"Sister Daya, no matter whether you are a man or a woman, you should live for yourself. Your parents are too patriarchal. You have your own hands and feet and can earn money. Why do you need a man to support you?
When you were dating Sun Yiliang, you were thinking about him all the time and no matter how he treated you, you could still live your life without him, and you would be happier than being with him.
You have to know that you don't rely on anyone but yourself, and you don't need to please anyone, okay?" Xu Ying looked at her and felt very disappointed.
It is really unfair to live in such a family.
Lu Daya nodded, wiped her tears, and followed Xu Ying and Xu Jingjing back to the village with her eyes red and swollen.
When they arrived at Xu's house, Xu Ying gave Lu Daya a basin of water for washing her face and asked her to wash her face quickly.
Lu Daya followed Xu Ying into the yard and saw Mrs. Xu sitting in the yard basking in the sun, while Brother Xu sat beside her and massaged her legs.
Seeing this, Lu Daya was shocked. She turned her head to look at the other members of the Xu family, as if she was used to it. She pulled Xu Jingjing and whispered, "Why is Brother Shengli still massaging Sister Ling's legs?
If my sister-in-law behaved like this, my mother would definitely say that she didn’t know how to respect men and wouldn’t be a good wife.”
Xu Jingjing disagreed, saying that all the men in her Xu family were like this.
"My cousin's wife is pregnant and her body is not in good condition. She must be feeling uncomfortable. What's wrong with massaging her? This is what a man should do."
Xu Jingjing did not hide it at all, and Brother Xu naturally heard the voice and said, "Yes, Daya, your sister-in-law Lingzi's legs are swollen because of pregnancy, I'll give her a massage.
It's not easy for her to get pregnant, so I'll do whatever I can. If I can't get pregnant, I'll bear it for her."
Brother Xu said this half-jokingly, and everyone laughed when he said it.
Xu's mother rolled her eyes at her son: "You are the best."
She doesn't care about this matter, as long as she doesn't have to serve her daughter-in-law.
Besides, she hopes that her daughter will marry a man who can serve her like this, so she thinks that this kind of character of the man should continue.
And there's nothing shameful about it, her man treats her the same way.
Which woman doesn't want to be loved by her man? It's just that some people are just sour grapes because they can't eat them.
"Daya, marriage is a lifelong thing for a woman, so you can't be careless. When the time comes, look for a man like our Xu family who loves his wife.
You must never be like your father. That kind of man is incompetent and beats his wife. To be honest, it is a character problem. He is a loser, so he takes it out on his wife and children.
Don't listen to those people who say that women are useless. Why are they useless? The Party Chairman has said that women can hold up half the sky. Men and women are the same and can contribute equally to the family and the country.
So we women should not believe in those feudal ideas and should not be bound by those things." Many of these words were learned from her daughter and the eldest son's wife.
After saying this, Xu's mother suddenly felt superior to others, as she was also a person with higher education.
"Mom, what you said is so amazing!" After hearing what her mother said, Xu Ying was so shocked that she couldn't close her mouth and gave him a thumbs up.
Mother Xu was a little shy. She felt a little embarrassed when her elder daughter praised her.
"Hey, it's nothing."
Father Xu couldn't help but look at his daughter-in-law with a higher opinion of her: "It seems like you have learned a lot from working recently."
Xu's mother was very proud, that was necessary.
It was the first time that Lu Daya felt such a family atmosphere. She couldn't help but feel a little envious. She immediately believed what Xu's mother said and labeled her standards for choosing a spouse.
"Shitou, Huzi, your aunt will take you to have a picnic." Xu Ying shouted.
When Brother Xu Er and Brother Xu San heard this, they ran out of the house quickly, looked at her eagerly and said, "Little sister, we want to go too."
You're about to get married, but you're still so unreasonable.
Brother Xu was thick-skinned. He was not affected by what Mother Xu said at all: "I am going to be a bodyguard for my younger sister to protect her."
Third brother Xu immediately showed off: "Mom, I'm good at martial arts. I learned a lot of skills in the team. I can protect my little sister better." After he said that, he performed a few moves in the yard.
Brother Xu San's transportation unit is quite strict. Many of these goods are long-distance goods, and they may encounter any dangers on the road. In addition, the public security in this era is not as good as in later generations, and there are many illegal elements.
These people not only have to know how to drive, but also know kung fu.
"Go away, go away." Xu's mother was very disgusted.
Second and Third Brother Xu cheered and quickly walked to Xu Ying: "Little sister, do you need to bring anything?"
"Bring a pot, some seasonings, and a knife."
The three-person group turned into a large group of seven.
What Xu Ying didn't expect was that Gu Fuying came with Gu Fuzhu and Xu Qiuye. They rode bicycles and were very excited when they saw Xu Ying.
"Yingying, I miss you so much. You're so awesome. My parents praise you every day at home." Gu Fuying's ears were callused from listening to her.
"How did you get millions of orders in just seven days?
You don't know that you are famous now. Everyone in our county knows you, and your workshop is really amazing."
This is really a case of one person alone being able to feed the entire Yushan Commune.
Gu Fuzhu looked at Xu Ying with sparkling eyes. Her father was the newly appointed director, and he was full of praise for Xu Ying, saying that Xu Ying had brought economic development to the county.
She didn't understand a lot of things, but she knew Xu Ying was very capable, and even her father admired her very much.
"Where are you going with this big pot?" Gu Fuying's face was full of curiosity. He looked around and then withdrew his eyes in disappointment.
"Let's go for a picnic! My little sister said so." Brother Xu answered quickly. Although he didn't know what it was for, when he saw Xu Qiuye standing nearby, Brother Xu ran over quickly.
He took the bike from her.
"Why is he carrying something?" Brother Xu asked curiously.
Xu Qiuye smiled shyly. Yingying was a girl who would not take action unless she made a move. But once she did, she blinded everyone's eyes.
Her parents both work in a textile factory, so they naturally know about the big thing Xu Ying has recently done.
From then on, he was 100% in favor of her relationship with Xu Shengcai, and her father almost used a loudspeaker to announce that Xu Ying was her ideal girlfriend.
"My father asked me to bring it. He said that if you have time, you can come to my house tomorrow and follow me to my mother's house." Xu Qiuye's face was full of embarrassment when he mentioned this.
Her father just loves to show off. In the past, he always lost face in front of her uncle. This time, he insisted on bringing Sheng to regain his face. She didn't want to do this, but she couldn't stand her father begging her all the time.
"What, go to your grandmother's house!" Xu Shengcai was no longer calm, his eyes were filled with shock. Was this happening too fast? They weren't even engaged yet.
Xu Qiuye thought she didn't want to, so she said embarrassedly, "If you don't want to go, then don't go. My dad is like that, he changes every now and then."
"No, it's okay. I'll go." Xu Sheng felt that his brain was not enough and he felt dizzy.
(End of this chapter)