Even if the child is born, there is nothing they can do to stay with the child and raise him/her all the time. Whether they throw the child to the boy's parents or the girl's parents, it is not good for the child.
So the two of them had discussed it before and decided that they should not have children for the time being and wait until their work became stable.
As for what to say to her parents, Tian Yuan asked Han Luying to tell her parents that she was planning to have a child, so that even if Lin Meiyu and Tian Lisong had any ideas, they would only come to Tian Yuan.
Now Lin Meiyu and the others really asked Han Luying this question, and Han Luying answered it just as Tian Yuan had told her to do before.
"Don't be in a hurry about having children. It really depends on fate. Don't take it too seriously. Just let nature take its course." Lin Meiyu advised.
Although she wanted to have a grandson as soon as possible, she also didn't want to put too much pressure on her daughter-in-law.
They had not been talking for long when Zhang Lanru came over from next door holding Zhang Yan.
"I will smell the aroma of meat in your yard tomorrow morning. I was wondering if something good happened, but I didn't expect that there would be guests." Zhang Lanru smiled when she saw Han Luying.
"You're here? This is Tian Yuan's wife, Lu Ying. This is your sister-in-law next door, you can just call her Sister-in-law Zhang." Lin Meiyu warmly invited Zhang Lanru to sit down, and introduced Zhang Lanru and Han Luying to each other.
"Is she Tian Yuan's wife?" Zhang Lanru asked, and the two of them started chatting with each other.
They were chatting happily there. As soon as Zhang Yan got on the kang, she quickly climbed into Tian Tian's arms and sweetly called Tian Tian "aunt".
Tiantian also likes this quirky little girl very much. You are willing to play childish games with the little girl. The two girls with a big age gap play happily together.
It's winter now and there's nothing much to do at home, so I can just chat here all day.
Tian Lisong and the others did not join in. After dinner, they went to other rooms to twist hemp ropes.
"Have you finished your work? Then the other people in the team don't know either!" Zhang Lanru said.
"It's more convenient to do things at school. They are all my classmates. We are very happy to have good friends around us and receive their blessings," said Han Luying.
"Then don't you plan to hold another one in the brigade? At least you have to let everyone get to know your new daughter-in-law!"
"What's the point of knowing or not knowing each other? You will know what you should know sooner or later. Besides, how many days can the children rest during the holiday? They will be gone again after the New Year. It's so troublesome to get things done. Why make them work so hard? They should have a good rest during the holiday." Lin Meiyu said.
She had been thinking of waiting for the children to come back before doing something, at least to let Han Luying get to know the people in the family. Besides, in the countryside, it would be inappropriate to get married without doing something, it would be the same as not getting a marriage certificate.
Later last night, Tian Yuan secretly told him that after he had done something at school, he didn't want to do anything when he got home. He was busy with his studies this semester and his future work, and he was indeed a little tired. In addition, on the seventh day of the first lunar month after the Chinese New Year, he and Han Luying had to leave to report to the army. He was really too tired this year and didn't want to plan his marriage anymore.
He also said that he and Han Luying would visit the elders one by one and would not be rude.
Lin Meiyu felt sorry for her son, and when she heard what Tian Yuan said, she gave up the idea of doing anything. She also took the initiative to help cover up in front of outsiders.
Speak of the devil, and here comes the devil. As soon as he finished talking about Tian Yuan, Tian Yuan came over from another room, brushing off the dust on his body and asked Han Luying, "Do you have anything else to do? No problem, let's go to my house and take a look."
"It's okay! I'll go with you!" Han Luying got off the kang, said hello to everyone, and followed Tian Yuan.
Tian Tian played with Zhang Yan for a while, and seeing that Zhang Yan was so sleepy that she couldn't open her eyes, Zhang Lanru said goodbye and went home.
Chen Guihua and the others didn't work for long before going back.
In the next few days, Tian Yuan took Han Luying to meet all the elders in the family. Before long, everyone in their team knew that Tian Yuan had found a girl from the city to be his wife.
There were blessings and there were also expressions of jealousy, but none of this reached Tian Yuan's ears and did not cause them any trouble.
Afterwards, Tian Yuan took Han Luying to the county town for a walk and met some of his high school friends.
Tian Tian would often visit Tian Yun and Shen Lingling.
In a blink of an eye, it was the day for the brigade to slaughter pigs. Tian Yuan did not go out that day, but stayed at home with Tian Lisong to help.
Han Luying also stayed and prepared to go with Tian Tian to watch the fun.
Because her daughter-in-law came, Lin Meiyu asked for more meat this year.
After taking it home, I started to stew the meat and prepare to make sauerkraut stewed pork and vermicelli.
On this day, the whole team was filled with the smell of meat. It was a rare opportunity to eat meat throughout the year, and everyone was very excited.
After eating the meat, it was still ten days before the Chinese New Year, and families began to prepare New Year's goods, frying various meatballs, preparing various foods, and going to the supply and marketing cooperatives to buy things.
Originally, Mrs. Tian only planned to take Lin Meiyu to the county town, but after Han Luying heard about it, she suggested that everyone go to the county town together.
"Why are you going? It costs fifty cents to take a bus back and forth. How much will it cost for a family of so many people? Besides, it's useless for so many people to go. You can just stay at home."
"Grandma! You all have to go this time. I have made an appointment with the photo studio in the county town for us to take photos tomorrow. And you happen to be planning to go to the county town to buy things tomorrow, so it's a good idea for us to go together and take a family photo." Han Luying said.
"Family portrait?" Old Mrs. Tian was stunned for a moment. "I'm not going to take photos. I'm so old, why should I take photos? If it's already been arranged with them, then only you and Tian Yuan and the other kids can take the photos. I won't go. It's a waste of money."
Old Mrs. Tian had never taken a photograph in her life. Her first reaction when she heard about the photograph was not the desire to take it, but resistance.
"That won't do! The prices for taking a photo with your group are different. I have ordered two before, one for our whole family, and the other for our family plus my second uncle's family. If one person goes less, I will have to spend one more person's money. You must go with me." Han Luying said coquettishly, holding Old Lady Tian's arm.
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