Especially now that he is older, he is more anxious to have children. He is worried that they are too old and if they have children, he may not be able to accompany the children for a long time.
But at this time, business was bound to be getting better and better, so neither of them was willing to give up their careers, and they had many arguments about this matter.
Tian Tian also knew about this. When Li Jiuniang gave An An a full-month gift, he even called her specially. Li Jiuniang felt that having a child was her own business, and whether she wanted to have a child or not had nothing to do with Qin Changfeng. She also particularly disliked Qin Changfeng discussing having children with her all the time.
Tian Tian was thankful at the time. Fortunately, she loved children very much and had no intention of not having children. She also did not have these conflicts with Gu Zhao. However, she personally believed that having children was quite important in marriage. You should tell the other party before getting married. What if you don’t want it but the other party does? Wouldn’t that be a huge conflict?
No matter which party compromises, they will definitely feel uncomfortable in the future, which will lay a fuse for the marriage.
It’s just that neither Li Jiuniang nor Qin Changfeng thought of this at the time, so there are these quarrels now.
And Tian Tian also thinks that you can't say that because the child was born in your belly, your husband has nothing to do with it. After all, a child cannot be born by yourself.
After marriage, you live as a couple and both sides must make some compromises. As for the issue of having children, you should discuss it carefully instead of being like Li Jiuniang, who would go on a business trip for a week or half a month immediately after a quarrel and then go home.
This is escape. By then, the problems of both parties cannot be solved and the marriage relationship cannot continue.
Tian Tian also persuaded Li Jiuniang at that time.
"If you really don't want to get married, you must make it clear to Qin Changfeng. If you are not very determined, you should also talk to Qin Changfeng, such as setting a time when we can get married and have children."
"Besides, you are getting older now. It will definitely be more difficult to get pregnant than when you were younger. As your friend, I don't want you to have a particularly hard time when you are pregnant." Tian Tian said.
Although she loved An An very much, Tian Tian could not deny the hardship of the pregnancy process, because it was indeed very hard. She couldn't eat or sleep. In the later stages of pregnancy, all her internal organs were displaced, and her feet were swollen with a dent when pressed.
This is what Tian Tian had experienced. If possible, she hopes her friends won’t have to suffer this.
Li Jiuniang didn't say much after hearing this, but he was still a little worried. The marriage issue was nothing, and in the end, it was a matter between the two of them to decide whether to continue. Tian Tian just didn't want Li Jiuniang to be sad.
After buying the pager, Tian Tian and Gu Zhao went to the park to row a boat for a while. The weather was getting colder and colder, and if they didn't row a boat now, the lake would freeze and they wouldn't be able to row.
After rowing the boat, the two found a restaurant to have dinner, and then went to see a movie. When the time was almost up, they went back to Ge Huiyun's house to pick An An up.
Now Tian Tian and the others have gotten used to An An. Not only Tian Tian has gotten used to it, but An An has gotten used to it as well.
At the beginning, An An would cry when she couldn’t see Tian Tian for a long time, but now An An doesn’t cry anymore.
Tian Tian told Ge Huiyun and the others the pager number that she and Gu Zhaoxin had bought. Ge Huiyun did not think that they were wasting money. Instead, she said happily, "You should have gotten yourself a breather a long time ago. This thing is so convenient."
"I didn't have much time a while ago, but now that I have time, I took her to buy it. We also plan to install a phone at home, and the workers will come to our house tomorrow."
Ge Huiyun was very happy for them and asked them cheerfully, "Do you have money in your pocket? If you don't have enough, I'll give you more. Mom has money here."
Tian Tian smiled and said, "No need, Mom, we have enough money here. I still have some money. If it's not enough, I'll pay with the money I have."
They are already so old and are almost 30 years old. How could they still need money from their parents?
Especially now that Ge Huiyun and the others are getting older, the money they earn needs to be saved for themselves in the future.
"Since you have money, then mom and dad won't ask. Just tell me your home phone number when the time comes."
Tian Tian and the others smiled and nodded.
After returning home, Tian Tian called his relatives and friends one by one, telling them that he had bought a pager and gave them the pager number.
The next day they waited at home for workers to come and install the phone. Installing a phone now is very difficult. It is not just about buying a phone and plugging in the phone line. If you don’t have a phone line at home, you have to specially pull the phone line here, which costs more.
Fortunately, Tian Tian's home is located in the city center and has a telephone line. They don't need to install another one. They can just pull the telephone line into the house, turn on the phone, and add the phone number to the phone book. It's quite convenient.
When someone wants to call Tian Tian and her family in the future, they can directly find their home phone number in the phone book. Now they have a thick phone book with all the phone numbers from all over the country, which can all be found in the phone book.
These telephone workers were very fast and they were used to this job, so it only took them about an hour to install the phone.
"Okay, can you guys try to make the call?" Tian Tian called Lin Meiyu and the others and found that the call could be made smoothly. She nodded to the two workers. Gu Zhao sent the two workers out and took the money to pay at the telephone office.
Tian Tian thought that since the call had already been made, she might as well chat for a while longer.
Tian Tian asked about some matters at Lin Meiyu's family. Knowing that everything was fine at home, she also told Lin Meiyu about some things happening here.
Tian Lilin was probably working at home and hadn't gone out. When he knew that Tian Tian called, he came over to ask about Chen Guihua.
During this period, Tian Tian would go to Zhu Xiumei's studio to see Chen Guihua when she had nothing to do, and would also spend money to have her makeup done.
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