(Reading novels is fine, but don't take them too seriously. You need to have your own judgment and understanding. There are many differences between reality and novels, so please don't confuse them.)
Feel free to speak your mind in the comments section and share your opinions, but please be rational.
To everyone in real life, don't be love-struck. Relationships are just a spice, don't throw yourself into them. Love and respect yourself first. A few days ago, some things went wrong, and I've realized that sometimes, your own happiness is the most important thing. Being happy and healthy is enough.
Many people are unable to be truly happy. They wear too many masks, face too much disappointment, and are forced to wear too many facades. But... no matter what, please love yourself first, put yourself first. What's wrong with being a little selfish when necessary? Don't live for others; it's not worth it.
Also... never be self-conscious. You need to know that you have strengths. Don't think of yourself as so bad. Self-confidence is essential. Things that can give you confidence are things you can persevere in. Having hobbies and interests is truly a very fortunate thing.
Girls, love yourselves, cultivate self-confidence, and tell yourselves that you are actually quite good. Make peace with yourselves and don't feel like you're incapable of anything. Anxiety about appearance, body shape, or wealth is completely unnecessary. Confidence is the most beautiful thing; it can greatly enhance your image and overall demeanor.
Don't be socially awkward. Be confident and outgoing; you'll be very attractive! Remember, you'll likely face many more people and challenges in the future. If you don't want to be on the defensive, be more confident and outgoing. Don't be timid or hesitant; don't let your brilliance be overshadowed. You are dazzling and radiant!
Finally, I hope everyone can be happy and healthy, with fewer worries and more time for joy. Be yourself, think about yourself, don't force things, but seize the opportunities that come your way. Girls may be in a vulnerable position in some situations, but being in a vulnerable position in certain areas doesn't mean we are weak, nor are we inferior to others.
Opportunities and initiative are in your own hands. You are the one who decides your own destiny. I hope everyone can live freely and brightly, and I hope everyone can be a strong person in their own life, in control, not being controlled.
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