Qin Ruchu: "When your husband cheats on you, you still have to try to please him. This is the tragedy of women in this era."

Why does she fight? Because she hopes that one day she will end up in the same situation as him. She hopes that her wings will be clipped and she hopes that she can continue to fly high in the sky.

System: "Yes, in this era, men are the sky of women. If the sky falls, they will be destroyed. So the sky can fall, men can be thrown away, and women can be pleased?"

Everyone felt sad when they heard this. Yes, men can hurt women, but women can complain and express their opinions, which must be accepted with magnanimity.

Qin Ruchu sighed: "Dear system, continue."

System: "Okay, host, Sun Zhiyan watched Yang Shixu and Yan Siyin being so affectionate and loving, and then looked at herself, staying alone in an empty room every day, unable to sleep. She turned completely evil. She thought it was all Yan Siyin's fault. If she had seduced Yang Shixu, Yang Shixu would have treated her like this.

At this time, Yan Siyin was reported to be pregnant. Sun Zhiyan thought of her own childless body and was overwhelmed with grief. She was so upset that she pushed Yan Siyin to the ground. Yan Siyin's child was not saved. Yang Shixu was furious and locked her up. She was only released recently.

Qin Ruchu looked at Sun Zhiyan: "No wonder she looks so haggard."

Everyone also looked at Sun Zhiyan, their eyes were full of compassion and disdain. The compassionate ones thought that her husband was protecting her and the person who hurt her, while Sun Zhiyan did not commit a big mistake and she was just taking revenge on the person who hurt her. The disdainful ones thought that she should not have attacked the pregnant woman no matter what, because the child was innocent.

System: "But, she was locked in the room, crying day and night, could she become exhausted?"

Qin Ruchu: "What's the point of crying? A man who loves you will feel sorry for you even if you cry your eyes out. Sun Zhiyan knows that what she should do most at this time is to keep her position as the wife of the first wife. This is the only power she has and the only power she can touch. What power is more important to a man? Marry a man to get clothes and food. From this sentence, we can see that men are not to be loved, but to be used."

Everyone looked at Qin Ruchu in disbelief, and then quickly lowered their eyes for fear that she might notice something was wrong. It was the first time they had heard such remarks. They were taught since childhood to be faithful, to love their family, their husband, and their children. In short, to give everything for their family and their small family. No one had ever told them that to love themselves, they must love their husband too much.

The one who was most shocked was Sun Zhiyan. Her parents loved each other so she took it for granted that all couples in the world were like that. Her mother loved her father very much and she was influenced by her mother and felt that her body and mind should belong to her husband. Could it be that her perception was wrong?

System: "The host is right. Yan Siyin has done a very good job on this point."

Qin Ru's interest: [Please tell me more about it.]

System: "Yan Siyin, the daughter of Master Yan of Baitong Academy, has had a clear goal since she was young, which is to become the head wife of a large family, surrounded by servants, and enjoy a life of wealth and glory. To this end, in addition to studying music, chess, calligraphy and painting, and dabbling in the Four Books and Five Classics, she also took the trouble to invite several grandmothers who had left the palace to learn various knowledge such as rules and perfume making from them. When she was about ten years old, she began to look for a partner for herself."

Qin Ruchu was stunned: "How amazing."

At that time, she was obsessed with money. She studied to make money. In addition, she also picked up garbage, collected junk, and worked part-time. In short, she tried every way to make money. She never thought about the future, such as getting married.

System: "Yes, but her family background is too low. If she were the wife of a big family, she could marry the illegitimate son of a big family as his legal wife."

This was still based on her own good conditions. Although she was not even the principal wife, she could only be a concubine. After all, the concubines of large families often married the concubines of high-ranking officials, and the wives of the clan leaders of large families were usually the legitimate daughters of high-ranking officials. She was the daughter of a small scholar, but they were attracted to her at all.

Qin Ruchu: "So she chose Yang Shixu?"

System: "That's right. It was Yang Shixu who fell in love with her first. Yan Siyin was knowledgeable and talented, so it was difficult for Yang Shixu to be attracted to her. Yan Siyin noticed his feelings and pushed the relationship forward. However, what made her decide to marry him was Yang Shixu's protection of her and his determination to marry her."

Qin Ruchu: "Does she know that Yang Shixu is already married?"

System: "I know. She even sent someone to inquire about Sun Zhiyan. After the inquiry, she felt that she was not bad, so she did not reject Yang Shixu. Her goal was to be a royal wife and a member of the Bo family. Although Yang Shixu's father was not good, Yang Shixu was okay. He could maintain the status quo and had a solid foundation. When her child was born, she would train him well and her power and glory would continue."

Qin Ruchu admired him: "You think so far ahead."

System: "Then how can she marry into the family as Yang Shixu's wife? Her goal has always been to be rich and powerful, so when she came in, she took Sun Zhiyan's housekeeper power and urged Yang Shixu to make progress. People like her are the wives of the head of a family, while people like Sun Zhiyan are full of love and affection."

Love can be eaten as food, and it's okay to use it as a condiment occasionally, or as the center of life... No one is that idle. In life, there are many things more important than love, such as having enough food and eating good food. If a woman always thinks about love, can she say that she has never suffered?

Qin Ruchu: "Actually, Yan Siyin is also a talent, but unfortunately her world is limited to the small world of the harem, so she can't compete with another woman. If she can get power through men, I believe she will definitely choose this path."

A girl with such a clear goal will definitely know that others are not as reliable as herself. If she can get it through her own hands, why go through others' hands? No matter how reliable others are, they are not as reliable as herself.

System: "The host is really smart. Yan Siyin has lamented more than once that a woman can take the imperial examination, but she also wants to take the examination to become an official. If she can become an official, she won't have to urge Yang Shixu to make progress. It is much easier for her to urge herself than to urge Yang Shixu."

Qin Ruchu agreed with what she said, that it was easier to conquer herself than to conquer others, as for the women's science, she had never thought about it, because it was too difficult and she had to take it step by step.

When Yan Siyin came in, she saw that everyone was looking at her strangely. She calmly took everything in, smiling as usual: "Let's start the meal, everyone go out."

As she said this, she was going to help the old lady.

The old lady shook her hand away: "I can walk by myself."