"Why are you two living so well?" Yan Qingxue was really curious. Why is it that Yan Shuhua can live such a good life even though they are both human beings? Yan Shuhua suddenly looked at her with a very serious expression: "Do you really want to know why?"
Although Liu Cuiman said she didn't want to know, she really wanted to know now. Even if it would make her lose face, she wanted to say: "I want to know. Can you tell me?"
"Because we both care about each other, we would never be as suspicious as you are."
Yan Qingxue was indeed like this. She was always making random guesses and wondering if Xiao Yanmin had a woman outside. She was always wondering if Xiao Yanmin had hidden his money again. She was always wondering if the Xiao family's property would belong to her. She was always wondering if someone would take her husband away.
It is for this reason that I feel this person is so short-sighted.
Can two people who are suspicious of each other like this live a good life? This is simply a fantasy.
It was only after hearing what Yan Shuhua said that Yan Qingxue slowly realized that she really didn't seem to care about Xiao Yanmin at all.
Every time when Xiao Yanmin was very tired, she didn't cook a bowl of midnight snack for her. Every time when she was sad, she never thought about the reason, but blamed all the tiredness on Xiao Yanmin. Because of this, their relationship became worse and worse, and they became more and more suspicious of each other.
"If you really want a man to love you, then the most important thing for you is to make yourself valuable. If you haven't even discovered your own value, do you think Yan Shuhua is worthy of someone loving you?"
At the beginning, Yan Shuhua felt that she was totally unworthy of Xiao Jinchu, because she also felt that many things in her life were not as good as Xiao Jinchu's. But later on, she didn't think about this at all, but worked hard and tried to do her own thing well.
Now she has finally opened the pharmacy, and her life is better. Yan Shuhua did not rely on any help from anyone in this process. But think about Yan Qingxue, she lives a careless life every day, and she never thinks about whether to make herself more valuable, but wants to gain value through men, which only makes herself less valuable.
She is simply a pathetic creature.
In the past, if Yan Qingxue heard someone say such things, she would think that the other person was being pretentious and had not considered her at all. But now that she had changed her mindset, she realized how much Yan Shuhua was thinking about her when he said these words.
"You said you have a good education, so what? But do you have a good job? Your father wanted to introduce you to a job but you didn't want to go. You just kept hoping to marry a good husband so that you could have a life of luxury. But have you ever thought about it? If you want to marry a prince, you must be a princess first."
Yan Qingxue listened to what Yan Shuhua said, and she had no way to refute it, because what Yan Shuhua said was indeed right. She was like a walking corpse now, putting all her thoughts on a man who didn't love her. What did this mean? She was just a fool.
"No man will love you from beginning to end. Only when you hide your mystery and let him treat you like an onion, will he think you are mysterious and love you forever."
"If you have devoted everything to him and are used to digging out your own value, then you think that a man can live with you for one or two years, but when he gets tired of you and thinks that you are just this kind of person and even have no passion at all, then I ask how this relationship can continue."
No one knew what Yan Shuhua was thinking today. She actually said so many words to Yan Qingxue in a short time. In fact, the main reason why she said these words to Yan Qingxue was that she hoped she could see things more clearly sooner. However, she found that Yan Qingxue was not what she thought at all.
Indeed, her entire mind is now completely focused on Xiao Yanmin, and she would do anything for him. Just because of Xiao Yanmin's slightest action, she would immediately become very scared, afraid that Xiao Yanmin would divorce her, abandon her, or end up on the streets. If a woman always thinks like this, then what is the point of her living in this world.
"So this is why." After hearing what Yan Shuhua said, Yan Qingxue suddenly understood something.
After losing Zhang Dashu, Bai Shanshan did not abort the child because she liked the child and loved Zhang Dashu as a person. Even though she had nothing now, she was ambitious and wanted to work hard. She wanted to learn this from Yan Shuhua. She also believed that this medical skill had great potential for development and could allow her and her child to live a better life.
"A beggar, even a pregnant woman, even a disabled person who has lost both hands and feet, will have the desire to work hard to improve himself. But what about you? Have you ever thought about it? You go out to the bar every day to drink and have fun. What have you done?"
Li Dagang lost his legs, but he worked hard to live, was admitted to university, and now lives a pretty good life. A disabled person is in this situation, but Yan Qingxue has good hands and feet, so why is she unwilling to work hard?
After being asked this question by Yan Shuhua, Yan Qingxue also felt that she really had nothing to do. Apart from getting her nails done, going out to play, or buying clothes every day, she was basically living like a walking corpse.
She was not as happy and satisfied as Yan Shuhua, and her life was not as free and easy as Yan Shuhua's.
Now Yan Shuhua has opened a medicine shop and has won the respect of so many people. She is also a member of the Chinese Medicine Association. She has come up step by step with her own hands. All of this is due to her perseverance and persistence.
"Xiao Yanmin and Xiao Jinchu are actually the same kind of people, but why does Xiao Jinchu love me more? That's because I love him too. Let me ask you, do you love Xiao Yanmin enough? If you really love him, why do you still look for men outside behind his back? If Xiao Yanmin really loves you enough, why does he keep looking for women outside again and again?"