused old man. His son went to college and has a bright future. Isn't that a great honor for his ancestors? Look at the rice flowers in our captain's house. If anyone dares to say that the rice flowers are not from the Li family, the Li family will eat him up.
His ancestors had been poor for generations, and finally a talented person emerged, but he trampled him to death. If I were his ancestor, I would curse him every day."
The villagers also talked a lot about this old man, and they still understood the simplest truths.
If the child is successful, the ancestors will benefit from it.
Let’s not talk about people far away, let’s just talk about Li Daohua’s family. What was his ancestral tomb originally? It was just a mound of earth. People would only go there to worship during the Chinese New Year.
Now, this mound of earth has been turned into a brick cemetery. People with the surname Li, who are related to Li Daohua's family, have to come here to burn incense sticks during every festival, hoping that their ancestors will bless their children to become successful.
There are not many people like this who are not in their right minds and think that the dead are more important than the living.
Li Daohua was also stunned when she heard it. She originally thought that kind of dark impersonation turned out to be stupid.
But in fact, there are many children like this who are strangled by their parents.
Such things happen in every era.
Sometimes it really is strange that something as big as being a parent can be accomplished so casually.
There are always people who use the excuse that they are first time parents, however, they are first time parents but have already experienced being a child.
If you don’t know how to be a parent, don’t you know what you were thinking when you were a child?
When Li Sanzhu heard about this, he was also very moved.
He knew the most about being a parent. Back then, Li Daohua was the only child in the family, and he and Lin Jinfeng had experienced a lot of rumors.
They also felt sorry for Li Daohua and saw their child being hurt by these rumors. They could only compensate Li Daohua as much as possible and teach her how to fight back against these people.
But no matter what, they never thought of sacrificing Li Daohua's future in exchange for another person to carry on the family line.
Li Daohua likes Ouyang Yuan, and as long as Ouyang Yuan is nice to Li Daohua, they will agree to their marriage.
Beijing is better than their small village. Even though they know they will rarely see their children in the future, they will let them go to Beijing and they will stay at home to take care of them, at least to leave a safety net for the children.
He really couldn't understand what was going on in this guy's brain.
"Daohua, don't worry. If you get into college, our family will sell everything we have to support you to go to school."
"Dad, stop making a fuss. With our family, we can support ten of us in school without having to sell everything we have."
"Look at you, you don't understand what parental love is at all. Selling everything we have is a reflection of our love for you!"
Li Daohua nodded helplessly and said, "Okay, okay, okay, if you say so, then so be it."
However, this made Li Daohua think of writing a parent's manual.
She thinks this kind of thing is very important. Some mentally retarded people are treated as normal people because they can take care of themselves. This kind of hidden mental retardation is more harmful to people.
The key is that after harming others, he does not think he is wrong. Instead, he feels complacent and thinks he has done the right thing.
Wouldn't it be terrible if such people became parents and gave them the right to control their children?
"Don't worry about other people's children. You don't have any children of your own, and you still have a parent's manual. You have never been a mother, so how can you teach others how to be a parent? How can others be convinced?" Li Sanzhu advised earnestly.
Lin Jinfeng encouraged Li Daohua to write. She felt that there was nothing her daughter could not accomplish. She had never written a novel before, but as soon as she started writing, she won the most prestigious award in the world.
What’s wrong with my daughter never being a mother? She can still write well even if she has never been a mother.
"I don't have children, and I've never been a parent, but I have been a child. I have my own parents, I know a lot of children, and I've met a lot of people's parents. Isn't this experience enough?"
Li Sanzhu had nothing to say, this was truly like being a child.
"Besides, this is not an educational book. It's just a few short stories." Short stories between parents and children.
I just hope there will be fewer tragedies like this man's.
On the way back, Li Daohua was thinking about this book, and Ouyang Yuan was a little jealous.
"Feeling sorry for him?"
"I feel sorry for him. It's not easy to get into college at this time. Life after graduating from college will definitely be much better than what he has now. Maybe his legs wouldn't have to be broken. Oh, it would be better if his dad gave him the admission letter."
No matter when, she would still feel angry when she heard that the admission letter was maliciously hidden.
No one knows better than her that if one fails to pass the exam after studying hard for more than ten years due to one's own fault, there is nothing to complain about. However, this situation can really make one explode.
"Are you planning to write a book with him as the protagonist?" This is the most important thing.
She didn't even write a book with him as the protagonist, she just wrote a book with this man as the protagonist.
"How is that possible? His story can only be considered a unit in the book. The whole book is full of poor children."
Men’s stories are not the most pitiful. She has seen too many pitiful children.
At least, the man finally knew the truth and had the ability to resist. Some children will never know why their parents did this until they die.
"Can you include me in it?"
"Why write you in? You're not miserable."
Li Daohua looked up and saw Ouyang Yuan's resentful eyes before she realized that he was jealous.
"Why are you jealous of him? He doesn't even have a name."
I have been talking about men for so long, and it has always been about men. There are so many men in this world, but Ouyang Yuan is the only one.
Ouyang Yuan was satisfied then. When Li Daohua was thinking about the content, he was also racking his brains to help her think of the content.
Unfortunately, he had lost contact with most of his elementary and junior high school classmates, so he didn’t know the situation. Li Daohua was more familiar with the people he met after going to the countryside than he was.
One disadvantage of two people who have known each other for a long time getting married is that the people they know overlap to a great extent, making it difficult to find new gossip.
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